Is it normal to not want to get married in your thirties?

When there is no marriage partner, it will also be full of expectations for blind dates, and when there is a marriage partner, the thought of marriage is fear and fear. Sometimes it feels like a person is really good, and sometimes it is suddenly afraid, afraid of being alone all the time, afraid of a person getting sick, a person dying old.

Sometimes I also try very hard to think about why I am afraid of marriage, whether I am afraid of the other party's cheating, afraid of various problems in the union of two families, or I have no confidence in myself. You can find an object who believes that you will not cheat, but how can the union of two families not be contradictory, and most marriage problems are due to the intensification of family conflicts. Sometimes you want to find a person who is good to yourself, love yourself a little more, and after marriage, you will tolerate yourself, then there may be fewer contradictions, but after marriage, there is no wind and snow in love, and the only thing left is chai rice oil smoke, pinning your hopes on a person who hopes that the other party loves you a little more, and what courage do you have to accept the change in his attitude towards you after marriage.

Happiness is a momentary thing, but unhappiness can last a long time. I don't want to be unhappy for a long time because of a moment of happiness. Because I have failed in my own life, I don't want this failure to continue to the next generation. Life is sweet, but it's really tiring to be alive.