These 12 types of problems may occur in children, which may be psychological problems, and parents must pay attention to them

How can parents judge what is the child's bad tendency to have psychological problems? If the child has psychological problems, how to intervene?

It is difficult for us to give a specific suggestion, but we can use simple and effective methods to pay attention to children's mental health, and effectively prevent the aggravation of children's psychological problems at a time when the mental health problems of adolescents are becoming more and more serious.

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A sign that the child is having a psychological problem

Signal one: boredom

Children do not love school, parents will instinctively wake up, and will go to the external environment to find the problem: the school's teaching method is too rigid? Teachers behaving inappropriately? Kids being bullied at school? Of course, these can all be the cause. But if the child's performance is too different from other classmates, then parents should be vigilant about whether there is a problem with the child's mental health.

Signal two: addicted to the Internet and games

Nowadays, we are inseparable from the Internet almost every moment. But if the child is too addicted to the virtual world, or even gives up his future studies and interpersonal relationships, it may not only be unable to control himself, but there is a psychological problem.

Signal three: procrastination

If your child only occasionally procrastinates, it may simply be because of laziness. But if there is a delay, everything is delayed - control and guidance are ineffective, then what parents should do is not how to "educate", but should use scientific methods to solve the child's psychological problems.

Signal four: don't go out

Children are lively by nature, love outdoor activities, like to find a variety of fun, if you do not love to go out for a long time, do otaku otaku, it is likely to be psychologically problematic.

Signal five: Do not interact with people

There is a difference between being introverted and not interacting with people. Although introverted children do not like to take the initiative to express, but will send out their own interest in people through eyes, body language, etc., they do not want to become the center of the crowd, but quite like to stay in the middle of small partners. If a child does not interact with others, and even good friends are becoming more and more distant, parents must be very vigilant.

Signal Six: Hate the teacher

Similar to the first signal, parents have to find the reason for the child in addition to the teacher's reason. If a child who has not had any opinions about the teacher before and suddenly begins to dislike the school and hate the teacher, it may be a signal that he hates the world.

Signal 7: Hayakoi

Boys and girls have a good feeling for each other, it is a common sentiment of people, mental health children can deal with the relationship between liking a member of the opposite sex and their studies and life, and school parents have a relaxed attitude towards this, which can make it easier for children to deal with this relationship. However, if the child thinks that "love" is everything, and there is no love in the whole world, it is likely to be caused by insecurity.

Signal Eight: Smash things

Violence is a manifestation of psychological problems, and if you let your child draw a picture, take a video, and create a piece of music at this moment, it is likely to present a terrifying work. Many children will shut themselves in the house, desperately trying to drop things, smash things, and read words while smashing. At this time, it is often the child who has a lot of emotions to vent psychologically.

Signal Nine: Attack others

Smashing things is to throw anger at objects, and attacking others is to vent anger at people, which is an act of violence. Especially for adolescent children who have become sensible, violence is not only caused by personality, but also psychological problems.

Signal Ten: Examination Syndrome

Examination syndrome refers to the psychological disease that patients have fear due to poor psychological quality and facing the examination situation, accompanied by various uncomfortable physical and mental symptoms, resulting in examination failure, and can also form a vicious circle.

Signal 11: Irregular sleep

Many children have no interest in anything and love to sleep in bed, day and night. Other children do not sleep, or sleep poorly, which in turn can lead to listlessness during the day. Sleep has also become an excuse for psychological problems, or a way of sustenance.

Signal 12: There is a problem with diet

Many parents often regard the "anorexia" of their children as "picky eaters" and "gluttony" as "love to eat", in fact, irrepressibly do not love to eat and cannot stop uncontrollably when eating, which are the reflections of children's psychological problems.

The above signals, independently viewed, are not big problems, and may also be the performance of the child's adolescent self-reliance complex (commonly known as rebellion). But if a child has more than five signals, parents should pay great attention to it - the child is not only a generation gap with the parents, nor is it just a self-reliant complex of obedience, it is likely that he is experiencing a psychological obstacle that he has never experienced in his life.

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