In everyone's life, there are a few bites of cold overnight meals that cannot be eaten.
You have to swallow it, not put it in front of your eyes in a daze.
Introduction: Some people say: "The rest of life is not long, you should enjoy it, why work so hard", what do you think?
Nine times out of ten, the dissatisfaction in life, the troubles are entangled, and the pain is constantly the norm of life.
The Buddha said, "Life is a suffering. ”
Since troubles and pain are the real life, why don't we have fun in suffering, experience the beautiful things in the world with an optimistic attitude, and boldly enjoy all the pleasures contained in life?
Don't embarrass yourself, don't live with yourself, and learn to shake hands with yourself.
Slow down the pace of life and don't let busyness fill everything we have
The breeze is gentle, slowing down the pace and emptying life.
Busy and tired have become the norm of contemporary people's lives, and I don't know when we started, we have become gyroscopes that dare not stop.
Shenzhen International Trade Tower was completed in only 14 months, creating a "Shenzhen speed" of building one floor in 3 days.
Guided by the slogan "Time is money, efficiency is life", we compete with who can make the most money in the shortest time, in order to have a sense of security in this era, but the more they live, the more anxious they are.
The rich hope to harvest a steady stream of wealth, and the poor hope to jump out of the lower class as soon as possible, but they are constrained by the solidified thinking of society.
On the road of life, everyone is a lonely walker, and anxiety and confusion have become the tribulations that we must go through to break through the cocoon.
Life is never a tight string, but a spring that can be retracted, and the reason we feel tired and tired is that we never slow down to enjoy the beauty of slow life.
So why not slow down and treat our souls well, even if it's just quietly listening to songs, or just lying down and reading a good book.
Carl Hornor, who is known as a "slow life home", once said that slow life is not to delay time, nor to support laziness, but to help people find a suitable balance in life and control their own pace.
A person's best state should be to know when to let go, when to speed up, when to stop, when to jump, only by slowing down the rhythm of life can we listen to the inner voice.
There is no obstacle in life that cannot be passed, only people who cannot pass
Life is not only poetry and distant places, but also countless cruel realities waiting for us, the key is to see what kind of attitude we use to face.
Gao Huilan said in "The Mist": "When people have nothing to lose, they will be fearless and omnipotent. ”
Although the waves of life are constantly lapping, we still have to firmly believe that everything will become possible only if we survive, and those who cannot kill us will eventually make us a stronger version of ourselves.
The waves have the character of "killing and not killing", being crushed by the reef countless times, and then throwing themselves at the reef countless times.
Stumbling all the way, setbacks and failures are inevitable, countless sweat and tears intertwined, when we lose hope in life, we should look at the surging scene of the sea breeze blowing the waves, see the brave appearance of the waves after being struck into pieces by the reef, and should continue to try and fight with the spirit of becoming more and more frustrated like the waves.
Lincoln came from the bottom class, a lifetime of bad luck, but finally relied on the tenacity of repeated defeats and defeats to become the beloved president of the United States.
If life is compared to a journey, then there will be countless bumps and mud along the way, but at the same time there are endless spring flowers and autumn moons, if a person's heart is always covered by gray wind and dust, drying up the heart spring, dimming the eyes, and losing the fighting spirit, then his life trajectory will be beautiful?
But if we can maintain a positive attitude, even if we are in adversity and embattled at the moment, there will be a day when "mountains and rivers are doubtful and there is no way, and the willows are dark and the flowers are bright and another village".
Life is resilient, and your attitude during the trough determines the height of your life.
Don't let meaningless busyness consume your life
For confusion, you have to rely on breaking through, not waiting.
The pace of life in modern society is getting faster and faster, there are more and more channels for obtaining knowledge and entertainment, and words such as "fast" and "efficient" fill our world all the time, which means that we need to practice the art of participle to help ourselves work and play at the same time.
The French writer Romain Rolland once said: "Most people die at the age of twenty or thirty, they become shadows of themselves, and the rest of their lives are just constantly repeating themselves day by day." ”
When we finish a day of tedious work, and before we have enough rest, we have to drag our tired bodies to continue to the next day's work, life has gradually become the assembly line of "going to work- resting - going to work again", and people have long been reduced to machines manipulated by capital in endless busyness, and their minds and souls have become crippled.
We are like the people in "The Little Prince" who sit in circles in the express train and keep going round, because they don't know what they are looking for.
So life is busy and meaningless, but busyness is sometimes a means for us to paralyze ourselves, and sometimes it becomes an excuse for us not to examine our own hearts, and such paralysis will only make us fall like frogs boiled in warm water, little by little until we finally lose our lives.
If life is left with meaningless repetition, where do we go to find the color of life?
Chai rice oil and salt is the foundation of life, wind and snow are the embellishments of life, and the human body still needs nutrition and moisture.
The heart is even more so, may everyone learn to press the "pause button" of life and find the true self that has long been left on the road by us.
On the road of life, everyone is a lonely walker.
Life is varied, sweet and sour, bitter and spicy, sweet and bitter self-knowledge, the only thing that can really help you is always yourself.
Text/Lao Xia Analyst
Sometimes, though never met. But they have known each other for a long time, very subtle and contented