For a woman who is deeply in love, the betrayal of a lover is tantamount to a thunderbolt on a sunny day, and what is even more tragic than the betrayal is that a woman has a new life in her belly.
If the birth of a child is destined to face the fragmentation of family affection and the hardships of life, then should we choose to give up or insist on giving birth to the child? At the moment of choice, Liu Lili, a helper who lives in Hunan, chose the latter, and at the age of 26 and 27, she became a single mother.
Unwavering love, one out of a hundred. Mothers who are willing to endure hardships for their children abound. This is the courage that comes with great maternal love, but unfortunately it often becomes a kind of sorrow for women.
In 1992, 26-year-old Liu Lili, a well-known local tailor, rented a storefront near the university, and the business was too good to say. In order to take care of the business, Liu Lili hired several college students to help her and do some odd jobs for her. Among them, including zeng fenqi, the ex-boyfriend who later entangled her for half a lifetime.
The 23-year-old Zeng Fenqi is a high-achieving student at a local hospital with a promising future, and during his work in a tailor's shop, he did not understand the world, and launched a wild and indiscriminate pursuit of Liu Lili. In the face of this 3-year-old younger brother with commendable courage, Liu Lili went from no waves at the beginning to touching, until finally it was difficult to extricate herself and fall in love with the other party.
In love, the boyfriend was obedient to Liu Lili, holding her as a princess, and the feelings of the two quickly warmed up, and when they talked about marriage two years later, Liu Lili completely lost the passion of entrepreneurship and only wanted to be the bride of Zeng Fenqi as soon as possible.
I think that in the hearts of every girl, she has experienced or longed for the coming of beautiful love, and she has also fantasized that there is such a man who can love himself to death and live.
In the end, either you are too deeply hurt and have closed yourself with thick armor since then, or you have watched the failure of too many feelings, or with age, you have completely lost your vision of love.
At that time, Liu Lili was looking forward to her boyfriend's return from graduation in her hometown of Xiangtan to marry herself. Waiting for the left and the right, waiting for the boyfriend's decision to break up. Zeng Fenqi exchanged feelings with the little nurse in the internship hospital, and immediately proposed to break up with Liu Lili.
At that moment, Liu Lili felt that the sky had collapsed. As for the child, "he told me to beat the child off", after some consultation, the two sides signed an agreement, Zeng Fenqi paid his girlfriend 3300 yuan to deal with the child, and the two completely cut off contact.
In 2002, Liu Lili met her current husband, and thus married into the Lin family, along with her 8-year-old biological son. Yes, this is her child with Zeng Fenqi. Women are weak, but mothers are strong. After the agreement broke up that year, Liu Lili finally couldn't bear the flesh and bones, quietly gave birth to the child, and then suffered silently for 8 years.
After 7 years, life has some debts, and sooner or later it will need to be repaid.
After graduation, Zeng Fenqi married his wife and had children, and he was very popular, and he thought that he could no longer have anything to do with Liu Lili in this life. 3300 yuan, put at that time has been a huge amount of money, although his "sale" although the loss is heavy, but everything has passed.
However, the yin and yang things soon happened, at the age of 15, the child hit the ball and broke his head, went to the nearest hospital for treatment, the mother and son accidentally met Zeng Fenqi's classmates, met with the child's aunt, and contacted Zeng Fenqi through the aunt.
It was not until that day that the son learned that he had been accompanying him all along and was not his biological father at all.
Suddenly knowing that he has a son, he has a mixture of feelings, and he also plans to perform a bit, catch up with that time, the child does not do school, all day to go to the nearby Internet café all night, considering that the child's aunt is a teacher, the two families reached an agreement, let the child live in the aunt's house to study for a year.
Liu Lili and his wife did not expect that their son, who returned home a year later, had a great change in temperament, as if he had changed a person.
"He wasn't allowed to be at home, and that day in the room he said let him roll." Since he recognized his biological father for a year, the son has regarded his stepfather Lu Haolin as an enemy, scolding him at every turn, and occasionally even beating people.
"My biological father was the vice president of the hospital." Externally, the son is no longer willing to recognize the identity of the stepfather, but often shows off the high power of the biological father.
Sadly, since the age of 15, Zeng Fenqi suddenly cut off contact with his own son, but this did not dispel his son's enthusiasm and admiration for his biological father.
Liu Lili, including the neighbors, felt sad for Lu Haolin. Lu Haolin knew that he didn't have any great ability, but seeing that he had carefully raised 7 or 8 years of painstaking efforts, but he couldn't withstand the slightest ruthless blood ties, he felt that he was both nestled and powerless.
What made the family on the verge of collapse was that not long after, the son was diagnosed with severe mental problems. Maybe it was because of that head injury, maybe it was because of the dilapidated life, in short, the whole family will face huge medical expenses for a long time.
After 10 years, Liu Lili and his wife hollowed out the family foundation, exhausted all their efforts, and their son's condition still did not improve, and Zeng Fenqi, who was eager to clear his responsibility, only paid 8,000 yuan for his son's medical expenses, in addition, he ignored everything about his son.
Now, in the eyes of Zeng Fenqi, whose family is stable, Liu Lili just wants to extort her own money. The son is now an adult and he has no responsibility for his upbringing. Moreover, as early as 26 years ago, they had already drawn a clear line.
At the end of the program, with the approval of the lawyer, Liu Lili is determined to continue to ask for Zeng Fenqi's assistance! Logically, he has this obligation to be responsible to the end.
Rationally speaking, Liu Lili's behavior seems to have some moral kidnapping implications, if she resolutely beat up the child, she had every opportunity to choose her life again, and she had to impulsively give birth to the child, so that she fell into today's self-inflicted situation.
Wrongly paid love, as early as possible to stop loss is the best policy.
But for this family tragedy, I am also more willing to stand on a sentimental standpoint, saying: Liu Lili's approach is completely worthy of understanding.
Although her behavior is not worth advocating, I respect this mother's choice and admire her courage to face her responsibilities from beginning to end. The real mistake is not that she left the child, but the wrong love of that year. Perhaps it is precisely because of this that the mental breakdown of the son is now caused.
Fortunately, this time, Liu Lili did not look away. Although his stepfather Lu Haolin is ordinary, he is a man with a clear heart, a responsibility, and willing to pour out his love. I hope that with his care and companionship, Liu Lili's son can get out of the shadows as soon as possible and one day bring more vitality and sustenance to the future of this reorganized family.
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