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After having children, I never feared getting sick to being afraid of getting sick

After having children, I never feared getting sick to being afraid of getting sick

When I was a child, although I was dark and thin, I never got sick, and my relatives and friends at home thought that my body was quite competitive, at least it made my mother worry a lot less.

Later, when I developed as a teenager, I unsurprisingly inherited the strength of the Northwestern people, and the fact that I was sick had nothing to do with me.

After going to college, I knew that the smell was beautiful, yoga, running and various exercises were on the line, the physical fitness was better, and the matter of illness became out of reach.

But this kind of physique that has nothing to do with illness has changed after giving birth to a child, and the weight has increased year by year, but the physical fitness is not as good as a year, especially by the perennial torture of waist pain, sometimes wearing a shoe kung fu, the waist can not stand up straight.

After having children, I never feared getting sick to being afraid of getting sick

When there are no children, sometimes I stay up late at night to study until two o'clock in the morning, and the next day it is like nothing, and now after ten o'clock at night, I go to bed the next day and feel all kinds of discomfort.

On New Year's Day, the epidemic once again fought back, it happened that the child had a cold and fever, a fever, a fever, three consecutive days, the fourth day the child was better, I can't do it.

There is no way to bear it, and then go to the hospital to report, but entering the hospital is a waste of time for me, the original plan of the copy was not submitted, so in the gap and other registration time to write the copy.

When I finished what I planned, I looked at WeChat, the various notices in the WeChat group of the child's class, and I had to fill in the form to report, and I continued to look down and busy.

After having children, I never feared getting sick to being afraid of getting sick

Just when it was my turn to call my number, the doctor said without anger: "When you are sick, you still can't leave your mobile phone?" I replied with an embarrassed smile: "Hey, I want to have a good rest, work and children's school things must be done to have a good rest!" ”

The old doctor did not look up and said: "It is really not easy for parents now, there is a parent who silently writes for their children while taking a drip in the morning!" ”

When I think about it, I have only one child and it is much easier, sometimes when I go to school to pick up the child, I see that some mothers are really holding the big one in their hands, holding the small one in their arms, and the big bag is hanging up.

For the fact that I was sick, my mother was very angry, she felt that once a girl who was married far away was sick, they were thousands of miles away and worried about it, and the children had to rely more on the care of the in-laws, and if the in-laws were tired and sick, the last hard work was me.

After having children, I never feared getting sick to being afraid of getting sick

In fact, every time my child was sick in the past, I would rather be sick than myself, because when I was sick, I generally did not delay taking care of my children, taking care of work, and settling the life of a family.

Three or four years ago, once I was going to take a more important national unified exam, because the exam place was hundreds of kilometers away from the city where I lived, and when I went there, I finished the first day of the exam twice, and returned to the hotel at night as if I had been hollowed out.

In order to give myself a good exam status, I planned to go to bed early and get up early, but the accident happened just after lying down. The stomach hurt so much that it rolled straight, without a little strength.

Those few minutes of kung fu pajamas soaked wet, want to call their own 120 even can not pick up the phone, that kind of pain I have never experienced, several times more painful than giving birth to a child, I feel like I am going to hang up, I don't know if it is because of the pain or really afraid of hanging up, the tears brush off.

After having children, I never feared getting sick to being afraid of getting sick

It was hard to stay up until 120 to the hotel, people have not yet arrived at the hospital and it does not hurt, and when they go to the hospital, the emergency doctor can not find what is the problem, it is really an unforgettable night.

Since then, I've been really afraid of getting sick, and I used to change even if I was sick and didn't affect what I did.

Now I dare not get sick, I am a very sensitive person to my body, now a little uncomfortable will be taken seriously, because work, children can not be delayed, this is the middle-aged woman is not easy.

Now I keep exercising and staying healthy, which is the biggest change I have made since entering middle age.

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