When you start your heart, then it is you who tortures yourself, because at the same time as you start your heart, your desire arises. After the desire arises, if you don't get it, it will be more painful; if you get it, you will feel bored.
People want to have something, and after they have it, their sense of security will be established, and even their happiness index will be improved. Everyone calculates an account in their own hearts, and this account is a clear account or a confused account for themselves, only they are very clear.
If a person pursues money purely, then when the number of money continues to grow upwards, the inner pleasure and satisfaction will increase. Once you don't reach the number you expect in your heart, the pain in your heart comes.
If a person purely pursues his dreams, on the road to pursuing his dreams, it is full of many thorns. For yourself, this is nothing, as long as you can achieve your dreams, everything is worth it.
If one person purely likes one person, but the other person does not like himself, then he will feel a kind of frustration, a kind of helplessness. But can each other like it for a long time? This is a new problem.
Life at every stage will encounter a variety of problems, the emergence of each kind of problem, for their own is an opportunity to grow, in the growth at the same time, do you have the consciousness to think? If you don't think about it, then what do you get?
Life will always give us problems, such as after graduating from college: do you want to stay in your hometown to develop? Or go to the field to develop? This is actually a matter of selectivity. It's a test for everyone. What should we do when we have greater development? What can be done? This is also something that needs to be thought out for yourself.
In fact, when people start their hearts and minds, they are also a kind of requirement and a pursuit of self. If there is no heartbeat, it is easier for people to lie flat, and they do not know what they should do next? What should I do? In the process of initiating the heart' thoughts, people's desires and motivations will come out, and this desire and motivation are beneficial, then the sense of self-happiness will be stronger.
When we love life, we are actually loving ourselves. Because loving yourself can give you a motivation, this motivation will bring you more hope. A lot of times what we ask of ourselves, our self-discipline, is to prevent ourselves from becoming the person we hate.
In life, many people gradually become the person they hate, rather than the person they appreciate and like. In fact, this state of life lies in the adjustment of their own mentality, when their mentality adjustment is very good, then all the good luck will come, and all the good opportunities will come to their side.
Every person we meet appears, for ourselves, a kind of fate. Some people accompany us on a journey, and some people accompany us throughout our lives. Everyone is different, everyone has their own characteristics and characteristics.
Life is actually very simple and pure, depending on what kind of mentality we face life. Life must be enjoyed, and every time you enjoy it, you will not leave regrets for yourself. Regret is a kind of missing beauty, and leaving no regret is a kind of free beauty. Different beauty brings different feelings to themselves.