The opening film of "The World of Man" tells us such a truth, although the feelings of parents and children cannot be separated, they can give way to other emotions.
Bingkun, starring Lei Jiayin, and his mother, spent the first two years of two people, and his mother said helplessly:
Bingyi wants to spend time with his girlfriend, because her parents are isolated, and she is alone, so she has to accompany her for the New Year.
And their daughters are married to love without hesitation, married to their love at first sight, they set up their own small family, so the daughter who is also married out can not return to her original family. (Of course, it is also the stubborn old man who refuses to let his daughter come back)
All the love in this world points to the aggregate, but only the love of parents and children points to separation.
When children have established their own small families, with their own spiritual belonging, with their loved ones, they will build their own nest of love, build their own "empire", and inevitably separate from the original family.
After separating several branches like a big tree, they each grow their own new green on their branches, and then grow new shoots, no one will care about what kind of shelter the tree itself needs, but the absorbing light of each small branch bud can also be fed back to the trunk of the big tree through various channels.
This is the separation and aggregation of small families and everyone, in a sense, more separation is for better integration.
For emotional parents, the children's nest in a certain emotion still weakens their love for their children, although forced, but it is emotional belonging, but also their own place.
The New Year was originally a unity of a big family, but in that era there were various reasons that could only be scattered throughout the motherland.
But the convergence of their own small families is also like the palm of a person's hand spread, all the fingers will be clenched into a fist, although the person is not in one place, the heart is pointed together.
Parents always love their children more than they give back to their parents as children, which has never changed and has always been passed down from generation to generation.
It is said that people are kissed to the bottom, which is not false at all, because parents used to be heaven and earth for their children, and in the inheritance of generations, each pair of parents is only the heaven and earth of others.
When the children's wings are hardened, they have their own home, and after they become the parents of others, they will also become the heavens and the earth of others, and they will withdraw between the heavens and the earth of their parents.
If you want to understand this truth, many regrets and helplessness will be relieved.
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