The boy's bedroom accidentally lit a firecracker and was beaten by his father - accidentally igniting it did not necessarily have to be beaten

Appreciation education is the current promotion of education, but appreciation education also depends on what the situation, such as the examination is not good, that is, there is still room for progress, it is best to use the language of encouragement to appreciate education. Criticism aside, encouragement of appreciation, children will have more sense of honor. However, there are some things that are not suitable for appreciating education, such as the topic we are discussing now, the child's bedroom is lit with firecrackers, which is extremely dangerous, and it is necessary to take a critical education, and even need to be beaten fiercely, so that he can remember the lesson and not repeat it.

When it comes to educating a child to beat him up, especially if the boy accidentally lights a firecracker in his bedroom, my point is not necessarily to add punches and kicks or stick to serve, although he lit the firecracker, but also to see if he is intentional or unintentional.' Accidentally ignited' shows that the child hit the heart without igniting the intention, but there is curiosity to control the lighting of the firecracker, in this case the child has felt very frightened, if the adult beats up again, it will cause a kind of harm to the child's heart, but also let the child's self-blame become resistance, aggravate his rebellious psychology, so, in the education of children on this issue, there are many ways and means, use properly, let the child be convinced to take orally in order to play a good effect.

As far as the child accidentally ignites the firecracker, my point of view is still to comfort, and then explain the serious consequences caused by the ignition, so that the child will not repeat the offense in the future, the child knows the seriousness, and will not ignite again, if there is a next time, it means that it is accidentally ignited, to a large extent, there is a deliberate, this time really need to move hands and feet, loosen the bones, let the child remember that this is not the connivance of the times.

To educate children, it is necessary to teach according to the severity of the children's crimes, rather than discipline according to the parents' emotions, let alone impose their own mistakes on the children, and the authority of the adults to force discipline, this is unwise, nor can it play the role of education, aggravating the child's disobedience to the parents, and the heart becomes rebellious psychological aggravation.