Foreword: Life is short for decades, and in the end, no one can escape the "sanction" of death. As a son of man, if you can't judge the situation in life, especially when there are elderly people who are sick or isolated from the world, there are usually some signs, and if you can be good at finding them, it is the best care for the elderly when they are dying. In particular, in some unwritten rules in rural areas, if the elderly are left unattended when they die, it is considered a bad omen. As a result, some rumors of the death of the old man were circulated among the rural elders, so this article was written in order to attract the attention of the children.
Life is like a burning "candle", and when life comes to an end, there will be more or less warnings
Warning 1: For the elderly who have always been physically tough, if there is a serious illness all of a sudden, this is actually a manifestation of "illness like a mountain", some people are bedridden because of this, and it is too late to go to the hospital for treatment, but it is not better to go home for recuperation.
As children, they are also cared for in every way, but the elderly live in the state of "grinding foreign workers", especially for those who are paralyzed, so that the children are even more miserable, and over time they also summed up the saying that "there is no filial son in front of the bed of a long illness". However, at the last moment of the "burning" of life, if the old man is confused and accompanied by gibberish, he will sometimes talk freely about his childhood memories, indicating that the old man will soon pass away, which can be described as "heavenly reincarnation", and the old man will say goodbye in the way of "rebirth".
Warning 2: "The eyes are dull, the ears are drooping, and the breath is cold", if the old man's eyes appear dull, accompanied by atrophy and drooping ears, cold forehead, incontinence, panting and exhaling breath is cold, it means that the old man will die soon. Experienced rural people will wash the body of the old man at this time and put on a shroud, and begin to burn the "inverted head paper", and start to prepare for the aftermath, at this time to do quiet, so that the old man can walk peacefully when he is dying.
Warning 3: For some elderly people who have been bedridden or continue to be unconscious, if they suddenly wake up one day! Or sit up and talk endlessly, children don't think that the old man's condition has improved, this may be the old man in this way to make the final farewell, because he is unwilling, rest assured that the descendants will not be able to do the last goodbye, at this time the children should listen carefully to the teachings, good words to persuade each other, ask the old man what he wants to eat and drink, must meet the last requirements of the old man, otherwise he will regret it.
Warning 4: "People are born to die", seeing through the idea will naturally be natural, and we must face life and death with a correct attitude. At the last moment of life, even some old people have thoughts that they have never had before their lives, such as suddenly wanting to eat "delicacies from the mountains and seas" or wanting to drink water from a certain place, or their appetite suddenly becomes better, and they don't eat enough or drink enough.
Warning five: "move with affection, know with reason", the elderly will be reluctant to give up when they are dying, as children to be good at discovering, for the elderly who can not speak at the last moment, or look at the children with a look that has never been, at this time the children should know how to communicate with the old people's hearts, give the elderly the last care, and understand the people and things that the old people can not let go.
Written at the end: Sentimental parting will always make people sad and choked, at the moment when life is coming to an end, the living people should see the departure of their loved ones as a "release of the soul", since people can't stop it, they can only do their best to let the old man go with peace of mind.