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The TV series "The World of Man" is currently airing, and it has been watched for 8 episodes.
"The World of Man" tells the life story of three brothers and sisters of a family in a civilian community in northern China, taking their stories as the context, describing the great changes in Chinese society and the ups and downs of people's lives from multiple angles, in multiple directions and at multiple levels, presenting a Chinese-style family life epic.
In the play, Zhou Bingkun, the youngest son of the Zhou family, is played by Lei Jiayin.
Zhou Jiayin is an actor I like, he is naturally innocent and has some lazy and humble temperament, which makes people very comfortable and relaxed. He played the somewhat silly Zhou Bingkun perfectly.
The plot currently watched is that Zhou Bingkun found the woman he loved, and he gradually moved from the original state of confusion and ignorance to sobriety.
For a late-maturing boy, even if he is eighteen or nineteen, he has "stood up to the sky", but psychologically, he has not completed the construction of "standing on top of the sky", he is still experiencing a long period of growth, still a child.
Zhou Bingkun worked as a worker in a wood processing plant and became a man who had already worked, but he was not really a man, but just a boy who was growing up. When the worker asked him what his ideal was, the big boy blurted out: Be a dad. From these words, it can be seen that his heart is to grow up quickly and become a real man who stands tall in the sky. In the eyes of others, his irrational answer is funny and silly.
When the co-worker was shot for a crime and had to go to the scene to watch the execution, the kind man was psychologically resistant, and it was precisely because watching the execution brought a shadow to his immature heart, so that he could not work normally and lost his job.
It is easy for a child who has not grown up to have psychological trauma, and for a man who seems to be an adult, his psychological trauma is not easy to be noticed, and sometimes even turned a blind eye and ignored.
An immature child, who does not have a clear distinction between right and wrong, good and evil, is good and simple in nature, and even treats everything as goodwill and kindness. Zhou Bingkun, a social person who has just entered the society, is such an "adult" child. And people will only see his "adult" side, but not the real side of his "child".
The child is weak, so cowardice is also associated with him. Fear, fear, do not know how to refuse, credulous trust in others... This is a normal phenomenon in the age of young children.
The "adults and children" who go to society meet good teachers and friends rely on fate.
Zhou Bingkun was undoubtedly lucky.
In the process of his hidden psychological growth, he not only has a mother who loves him, but also an old leader who has forgotten his friendship, and a worker who has ideals and pursuits... Of course, good luck does not happen out of thin air, and the magnetic field of goodness and pure and true nature will naturally attract similarities, even if it is difficult, it will eventually become a kind of fulfillment.
A man's real growth may begin with meeting a woman who is moved and ultimately responsible for it, and the same is true of Zhou Bingkun in the play. It's just that the women he meets need him to bear more things...
Once a man grows up, how he becomes a mature person in the future depends on his initiative in life.
Not to be confused by the small profits in front of you, not to be intimidated by the difficulties in front of you, and the breadth of your heart also determines how far you will go in the future.
How far can you go? It depends on the heart and ambition.