Many times love comes quietly, you don't know when you like each other, you only know that you like to stay with each other.
Just like some TV dramas we often watch, the female protagonist is always hovering between the male protagonist and the male second, not knowing who her feelings are for and who she likes. At this time, the audience is more anxious, obviously what they see is that they like the male protagonist, why should they have some misunderstandings with the male second?
"East Palace" is such a drama, Xiao Feng has always liked Li Chengyin, but he has some connection with Gu Jian, and finally has a later plot.
Between two members of the opposite sex, you must remain awake and always aware of your emotions, and when the relationship between you becomes abnormal, there will be many signs.
For example, after separation, you will miss each other very much, obviously only a few days apart, you feel that a long time has passed, there is no other party to stay by your side of the day, you will feel particularly unaccustomed, if it is just a simple friendship, it will certainly not be like this.
For example, you will enjoy sharing your life with each other, when you encounter something, the first thing you think of is to share it with each other, after saying it, you will be very relaxed.
Finally, you often show your most vulnerable side in front of the other party, which is because you have taken her as your sustenance emotionally, spiritual sustenance, and it must be liked.
So when you have these signs, you must understand that the relationship between you has slowly become abnormal.
Friends of the opposite sex, the relationship becomes "abnormal", starting with these three signs
Miss each other very much after separation
We will enjoy the days with friends, and we will also like to stay with like-minded friends, chat, drink, and occasionally get together, and we will feel that this life is particularly relaxed, but we will never give up other things for friendship, and we will not miss each other very much after separation.
Because after separation, there are different lives, and they will not think of friends at any time, unless they are very close to themselves, otherwise they will not see each other for a long time.
When you are separated from a member of the opposite sex, but not the feeling of being separated from ordinary friends, but missing each other very much, then your feelings have actually changed, and you have fallen in love with her.
Enjoy sharing it with each other
In fact, people have the desire to share, when encountering something happy, they can't help but share it with their closest people, and when they encounter unhappy things, they need someone to listen to and comfort themselves, after all, people need to have a spiritual pillar, and there is no object to talk to around, and it will definitely be unbearable for a long time.
Like many depressed people, they don't like to talk about things when they encounter them, and they keep things in their hearts all day long, and finally they can't bear it.
But talking is also about the object, the person who makes you always can't help but want to share, is definitely the person closest to you, either the relationship is very iron, or your feelings for her have changed, and this change will become more and more intense.
Show your most vulnerable side to the other person
Everyone has a fragile side, people can't have no negative emotions, always live in the sun, after all, people are flesh and blood, there will always be things they can't solve, there will always be very fragile times.
Perhaps in the eyes of many people, men are generally stronger, but many times, in daily life, you can still see the vulnerable side of men.
Not to mention women, women's endurance is weaker than men's, so they often show a vulnerable side in front of people they like.
Regardless of men and women, when they like a person, they will always hope that the other party will become their own dependence. Therefore, when you always can't control yourself and show a vulnerable side of the other person years ago, then you are absolutely in love with the other party.
epilogue:
Like is not the same to say, because many times love is quietly coming, the relationship between two people is also secretly changing.
When one day you leave the other party and feel very missed, a little something always want to share with each other at the first time, and even when you can think of each other when you eat something delicious, you really like each other, and at this time you can bravely confess.