Opening remarks
Naran Rongruo once said: It is easy to see when it is difficult to see other times, and the flowing water falls on flowers, and the heavens and the earth are on earth. Life is not easy and often difficult, a moment of greed, can not rely on the column.
"Life is not easy and will always be difficult", just seven words, the most miserable gathering and dispersion in the world, like a knife inserted into the heart, the parting after the separation, the wind and rain of sorrow stuffed in the heart, it is difficult to let go.
Time is like ashes, it will always burn away the red dust a little bit, making people wait bitterly, while wanting to give up, while vigorously insisting, just for the glimmer of hope in their hearts.
Yes, people live a lifetime, which one is easy to get?
The meaning given to waiting, the joy of the end, or the eternal sorrow, no one can predict.
Just like us, when we are children, a small lollipop falls to the ground, we will cry for a long time, and if we fail an exam, we will be sad for a semester; when we grow up, we will lose love, worry about work, the parting of relatives, and the impermanence of life... One by one, they swept in.
The heart that had been stained by the world, from the previous softness, became harder and harder, and there was less and less expectation.
However, there is a saying that is well said: In this world, except for life and death, everything else is a small matter.
You have to believe that as long as you have expectations in your heart, all that you have lost will come back in another way; the person you miss will one day be reunited with you!
Imperfection is life
Haruki Murakami once wrote:
Yes, life is not long, only to live well in the present, only to float like a dream, constantly lost, only the flow of years broken, constantly passing.
But the most beautiful thing between people is the encounter after a long absence; the most beautiful surprise of a person's life is that what is lost comes back.
We all have such a fantasy that time can go back in time, play the past encounters again, and repeat all the regrets.
However, a life without experiencing regrets is not a perfect life.
Many things, only through experience, can you know how to cherish, only after experiencing many people, can you know who you should care about, who is the person you need to take seriously.
Beautiful, not static
Nothing in this world is immutable.
Once a young monk was eager to become a Zen master sooner, and he told the abbot what he thought.
After the Zen master listened, he pointed to the white cloud on the edge of the sky and asked: Do you see that cloud is very beautiful?
The little monk replied: It is indeed very beautiful.
The Zen master pointed to a pot next to him: Do you see that this pot of flowers is very brightly blooming?
The little monk replied: It is indeed very bright.
After a while, the Zen master asked: What about the beautiful white cloud just now?
The little monk said: Blown away by the wind, there is no trace.
After a few more days, the Zen master asked him to take out the pot of flowers, and when he looked, the pot of flowers had also withered and yellowed, leaving only the branches.
The host said to him: Beautiful clouds, beautiful flowers, are nothing more than clouds of smoke.
The little monk finally understood.
Yes, the world is always changing, and everything cannot remain static.
The human heart, the slightest bad for yourself, you will be eager to change people; the world is complicated, the slightest thing makes you feel uneasy, you will be eager to escape.
The sea oath between lovers, no matter how earth-shattering, weeping ghosts, grass and trees are sad, it will also be tempered by time, one day, let you think back, sparse and ordinary.
Change is the norm in life.
Those who leave will always be reunited
Remember in "Soul Ferry", there is a story.
When the girl was young, she had a doll that looked like a little boy in her green plum bamboo horse.
But one day, the doll was gone, and she was sad for a long time.
Growing up, the girl worked in a convenience store, and there was a pink bunny doll on the shelf that always looked at her and would follow her.
One day, after work, a bad guy was harassing her, and a man rushed out, not only protecting her, but also dying with the bad guy, and the pink bunny doll lay on the ground.
Later, the girl learned that the dolls of her childhood had been recycled and processed, made into rabbit dolls, and met her in the supermarket.
It turned out that the doll had been protecting her and loving her in another way.
Yes, maybe some people, he left in a hurry, you are too late to say goodbye, too late to confess, too late to say a word of heart... But you have to believe that he must be in other corners of the world, thinking of you, missing you, looking forward to reuniting with you.
What is lost will always come back
In fact, we have been losing all our lives.
The pressure of life makes us eager to cut out the complexity and simplify; the complexity of interpersonal relationships makes us withdraw from more and more unnecessary circles; and even, some people, for the sake of the people they like, lose themselves and strive to become what others like.
The Buddha said: Your suffering comes from your obsession.
Therefore, in this life, people cannot love and cannot, and they are lost and regained, which is a kind of normal.
Everything in the world has cause and effect, and in the present moment, your choice is the result of what you need to bear in the future.
Just like that sentence, the road you have traveled, the people you have loved, the books you have read, and the injuries you have suffered, all carry your quality of life and your future life direction in the present.
Therefore, if you feel that you can't hold on at the moment, don't panic, grit your teeth, and survive, you will find that you will be stronger than you imagined, and you will also find that your efforts will eventually be rewarded.
The sky that has rained will always be the clearest; the eyes that have cried will always be the brightest; after stepping on the pit, it will always be avoided next time; those who leave will always lose before they know how to love.
In a word: when we are covered with scars, we will become better people.
Everything, is the best arrangement, time will give us all the answers, so, show your patience and wait carefully.
All losses will be compensated, and all departures will come back in another way.
Life is to experience the miserable wind and rain, to break through the terrifying waves, so that you can understand: the original fate of their own difficulties, but for the future of you, to pave the way.
A long journey, there will always be a peak loop. The boat to the bridge, natural straight; willow dark flowers bright, another village.
You have to believe that the south wall you have hit will eventually appear smooth, and the winter you pass through will eventually usher in spring and warm flowers.
Author, Frank Fox
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May you find in my words the deep affection of the ordinary years! Thanks for your attention!