Testimonial: Children and our life to experience 6 separation, I hope we cherish the time with children.
In the previous article, I also wrote this paragraph, and today I basically watched the video of Huaiyuan's family giving Huaiyuan the correct birthday for the first time. The scene was more moving than we imagined, so I still wanted to take it out and put this paragraph, just this paragraph for us parents. Hope to cherish every minute with children.
6 separations that children and we will experience in our lifetime:
The first separation is: the moment when the child falls to the ground and separates from the umbilical cord of the parents; The second separation is: the time the child is weaned; The third separation is: the moment when the child stumbles and learns to walk and is no longer dependent on us; The fourth separation is: the moment the child goes to kindergarten and leaves the mother's arms. The fifth separation is: the moment when you grow up, get married, and start a new family. The sixth separation is: as soon as the suona sounds, the relatives have two lines of tears. It is also goodbye.
For the past 33 years, Huaiyuan has spent the wrong birthday
On the evening of May 29, Li's father and Li's mother's family held the most correct birthday for Huaiyuan in Tangshan City, and it was also the first birthday in the presence of his father and mother after 33 years of reunion. It can be said that in the past 33 years, Huaiyuan's birthday has been spent at the wrong time.
Birthday scene decoration
According to Huaiyuan: In the past, his birthdays were April 24 of the lunar calendar, according to Li's father: Huaiyuan's correct birthday is April 22 of the lunar calendar. In the previous article, I also wrote that the family is for Huaiyuan's birthday. It can be said that it took a lot of thought. After returning from Tianjin, Li's father and his family put almost all their thoughts on preparing for Huaiyuan's birthday party. Sister-in-law and sister made cakes for Huaiyuan - my mother made 34 gifts for Huaiyuan - the venue personally designed and arranged a series of actions, which fully showed the importance of the family to Huaiyuan's birthday.
Before the official start of the birthday party in the evening, my sister-in-law invited a professional photographer, hoping that professional people would record the whole process of today's birthday party and record the important moments for the Li family.
A professional photographer invited by my sister-in-law
Why did you choose May 20 as the date of recognition?
After the banquet officially began, the first thing was to cut the cake for Huaiyuan and sing a birthday song. The next thing is for everyone to start eating. In the middle link, Dad Li talked about some unknown things before Huaiyuan's return at that time, specifically why he chose May 20 to recognize his relatives, and the process of collecting blood before recognizing his relatives.
Sing birthday songs
According to Li's father: "At that time, I received a call from Brother Shang around the 28th, saying that it was suspected that the children were still in the hospital 33 years ago and were still looking for them." Li's father later said: "At that time, he was still in the field around the 2nd to do blood collection, and the 5th was mailed over. On the 16th, I called and said that the comparison was successful. The original plan was to recognize relatives on the 23rd. Later, Brother Shang temporarily had to attend meetings and other things on the 23rd, and he needed to change it to the 20th, and Dad Li said that May 20th was good, and he liked this day very much. 1.520 homonym I love you 2.May 20 is also the day of mangzhong", so the date of May 20 was finally set.
Birthday scene
My brother confessed affectionately, and my mother cried emotionally
In the middle of the birthday, someone suggested that Huaiyuan say a few words. Huaiyuan stood up and said: I am very happy now, and my mood is also very excited, saying that I have not calmed down. Expressed gratitude to all the family. He said that he is now a warmth that he has never felt before, and thank everyone for coming to his birthday. The following is the specific video of Huaiyuan's speech:
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Then Dad also spoke, mainly with some thank-you words. Finally, my brother spoke, and a sentence of affectionate confession to Huaiyuan was moving, and my mother burst into tears on the spot. My brother said: You have never left us for a day in our hearts, and your father, mother, sister-in-law, and little sister love you from the bottom of their hearts. The following is the full content of my brother's affectionate confession:
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To Mom and Dad: Toast tea once, and the whole family will shed tears. Dad Li's heart was deeply touched
The birthday party was carried out in a warm and touching way, in order to make up for the regret of 33 years, I have not been able to fulfill my filial piety in front of my parents for 33 years. Huaiyuan and his wife asked their father and mother to take a seat. Take advantage of today's birthday banquet to give tea to my father and mother.
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Huaiyuan said emotionally: "Father, mother, this is the first time that my son and daughter-in-law have given you tea today, and we will definitely honor you well in the future." Huaiyuan's eyes were full of tears at this time, and he couldn't speak. The daughter-in-law also immediately said: "Dad, Mom, we couldn't give you tea when we got married, thank you for not disliking us and accepting us", I have tears in my eyes when I write this, netizens and friends still watch the video below by themselves, the scene is really moving. After listening to the words of Huaiyuan and Huaiyuan's daughter-in-law, Dad Li was also in tears at this time, and he also proved an old saying: It's not that a man doesn't flick when he has tears, but he hasn't reached the sad place, and at this moment he can feel that Dad Li was moved by Huaiyuan and his wife. said that after a period of time, he would hold another wedding for Huaiyuan and his wife in his hometown in Zhejiang to make up for the regret that they were not present when they got married.
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Huaiyuan and his wife gave tea to their parents and shed tears on the audience
Tears flowed across the audience
Video connection with Brother Shang
At the banquet, Huaiyuan's family connected with Brother Shang and his wife, and Brother Shang's family expressed their blessings at the scene. Brother Shang teased Dad Li on the spot that he was more than ten years younger. Dad Li said: The second child is back, he is younger, and Dad Li said that the second child is back, and his spirit is refreshed. During Huaiyuan's connection, he once again expressed his gratitude to Brother Shang, saying that he would also help others go home in the future.
Connection process
Gift unpacking
Huaiyuan received 34 gifts from his family on his birthday, and many netizens knew about it. Many netizens are close to the word video and leave a message below to let Huaiyuan open the gift on the spot. Huaiyuan responded to netizens and said that a few were taken down on the spot for netizens to see.
At the scene, he opened the gift of 11 years old, which was a four-tone pinyin card that matched his age at that time.
Huaiyuan's 11th birthday gift
The 12-year-old gift is a box of chocolates, which means sweet and sweet.
The family gave Huaiyuan a gift for his 12th birthday
There is also a 33-year-old gift, which is a new dress given to Huaiyuan by Aunt Huaiyuan, which means new clothes and new atmosphere.
Huaiyuan's 33rd birthday gift
Others said that the gifts were made by his mother herself, and he hoped to take the rest as his own surprise and slowly open them.
Epilogue:
Throughout the birthday party, Huaiyuan was immersed in the ocean of love. Although this birthday party with relatives was 33 years late, I believe that in the coming days, the Huaiyuan family will be sweet, support each other, and enjoy the next day.
(Disclaimer: This article represents a personal opinion only.) We advocate positive energy and hope that every day of ours is good)
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Edit: Insights & Discovery
Published: Insights & Discovery
Date: 2024-5-29
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