Now young men and women together for a long time will consider going home to see the parents, generally when the woman is led home by the man, the man's parents will take out the best meals to entertain to show their respect for the woman at home, if the man does not take the woman seriously at home, the woman is likely to turn the face on the spot, and the feelings of the young couple for many years may also break down.
There is a young boy who wants to take his girlfriend from the northeast back to his hometown for the New Year, even if he lets his girlfriend meet his family, it is very likely that two young people will be able to end their relationship and enter into marriage, the two are tired of the car, and finally return to their own home, but they did not expect that the family made a table of dishes, just brought the dishes to the table, the girlfriend was going to break up with herself, what happened at that time? Why does the boy's family just bring the dish to the girlfriend clamor to break up?
We all know that the northeast and Guangxi are both put into different customs, in the north if there is a newborn population at home, young men and women who live in the family will always buy a new pair of chopsticks when they bring the object of their love home, which has a very good meaning, which means Tim Ding. Of course, if the younger generations of the family bring their love object home, they will definitely make a good dish and put it on a delicate plate to show respect for each other.
But after the boy brought his girlfriend home, although the meals brought by the family are meat and vegetarian, but these dishes can be eaten in ordinary times, after all, the current society is different, people's living standards have gradually improved, and the man's family uses these dishes to entertain the first girl, so that the girl feels that the man's family does not respect themselves, but the girl did not have a seizure at that time.
Because girls know when they are in love with their boyfriends that their boyfriends are not rich at home, so it is already very okay to take out such dishes to entertain themselves, it seems that girls are not with their boyfriends for money, and the feelings between them are true love, but the most unacceptable thing for girls is that the men's family uses dishes not plates but pots.
He also had a seizure on the spot, the girl felt that the man's family was too perfunctory to entertain himself, plus he was a northeasterner and the boyfriend was previously from Guangxi, the two people's living habits and diet were very different, these two reasons added together, the girl felt that since the two people were not suitable, it was better to separate directly, so she proposed to break up.
Many netizens have expressed their views on this matter:
"Originally, two people are not in the same place, so why use the customs of their own place to ask each other's family members to do the same."
"This girl is so exquisite."
"I can only say that this girl is not open-minded enough, isn't it tiring to think about such details?"
"After all, people are the first time to come to the house as a guest, not paying attention to the point is obviously not to take the girl seriously, it is better to divide, after all, the living habits of the two are not the same."
Personal opinion:
I think that the first time a girl goes to her boyfriend's house, the man still has to pay attention to some of the pots that are at least talked about as dishes to replace the plates, even if the conditions at home are not good, the money to buy the plates is still there, these people still have no respect for girls. In fact, this girl is not an unreasonable person, the reason why she broke up with her boyfriend is because the man's family does not pay attention to themselves, of course, there is a difference in the place where they and their boyfriends are located, so their living habits are different, in order to prevent future family discord, girls choose to let go decisively.
We all know that there is a big difference between the north and the south, one side of the water to raise one person, the two places of people's living habits are also very different, if the young men and women in the north and south of the two places fall in love, one point does not accommodate the other party, then the relationship between the two people is likely to end without a disease.
Of course, when the man's family treats the girl who goes to his house for the first time, he must have the most basic respect, even if the two young people can't come together in the end, they shouldn't treat each other perfunctorily, this is not the way to treat guests.