Parents are the child's first teacher, the family is the child's first growth environment, and excellent parents are inseparable from excellent children.
Whether or not a child will be successful in the future, family education plays a decisive role.
Children who will have a career in the future are generally from 3 kinds of families, and it is not too late to see it now!
1. A family full of free atmosphere
Writer Gao Xiaochen said: Growing up is a lifelong thing, and if you want to become a butterfly, you must go through the transformation of breaking the cocoon. The meaning of breaking the cocoon lies in breaking through the shackles and going to the wider world to challenge and explore.
The happiness of a family is first and foremost directly related to the character of the parents. Parents are cheerful personalities, especially the father or mother of the main party, will bring a loud laugh to the family. There is no doubt about that.
Just like the happy football that Milu brought to Chinese football in the early years. We must all focus on creating happy families.
Because happiness is the most direct expression of family happiness and harmony. A happy family is certainly a family that is free and conducive to the growth of children.
2. A family with a sense of ceremony
What is the ritual sense of life? Deng Chaosun Li gave us the best answer. Wedding anniversaries, each other's birthdays, do not forget to blog to celebrate; no matter how busy the day, you must also squeeze out time to do handicrafts together; every other time to revisit the hometown, miss the good times...
A psychologist once said: Those families that can pass on the "sense of ritual" from generation to generation have a happier parent-child relationship, and the child's sense of belonging, security, and purpose is very high, and even healthier and better academic performance.
A sense of ritual creates a sense of well-being.
Children with sufficient happiness will not be afraid of not showing up in the future.
3. A responsible family
Dong Qing once said: "What kind of person you want your child to become, first of all, you must become that kind of person yourself." ”
You want your child to be a responsible person, and you can't be a person who shrinks back when things go wrong.
I've seen such a story. In times of economic crisis, companies make major layoffs. After many employees knew, the work began to be sloppy, and some even maliciously denigrated and vented their anger, causing great losses to the company.
Only one young man was still reserved for his work, and before leaving, he archived all the precautions and explained clearly, and cleaned up his seat before leaving.
Unexpectedly, he was soon approached by a large company, and his recommender was the manager of the previous company.
The lack of ability can be made up for by efforts, but there is no sense of responsibility, and no one dares to use it no matter how big the ability is.
Educating children is like flying a kite, if the control is too strict, the child will shrink his hands and feet, but if the parents manage too loosely, the child has no sense of rules and is easy to go astray.
Parents must give their children a well-regulated and relatively relaxed environment in order to maximize their potential.
If you want your child to have a broader future and a happy life, you must correctly educate your child
The child has 3 performances, indicating that the parents have done a good job in education, does your child have it?
The parents' way of education determines the future of the child, 3 kinds of children, the future is the most likely to suffer