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"I'm a graduate student, and I'm never in love with an ordinary undergraduate."

When chatting with a friend next to her, she said: No matter what, you must find a boyfriend with a similar education as herself, otherwise there is no common language.

This reminds me of the four words "door to door", if it were you, would you fall in love with someone with a lower education than yourself?

01

Don't be afraid of different academic qualifications

Just afraid of different values

02

I am an undergraduate and the object is 211 masters. Learn the same major. I never gave up, and after graduation I studied for a year while working. In the same lab as her, she's my sister...

03

Not aggressive, just talking about my personal experience, I attended junior college for three months and then chose to repeat because of his school atmosphere and some student qualities and personal reasons. If you say something that may be scolded, it may not feel as good as my high school, and there will be excellent people with any academic qualifications, and there will also be mediocre people. However, academic qualifications may really reflect a person's quality cultivation in a large range. If there is something wrong, please point out that my point of view is one sentence: education is not a one-size-fits-all, but it is definitely an important factor.

04

I, a 985 master's degree graduate, can fall in love, don't mind academic qualifications, only mind IQ (not other kinds of quotients). And the truth is that those who are more educated do have a higher IQ (not to discuss individual cases).

05

I am a double non-undergraduate. Let's talk about the double non-undergraduate students I see every day, the weekend roommate sleeps until 12 o'clock, every day in addition to the game, is the live broadcast, the dormitory will always have endless garbage. I asked the only classmate who had a good relationship with me, what are you going to do when you leave the school, and he said, "What do you want to do now, and you won't talk about it until you graduate?" "I have to say that this is the state of most people. Are there good students in the school? Sure there is, but less pitiful. Trying to find a motivated other half who is willing to work together, to be honest, is really hard. So find a Pu Bensheng to fall in love, please first determine whether he can take responsibility for the future, whether he can make progress with you, and whether he is willing to make certain plans for the future of both parties.

06

It is an indisputable fact that some of Pu Bunsen is also very good. But after all, it is a minority, and there are many degenerate graduate students, but there is a saying that is right, the door is very important, like a person, you must try to make yourself worthy of him (her), rather than becoming a burden, so I will still choose a similar degree, at least the probability of similar levels of three views and the angle of looking at the problem is greater.

07

I am an ordinary undergraduate, there are indeed countless people around in the waste of life, there are not many people who study, I can only rely on myself, step by step to grow, I am now the first major, I believe that many undergraduate students do not have my efforts, I am better than you. I eat by my ability, I don't fall, I know what I want.

08

In 16 years, I was still a specialist student and liked a Ph.D. of 985, but he didn't like me. In September of this year, I studied first, and I still like the 985 Ph.D., but he still doesn't like me

09

I read 211 master's degree, is preparing to study for a doctorate, boyfriend Pu ben graduated from entrepreneurship frustrated, said too much, he himself is also annoyed, do not say him, feel that he is always in the empty space plan did not let me see any action, before he told me about the future I will feel very happy, now he told me about the future I really feel that it is nonsense, the economic base determines the superstructure, in the days of desperate running, do you want to let other strong people wait for him? Alas, I will leave if I am disappointed enough.

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I am a general student, I have received the school's scholarship, as well as the National Inspirational Scholarship and the National Scholarship, the English Level 4 and 6 and the National Computer Level 2 VFP have also passed, Mandarin Second Class, self-taught Japanese and Korean, as well as marketers and human resource management.

Not to show how good I am, but because there is indeed a case in Pu Bensheng. And my boyfriend didn't graduate from high school.

He now does sales for a month usually after six or seven thousand, good times more than ten thousand, I average 12,000 a month like this, but he has been working hard. Good love does not distinguish between education and background, the key lies in whether you love him and whether he is willing to change for you!

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Boyfriend 985 master' degree, I undergraduate. Our family conditions are very general, talked for two and a half years, I also took the graduate school this year, really bitter, but fortunately it is successful, the boyfriend is also in the exam, can only say encourage each other, stand in each other's perspective to consider, for the common purpose to work hard, after all, stand higher and see farther, want things are different. I think feelings are the comfort of two people together, nothing else. As long as the two feelings are in place, everything can be overcome and can struggle together.

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I graduated with a bachelor's degree, my husband graduated with a Ph.D., and I worked at a research institute. When I fell in love at first sight, no one knew whether the other party was the king or bronze, after deciding to be together, I admitted that my husband's self-discipline did affect me, and every day when I went home, I was no longer watching dramas and playing mobile phones to do some things, but when he was studying, I read books, and the right person was to make each other more excellent together, rather than simply one person to change for another person, and good love is to support each other and grow together.

A person's character, personality, self-motivation, sense of responsibility, values, these are the important factors that need to be carefully considered.

And the gap in academic qualifications is not impossible to make up.

In this era, there are so many channels for you to improve your academic qualifications: you can insert books, you can take graduate school, and if you are not good, you can take an online class to enrich your knowledge, and at that time, the two will naturally return to the same running line.

But it was very hard, you had to read, you had to work hard.

Those feelings that break up because of academic qualifications may not be that low academic qualifications ruin your love, but your attitude of unwillingness to fight for this love determines the end of the breakup.

In the face of the gap in academic qualifications, perhaps many people do not discriminate against this diploma. It is those who know that their starting point is low, but they are content with the status quo, holding the idea that "I am weak and I am justified, and you look down on me is that you are not right", and live a negative life.

Therefore, for the sake of love, but also for our own future, we must at least try our best.

Try to be someone with a choice rather than being picked up in a relationship.

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