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More and more people are among the big cities, otherwise, the north, Guangzhou, and Shenzhen will not be so lively.
At the same time, there are not a few people who are very tired in the city. I don't want to go to work, I don't want to be called to drink, I don't want to look at people's faces, but I have to do this for the sake of life.
Zhang Jiajia wrote in "Passing Through Your World": "Drive along all the beautiful roads, take all your favorite people, and leave those shadows behind." Go and see the infinite calm of the lake... Go far away, and the mountains are full of hometown. ”
No matter how far a person goes, he can't get out of his parents' worries and can't forget the scenery of his hometown. Calm down, take a deep breath, and you can feel the fragrance of the earth in the distance.
When you are very tired, go to your hometown for a walk, let people slow down, and then return to a certain point of origin and set off again.
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In the county town of my hometown, listen to everyone's entrepreneurial stories and adjust your mentality.
If you are a post-70s generation, most of you have such a feeling: many people of the same age have tried everything to move out of their hometown and live in the county.
The countryside is becoming less and less busy, but houses in big cities cannot afford to buy, and settling in the county seat is already satisfied.
Usually, I work in the county town, and I can drive back to my hometown on holidays and live in an old house for a few days.
Don't underestimate it, the people who can take root in the county are also people with stories, and their struggle process is not so simple.
Ask a few playmates and classmates to drink together. When it comes to buying a house and a car, everyone has something to say, maybe their money is not as much as yours, but their mental state is very good.
Everyone has to rush forward, but not beyond their own ability, otherwise they will be particularly tired and have great risks. How much ability there is, how much to do, this is the most reasonable arrangement.
Netizen "Ning Dong" said that his family lived in a small county in Anhui, and was originally very poor, but over the years, he became rich. There are many relatives and friends around, walking around each other, eating a meal, and spending a few dollars. The greatest happiness is to go to the library to read books.
Take a few more steps, from this end of the county to the other end, there is no crowded scene, but there is a calm and free mentality.
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In the rural hometown, get together with the elderly and feel life.
There was an old man who told me that one day an excavator was brought from the township to clean up the river. After he heard about it, he took the kettle and the box lunch and went to the side of the river to see the old man for half a day. It was the biggest machine he had ever seen.
Perhaps, it is difficult for you to imagine that the old people in the countryside have a very closed life, but their hearts are particularly simple, and even they have retained the innocence of childhood for a lifetime.
What is a happy life? There is never a standard model, and if you are rich in your heart and let go of your sorrows, happiness will naturally come.
Get together with the old people, you will find a lot of interesting things, but also by their simplicity. In big cities, you can't feel this.
People communicate with each other, always rushing for profit, you will definitely be very tired. To completely let go of "interests" is like a relief.
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In the old house, sleep until three o'clock in the morning, and rest well.
There is a saying: "Every morning, it is not the alarm clock that wakes you up, but the pressure of life." ”
If you can, once you sleep until you wake up naturally, the quality of sleep will be significantly improved.
My classmate Lao Wang once worked in Dongguan for more than ten years. The winter before, he resigned, took the family back to his hometown, built a pig farm, and contracted a large fish pond.
Although life is still busy, Lao Wang said self-deprecatingly: "I am also a freelancer, and my time is under my control." ”
Make full use of your time and labor, serve yourself, and make more money, you will be particularly happy.
More importantly, the cost of living in the countryside is particularly small, and most of the food is self-sufficient. Incomes have been reduced, expenses have been reduced, and the standard of living has not declined. For people who work hard to start a business, the annual savings are more.
Some netizens complained that working in Shenzhen with a monthly salary of 15,000 yuan became a "poor person". In addition to eating, drinking and rent, there is very little left, and if you want to buy a house, it is difficult to go to the sky.
In contrast, the people in the old houses have fewer troubles.
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Taste the taste of your hometown, enjoy the fireworks and relax.
There is a Cantonese man, when he is troubled, he goes to drink morning tea, from eight o'clock in the morning to ten o'clock in the morning. For two hours, slowly make tea, drink some snacks, and chat with friends.
Slow life, who doesn't expect? However, people in big cities always feel that there is not enough time, the pace of life cannot keep up, and if their hands and feet are too slow, they may not even be able to squeeze the bus.
There is a reader, a native of Changting, Fujian. He said that when he had nothing to do, he went shopping, set off from the BaxiGuan, went to The Jichuan Gate, saw the ancient city wall, and then went home. Along the way, eat Hakka food, sweet potato cakes, beef, meatballs, sour chicken offal... It feels particularly exciting.
How long have you not been shopping and eating? Perhaps, you even have very little time to eat well with your family.
Back home, the pace of your life will be completely different. There is always time to make authentic hometown dishes by hand, and you can bring your children to reminisce about the legends of this dish together.
The state of mind is actually brought about by beautiful feelings. Lips and teeth are fragrant, how can it not be beautiful?
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We often say that when a person is particularly tired, it means that they are on the way.
In fact, things must be reversed. When you are tired and can't do it, you actually need to change your lifestyle, and you must understand that a good body and a relaxed mind are the greatest wealth in this life.
Life is a long road, and not all roads have the scenery you want. The most beautiful thing is "homecoming". Taking a step back is not to give up life, but to relax the mood and pursue the real beauty in life.
Just be comfortable with yourself, and don't care too much about what others think.
When I was a child, I always thought, what would it be like to climb over the mountain behind the house?
When I grew up, I finally crossed several mountains, but behind the mountains are still mountains, never ending.
After seeing the scenery of the mountains, let's slowly go downhill.
Life is not long, always leave some time, live into the real self.
Author: Cloth coarse food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
The illustrations in this article come from the Internet.