Many parents around them complained: the child's weak body, carrying a heavy school bag, feels that it may be crushed at any time, especially the first and second grade children. They are not very old, not tall, but the school bag is exceptionally heavy, so every time they pick up and drop off their children, the family will help them carry the school bag for the first time.
Parents have different attitudes about backpacks
Bean Mother: The school bag is really heavy, there are ten classified homework books alone, plus a variety of textbooks and stationery, you can imagine a variety. But even so, he still didn't want to help his child carry his school bag, and always felt that it was his own business.
Yang Yang's mother: Every time I pick up and drop off my child, the school bag is carried by an adult, which is really not as tired as he is. Originally, my children were thin and small, and if they carried their school bags to and from school every day, they might hunch over early. And many parents are like this, and they don't feel wrong.
It seems that parents have their own attitudes about the behavior of carrying school bags. The original intention of helping children carry school bags is also to reduce their pressure; without helping children carry school bags, it is also hoped to cultivate their independence.
In this way, in fact, no matter what kind of attitude the parents have, they are all child-centered, and this caring heart is worthy of recognition. However, education experts said that even if the school bag is very heavy, it is impossible to have the so-called "disability"; on the contrary, it is the excessive doting of parents that it is possible to make the child "disabled".
Wanting to give more love to children should be the wish of all parents, but the premise is that the method is used correctly. Going to school and carrying a backpack is originally a child's own business, but parents have to do it for them. For such care, it is really unnecessary, and it is easy to make children lazy.
By the way: Parents work for a day, aren't they tired? Why do you have to take on more things for your children?
In response to parents' questions, some professionals give answers: as long as the weight of the school bag is appropriate, it will not make the child uncomfortable at all, and even compress the spine. The so-called appropriateness means that before the age of 12, as long as the school bag is important not more than 10% of the weight; after the age of 12, it does not exceed 15% of the weight, which is within the tolerable range, without worrying about the child's health problems.
By reference, school bags without children are overweight. Even if it is a first-grade child, their weight is more than 40 pounds, which child can carry dozens of pounds of school bags? Therefore, parents are really a bit worried and over-arranged for their children' affairs.
Instead of carrying a school bag for your child, teach them how to organize it
In the two things of backpacking and organizing school bags, I still hope that parents will focus on tidying up. Learning to organize school bags is more beneficial to children, which is something that has been approved by many "school bully" parents. In their view, tidying up is the most precious thing on the road to learning.
Every night after the homework is done, ask your child to take out everything in the bag and sort it out. In this process, children should learn to break away, and all unwanted things can be temporarily placed at home or thrown away directly.
Next, let the child classify according to the items, textbooks, homework books, tutorial books, extracurricular books, etc., should be classified according to their own habits, so that they can be found tomorrow when the class starts. Some students' school bags, really can only be described as "can't bear to look directly", can be called a large "garbage dump", not only looks particularly dirty, but also a waste of time.
Children's school bags are equipped with different compartments and lattices, and as for how to store them, let the children make decisions. In this process, parents only need to watch quietly, without intervening and speaking. Because the child's storage habits may be different from those of his parents, it is more conducive to his next search.
Seriously, it's easy to sort out a school bag, but many children don't do it alone because their parents don't give them that opportunity. I sincerely hope that in the future, parents can give their children more opportunities to learn such skills early.
The benefits of organizing school bags cannot be ignored by parents
1, let the child learn to break away, all the things that are not needed, can be disposed of early, do not give themselves too much burden;
2. The process of sorting out the school bag is also slowly cultivating children's hands-on ability and sense of responsibility, so that they can develop the good habit of doing their own things;
3, help children learn to coordinate early, no matter what it is, as long as they do sorting and planning in advance, they will be in danger;
4, it seems to be just a simple tidying up of the bag, but this habit will be deeply rooted in the child's heart, so that he can also develop the habit of tidying up in other aspects of life.
No parent can help their children carry their school bags for a lifetime, but they can leave good habits to them. The future days are very long, and children need to master the ability of self-reliance in order to go further on the road of life. All parents, please put away your kindness, those nanny-like care, it is only a harm to the child.