<< When I really began to love myself>> author: Chaplin When I really began to love myself, I realized that all the pain and emotional torment, all

<<当我真正开始爱自己>>

Author: Chaplin

When I really started to love myself,

I realized that all the pain and emotional torment,

It's all just a reminder to me: live,

Don't go against your heart.

Today I understand, it's called

"Real".

I learned to impose my own desires on others,

How rude,

Even if I knew, the time was not ripe,

The man wasn't ready, either.

Even if that person is me,

"Respect".

When I started to love myself,

I no longer crave a different life,

I know anything that happens to me,

It's all an invitation to grow up.

Today, I call it

"Mature".

When I started to truly love myself,

I realized that I was actually at the right time all the time.

In the right place, everything that happened was just right.

From this I was able to calm down.

"Confidence".

I no longer sacrifice my free time,

No more sketching out any grand tomorrow.

Today I only do interesting and happy things,

Do what you love and make your heart rejoice,

In my way, in my rhythm.

"Simple".

I started to stay away from everything unhealthy.

Whether it's food and characters, or things and environments,

I am far away from everything that keeps me away from the true.

I used to call this "selfishness in the pursuit of health."

But today I understood, it was

"Self-love".

I no longer always think about being right forever and not making mistakes.

I understood today, it's called

"Humility".

I don't continue to dwell on the past,

And no longer worry about tomorrow,

Now I'm just living in the moment when everything is happening.

Today, I live here and now,

And so on day after day. This is called

"Perfect".

We no longer have to fear our own differences with others.

contradictions and problems,

Because even the stars sometimes touch together,

Forming a new world,

Today I understand that this is

"Life"!

There is a passage that goes like this:

"Say in the mirror sincerely twenty times, 'I love myself very much,' and if after you say it, you smile from the bottom of your heart, then you really love yourself." If you cry as you talk, then you simply don't love yourself enough. ”

When I spoke it for the first time, I felt very twisted and difficult to open my mouth. The second, third, fourth time... When it came to the eighth time, the voice began to tremble.

When it came to the 15th time, all kinds of past emotions came flooding in.

We all aspire to be our truest selves, and life should return to reality.

We can't ignore our feelings in order to cater to others, we must love ourselves before we can love others.

Because only when you have the ability to love yourself, you are qualified to be loved.

Because, only when you know how to love yourself, you really learn the skill of loving.

Because only if you make yourself live well, you have a better lover.

Be completely brave enough to be yourself