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Hello everyone, I'm Mommy.
"Liu Xuezhou, a boy looking for relatives, committed suicide" has torn the hearts of countless people.
Just after 12 o'clock in the morning last night, Liu Xuezhou released a long article, suspected of being a suicide note, and netizens who cared about him quickly called the police.
At 2 a.m., the cover news reported:
Liu Xuezhou was found by well-wishers on the coast of Sanya, and is being rescued urgently because he swallowed a large amount of drugs.
Two hours later, Liu Xuezhou died after ineffective rescue.
In the suicide note, Liu Xuezhou wrote about his key experiences in the process of growing up and the encounters of the last two months, trying to care for him
Those who misunderstand him restore the beginning and end of the whole event:
Liu Xuezhou, born between 2004 and 2006, was three months old when his adoptive parents bought him at the same restaurant in Shanxi.
When he was 4 years old, his adoptive parents died in an accident and he has lived with his elders and relatives ever since.
After his adoptive parents left, he grew up in discrimination and bullying, and was even molested by a perverted male teacher in junior high school.
He had an aunt who hurt him and died early.
The people in the village had been laughing at his origins, and even he began to doubt him, so he asked his family for verification, only to learn that he had really been bought.
A few years ago, Liu Xuezhou saw the news of Sun Haiyang's successful recovery of his son, saw others hugging each other, and he also fantasized that his parents were also thinking about himself?
So he searched for relatives online, hoping to get a response.
Finally, relying on the information on the vaccine book, I learned that my original name may be Ding Jing, and I also found a person with the same name and surname as my father on the Internet.
Just dialed the phone and didn't hear the expected enthusiastic response.
In any case, "it is not a wild child in other people's population", Liu Xuezhou thought that his biological father and mother were the hope of saving himself from the abyss.
With the help of the police, Liu Xuezhou successively recognized his parents, but he learned the truth from his father:
When his parents were pregnant before marriage and gave birth to themselves, dad sold himself in order to get thousands of dowries.
In the short days together, the precocious Liu Xuezhou understood that now that his parents had their own families, they did not want to appear on their own.
So he proposed: Parents arrange a place for themselves, buy or rent, no matter how big or small, just want a place to stay, want a home.
The biological father and birth mother refused, and said in an interview that Liu Xuezhou forced them to divorce and buy a house, regardless of whether they lived or died.
Liu Xuezhou was also blacklisted by his birth mother, and was ridiculed by his biological father as "network beggars and selling misery", and because of this paragraph of "wanting a house" remarks, he was constantly attacked by the Internet.
Liu Xuezhou was angry at his parents' reaction and once wanted to file a public prosecution, but he was soft-hearted when he thought of those "brothers and sisters".
On January 18, Liu Xuezhou, unable to withstand the Internet violence, asked on the Internet:
"Am I wrong to ask them for a home of my own?"
On January 19, Liu Xuezhou again tweeted that he would prosecute his biological parents and "hope to prosecute them for child trafficking and abandonment."
However, just a few days later, the child, who had not yet reached adulthood, chose to commit suicide.
At the end of the suicide note, Liu Xuezhou divided his savings into two parts:
The money earned from their own part-time work is left to the elderly who raised themselves, and the donations of netizens are donated to the orphanage.
Many people thought that Liu Xuezhou would find his parents like Sun Zhuo and be doubly loved from then on.
However, this confession pushed him to suicide.
If Liu Xuezhou's last words are true, then what he encountered is a realistic version of "Why Home".
And his "parents" will face not only public condemnation, but also legal trials.
At least from the information that has been confirmed so far, the "parents" have been suspected of abandoning and trading children.
02
In the past few months, the topic of trafficking, child hunting, and family recognition has been a hot topic.
The children who have been abducted and sold are on the news one by one, and we are touched by the family affection that runs in both directions.
But as netizens said, we also have to recognize a truth:
Not all parents are "Sun Haiyang".
How many children were abandoned because of the trade-offs of adults?
Especially today, in this era of increasing caution in the treatment of proplation, we should be more deeply aware:
Not having children randomly is the consciousness that people should be born with.
Once born, think about it for the rest of your life.
Remembering a detail that happened in the process of Sun Haiyang's search for a child before, it is worth every parent's deep consideration:
When Sun Zhuo was found last December, his first reaction was not to go home with his biological parents.
Although it can be expected that Sun Haiyang and his wife will be very sad, Sun Zhuo still wants to maintain the status quo.
Sun Haiyang learned that he expressed support for his son's decision, rather than forcing the child.
However, he had looked for a child to find a mad demon, and finally could face the child, why would he easily choose to give in?
In fact, this is the most resonant place for parenthood:
He endured more than ten years of suffering, but he was even more distressed that his child had been abducted for more than ten years.
Later, when Sun Zhuo decided to go back to Shenzhen to go to school, Sun Haiyang silently drove 17 hours to Shandong to pick him up.
When Sun Zhuo wanted to return to Shandong, Sun Haiyang drove again, and then returned silently with his wife, not giving the child half a pressure.
There is also the prototype of "Lost Orphans" Guo Gangtang, the father who rides a motorcycle to find a son across the country.
After 24 years, when he finally found the child, he learned that his son wanted to stay with his adoptive parents and did not hesitate to choose to support.
In fact, Liu Xuezhou has been silently paying attention to these news, and he is also brave enough to take the initiative to find relatives because of these beautiful moments.
I believe that not long ago he had hoped for such abundant love.
But the cruelty of human nature is beyond his imagination, and it is not something that a teenage child can bear.
We can't ask all parents in the world to love so deeply, but at least we should give life the most basic respect.
03
Nadine Labaki, director of "What a Home," once said:
"It's the story of a little boy accusing his parents of giving him life in such a chaotic world."
This sentence is also applied to Liu Xuezhou, which is also very appropriate.
Creating life is not great at all, it is just our instinct as animals, and cats and dogs can do it.
What is truly great is nurturing, teaching, and achievement, and trying to make a life feel the love and beauty of this world.
Thinking that it will be the Spring Festival in a few days, those who are wandering outside are probably looking forward to reuniting with their families, right?
For most of us, no matter when or where we are, it is a very happy thing to have a home and want to go home.
But in Liu Xuezhou's short 15 years of life, he has never felt the warmth from home.
He was only 15 years old, and he had worked so hard to find the light of life, to try to bloom.
I once tried to cover up the holes in my heart with the brightest smile.
But in the end, after experiencing all the cold cruelty, he left the world in despair.
All day long because of Liu Xuezhou's encounter, my heart was so congested that I couldn't speak.
May all parents who are born without support receive the punishment they deserve.
Liu Xuezhou, in that world, will definitely get the happiness he wants. As the blogger @Yangqi Yuanyuanjun said:
You must have found a new parent who loves you now.
Did you just get pushed out of the delivery room?
Grandparents, grandparents, uncles, aunts, uncles, aunts, brothers, sisters, seven aunts, eight aunts... The whole family gathered around.
You come to a new world with love and anticipation, and then you begin a new, peaceful, long, good life.