Mother's love is a warm harbor, comfortable and happy, and is a destination for infinite yearning;
Mother's love is a lush green space, fragrant and pleasant, a pure land that is not polluted.
Maternal love is so great, and it is so ordinary. We can't just enjoy the greatness of maternal love, we should also understand the ordinary of maternal love.
Mother is also just an ordinary ordinary person, her shoulders not only press the pressure of society, but also bear the burden of the family. The mother's love is like a breeze and a drizzle, which penetrates into the child's heart.
"For the mother is just", every mother has also had her own girlhood and is pampered. But since our birth, they have also changed from ignorant novice mothers to omnipotent "King Kong mothers".
Every child is born from the expectations and hopes of their mothers, and in this life, we unconditionally enjoy the warm care they give us.
Maternal love is the most selfless dedication under the heavens, and the most unrequited feeling. Recently, the story of a mother named Chen Xiuying and her three "monkey babies" made everyone deeply moved.
Backward concepts, pro-pro-pro pro- pro-pro
Chen Xiuying was born in 1917 in a remote mountain village in Hubei Province. At that time, it was the Republic of China period, and there was chaos and artillery everywhere.
This remote mountain village has become a "paradise", and the wars and massacres outside can not disturb the comfortable and quiet life of this mountain village.
Chen Xiuying grew up carefree in this environment. But remoteness also means poverty and backwardness, so she, like other girls, has no education and can only work every day.
Chen Xiuying has been sensible since childhood, very diligent, and every day when her parents go to the ground, she will follow closely behind. The agricultural work in the field, whether it is the light work of watering and weeding or the heavy work of sowing seeds and watering manure, Chen Xiuying can do a good job.
She did not have the squeamishness and weakness of a girl, never spoiled, and her greatest wish was to make her parents more relaxed and let her younger siblings have food to eat.
In that backward era, girls could marry and have children at the age of fifteen, and Chen Xiuying was no exception.
For this sensible and distressing daughter, her mother chose to find her a husband who knew the roots.
At that time, everyone's concept was backward, and they did not know what serious consequences would be brought about by the marriage of close relatives. At that time, it was very popular to kiss and kiss, so her mother took a fancy to her aunt and cousin in a neighboring village.
Mother thinks that marriage is not far away, kissing each other, knowing the roots, Chen Xiuying will be able to form her own small family happily after marrying in the past, and live a peaceful and peaceful life.
But I don't know, it is precisely because of the kiss and affection that Chen Xiuying planted an unfortunate seed for the second half of her life.
Close relatives get married and give birth to "monkey babies"
After Chen Xiuying married, she lived a sweet life with her cousin. Chen Xiuying relied on her industrious hands to clean up the inside and outside of the small family, and her cousin also ate hard work, and the two of them lived a prosperous life.
The second year after marriage, the two welcomed their first child. Smart and healthy children have added a lot of laughter to this family.
But after the birth of the second child, the family took a turn. After the birth of the second son, everyone found that his head was smaller than the heads of other newborns.
Because the concept of medical treatment at that time was backward, everyone did not take this matter to heart, thinking that the child was still young and would be good when he grew up.
The name of the second son is easy to feed, so the name of the second son Chen Puppy is actually pinned on the mother's desire to let him grow up healthy.
With the growth and development of Chen Puppy, everyone found that things were not so simple.
While the other children learned to walk, he couldn't even stand. When other children can speak intermittently, he will only make "oh oh oh" sounds like a monkey.
Chen Xiuying and her husband panicked, and they rushed to the hospital to carry Chen Puppy to the hospital for examination. The inspection results were like thunderbolts on a sunny day, making it difficult for Chen Xiuying to slow down for a while.
Because they were married by close relatives, Chen Puppy suffered from a genetic disease that could not be treated. After returning home, all her relatives and friends advised her to give up the child and let him fend for himself!
But the child is a piece of flesh that falls from the mother's body, and what mother is willing to leave her child in the wild and let it fend for itself!
Since there was no family planning at that time, Chen Xiuying and her husband had a total of 8 children, one of which died prematurely, and a total of 7 children were raised to adults; 4 of them were normal, and 3 children were "monkey babies".
Take care of the "monkey baby", half a lifetime has not been out of the village
For an average family to raise seven children, three of whom are disabled, it is something that cannot be imagined. But Chen Xiuying proved with her own actions that "motherhood is rigid".
At first, with the help of her mother, she could go out to work and earn some bits and pieces of money to occasionally improve the living conditions of her children.
Since her mother's death, she has had to take care of her children day and night.
At that time, the implementation of the commune, the daily work time was planned by the production team, so she could not arrange her time reasonably, only to lock the children at home.
Later, when the package production began to be delivered to the household, Chen Xiuying also had more time to take care of the children. Several "monkey babies" have different personalities, some are lively and like to run around, and some are quiet and more worry-free.
As time went on, her children grew up, her husband died, and she began to grow older, but her health remained, which had a lot to do with her optimism.
Her "monkey babies" were taken very well by her, in good health, rarely sick, and the clothes they wore, although very old, were all clean.
Now that Chen Xiuying is 104 years old, there is no way to work in the field, but the national policy is good. The local government has given them a minimum guarantee, which can give them about 30,000 yuan a year, which is enough for their lives.
After chatting with others, Chen Xiuying said that the thing she is most worried about now is: "After her death, her three children have no one to take care of."
After the local government knows, it will reply to her: don't worry, if she is gone one day, the government will definitely not let her three children be left unattended! The state has welfare homes where her children will not be wronged!
epilogue
Mother's love is a brilliant sunshine, hot and bright. She melts glaciers and purifies the soul, and she nurtures life and cares for all things with a broad embrace.
The mother in the article is great, she did not leave the village to take care of the three "monkey babies" for half a generation, and she worked hard to pull the eldest seven children, and now the 104-year-old still supports the family.
Mom is here, home is there. May all mothers in the world be happy and happy!