A word, a thing, for you, is not enough to hang on, but maybe it can change someone else's life.
The human heart is a ruler, which can be long or short, and what can make the ruler longer is the kindness in the heart. A heart that has been warmed, and has never been afraid of the cold all its life.
Maugham once said, "Meanness and greatness, malice and goodness, hatred and love, can coexist in the same heart without mutual exclusion." ”
When good triumphs over evil, you will find that any piece of ice can be melted by the spring wind.
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Kindness is a pattern of one person.
The true pattern of a person is not only to accommodate his own virtues and faults, but also to accommodate all things in heaven and earth.
During the Tang Dynasty, Daoshu Zen master established a monastery in the mountains. Not far from the temple, there is a Taoist temple. The people in the Taoist temple believe that the monastery is blocking their financial path and needs to find a way to destroy it.
At night, there are often Taoist priests disguised as demons and ghosts, who go to the temple gate to scare people, and even climb up trees.
The disciples in the monastery were very frightened and quietly fled.
After a few years, there was only one Daoist Zen master left in the temple, but the Daoist monks had no choice but to give up all evil thoughts.
Someone asked the Zen master, "How did you scare off those Taoist monks?" ”
The Zen master said, "I, unable, infinite, endless, immeasurable, boundless." ”
It turned out that the Zen master did nothing, but only tolerated the words and deeds of the Taoists, making all the vicious behaviors very ugly, and then consciously losing the battle.
The writer Lin Qingxuan once said: "But I am grateful for the good times and adversities, so that I can embrace the world with a soft heart." A soft heart is the most powerful. ”
On the road of life, you will meet many people, and there will always be some people who do not respect you and even secretly hurt you. If you can accommodate it, then your pattern becomes bigger.
Kind people live as a beam of light, leading the way for themselves while also giving others the direction of life.
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Kindness is a blessing for a family.
I have seen a passage like this: "When you love a person, you can tolerate everything about him, including his bad temper, and the dust on his face, everyone around him; when you don't love a person, you will magnify his shortcomings and think that it is unforgivable." ”
A family that loves each other has "empathy". Everything can be thought out from the other person's point of view, and the answer can be found from the other person's life.
There is such a newlywed couple. The man originally worked in a large company with a monthly salary of more than 10,000 yuan. He lost his job because of the company's layoffs. When he got home, he was afraid that his wife would know the situation and that the "tree fell and scattered" would end.
The man, still the same, left early and returned late, and at the end of the month, he handed over his salary to his wife—he went to a cleaning company and drove a pickup truck. Although the salary is lower, the wife does not complain.
One day, his wife said to him, "After work, remember to bring dirty clothes back and wash them." ”
It turns out that love has a pair of eyes that know everything. The smell of the man betrayed himself. The wife looked in her eyes and hurt in her heart.
When it is dark around, you can still go home, and as soon as you look up, you can see the lights in front of your home, and at that moment, you must be very happy.
When you are tired, push open the door, you can still smell the aroma on the dinner table, and see the family waiting for you to eat together, always unspeakably moved.
The ancients said, "There will be a lot of celebration in the house of goodness." "A person's real luck is not to make a lot of money, but to have a decent home.
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Kindness is the trust between people.
If someone treats you in a way that hates you, you're angry, and you're tit-for-tat, then you're just as nasty as he is.
The person standing in front of you is a mirror - in his eyes, there is a you.
Everyone is seeking advantages and avoiding harms, and they all hope to protect themselves. Kind people, but always protect others, would rather be a "stupid" at some point.
Kind people, bow down to the cows. His words and deeds will make people feel incredible, and then they will be awe-inspiring.
What attitude you use towards others, others will give you the same attitude.
Fifteen years ago, on the streets of Shenzhen, I met a shoe shine man. He helped me wipe my shoes clean. I touched my pocket and gave him a hundred dollars.
He said sheepishly, "I didn't bring any change today, but you wait, I'll go to the overpass and find a companion to change it." ”
In the blink of an eye, he was gone. If he doesn't come, it's worth it. Because the tools for shining shoes, all add up, it is fifty or sixty yuan.
After a while, he ran back sweating profusely and said something like, "I'm sorry to keep you waiting."
At that moment, I was particularly touched. Although I can't help him with anything, I'm sure he'll make a lot of money. His character is a sign made of gold.
Someone said, "The bridge that connects the mind is understanding, and the way that connects the mind is trust." ”
When people interact with each other, trust is a stepping stone. If not, you are doomed to be alone.
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Kindness is the best practice in life.
Faust writes: "The good man, even if he is confused in his pursuit, will eventually realize that there is a right path." ”
Good and evil are the difference between one thought and another. Therefore, a person's goodness needs to control his own thoughts, no matter how difficult it is at the moment and how vicious the person he is facing, you should not be angry, do not retaliate.
While maintaining goodness, you will meet people who are just as kind as you; you will also impress those who do evil; and finally, you will meet a better version of yourself.
There are thousands of paths in life, no matter which way you take, don't lose your good heart. Only in this way can you go further and stand higher.
In the "Vegetable Root Tan", it is written: "The root of the descendants of the heart, there is no root that is not planted, but the branches and leaves are flourishing." ”
A person's kindness, like a seed, can grow into a towering tree, so that future generations can enjoy the dense shade; just like planting flowers, leaving a fragrance all the way.
From this day forward, facing the sun, give every river and every mountain a warm name, stranger, I also bless you...
Author: Cloth coarse food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
The illustrations in this article come from the Internet.