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Bad behavior teaches children how to communicate to meet each other's needs A common scenario is when a 3-4 year old and their mom shop in a supermarket. Then, the child from the mother body

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Bad behavior teaches children how to communicate to meet each other's needs

A common scenario is when a 3-4 year old child and their mom shop in a supermarket. The child then runs away from his mother and rushes to the aisle where the toys are on his own.

A wave of anger rose in the mother's heart, she hurriedly found the child, grabbed the child's shoulder and said: "Don't leave me when you are in the supermarket, absolutely not, be careful of the bad guys taking you away!" ”

So the child pointed to a doll, and tears rolled down her cheeks. The mother threw a blank eye at the child and was about to walk away, and the child grabbed the doll and wanted the mother to buy it for her. Mom said, "No, you already have 100 dolls." ”

The child began to sob, "Those are different from this." Finally, Mom said, "Okay, but today you can only buy this one thing." ”

From this incident, the mother taught the child how to get what she wanted.

The child knows that what she must do is: (1) run away and find what she wants; (2) ignore her mother's words; and (3) beg.

Once there will be a second, because all bad behavior provides an opportunity to teach and learn. We parents react to bad behavior and teach our children how to meet their needs.

Therefore, all the unreasonable teasing and disobedience of the child is learned from the interaction of the parents with her behavior.

Kids are good kids. If it is not good, it is also taught by parents. #Homeschooling #Education# #幼儿教育大家说 #

Bad behavior teaches children how to communicate to meet each other's needs A common scenario is when a 3-4 year old and their mom shop in a supermarket. Then, the child from the mother body

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