My friend is in the same situation and inner feelings as you. Facing the new stage of life that is gradually marginalized, some people have a better mentality and can find their own hobbies or spiritual gifts as soon as possible

My friend is in the same situation and inner feelings as you. Facing the new stage of life that is gradually marginalized, some people have a better mentality and can find their own interests and hobbies or spiritual sustenance as soon as possible to arrange their own elderly life in advance; Some people have to toss and turn in the inner tangled conflict for many years; Mixed in the unit of good, will naturally experience this day, but now the spring breeze is triumphant, but with the increase of age to be marginalized and eliminated is also inevitable. Her friend has also been adjusting herself for many years, trying to cultivate various interests and hobbies, but she still finds that she can't easily get rid of that inner entanglement and conflict. In the end, she found that what she needed most in her heart was a sense of value and achievement, and even if she was tired and tired, she would feel happy from the heart. But that sense of accomplishment could no longer be found in her current unit. At this age, her resignation is even more fantastic. Therefore, you need to find a suitable one outside the unit again. The search process itself is tough because what really suits others isn't necessarily right for you. My encouragement to her is that as long as it makes her truly happy from the heart, even if it is a big hard work, it is good.