Text/Huai Jin Holds Yu
Title: Jiangsu: The bride's temporary bride price increase at the kissing scene, the groom proposes to the ex-girlfriend on the spot and leaves; high-end operation? The bride at the kissing scene temporarily added 66,000 bride price, and the groom proposed to his ex-girlfriend in anger
It is well known that in our country, the marriage of a man is to pay the bride price to the woman, and this custom has been practiced in our country for thousands of years. The meaning of the bride price was originally a symbol of the marriage, and the woman's family affair after receiving the bride price was already decided
The use of the bride price is to thank the parents, the second is to give the woman a certain sense of security, generally speaking, the reasonable woman's family will not ask for too high a bride price, after all, the cost of the bride price is also from the groom's family, and too much is bound to affect the woman's married life to become embarrassing.
However, in recent years, the evil atmosphere of the sky-high bride price has become more and more intense, and some places not only charge a high dowry fee, but also appear to have a variety of tricks, what get-off fees, change fees, etc. make the man miserable, and even some women's families even do that kind of temporary price increase at the wedding scene.
This is not, today's small editor to talk about a wedding, there is such a strange scene, a bride sits on the ground and asks the groom to temporarily increase the bride price of 66,000 yuan, how will the groom react in the face of the bride's request?
At the kissing scene, the groom was ready to pick up his bride, but before getting on the bus, the bride did not know who was instigating, thinking that the bride price given by the man was too small, and then proposed to the groom to add another 66,000 bride price before he was willing to get on the bus. In the bride's view, the requirement of adding more than 60,000 is not excessive, and giving a little more bride price is also a performance of giving the foot woman and loving herself.
But when the groom heard the request to sit on the ground, he was a little confused, but thinking that this might not be the bride's intention, he still said to her: the family can no longer come up with money, and it is difficult for the kissing person to raise so much money. But the bride obviously couldn't listen to her explanation, saying that if she refused to give it, she would not get into the car.
One refused to relax the dowry conditions, the other did not want to be slaughtered as a pig, and the atmosphere became very awkward. At this time, the groom picked up the phone and called his ex-girlfriend, then left the bride alone, and the bride and his party immediately chased after him. After the groom saw his ex-girlfriend, he immediately got down on one knee and proposed to the ex-girlfriend, seeing that the ex-girlfriend did not refuse, the man picked up the ex-girlfriend and hurried away.
Seeing that the groom proposed to his ex-girlfriend on his knees, the bride suddenly panicked and told the groom that the bride price did not need to be added, according to the number said before. But at this time, the groom refused to forgive the bride and threw her away. The bride's brother saw that his sister had suffered such a great grievance, and immediately tore up with the groom, and the scene once became out of control. Finally, the groom and the bride's brother are pulled apart, and the groom carries his ex-girlfriend away.
After this incident became popular on the Internet, it quickly attracted the attention and heated discussion of netizens, and some netizens believed that the bride's family really got the life of money, and the bride price was discussed in advance, how to sit on the ground and increase the price when receiving relatives, this behavior is extremely immoral.
Some netizens also think that watching this ex-girlfriend smile is quite happy, maybe she and the groom are true love, the bride may be the object of the family urging him to marry, there is not much affection to take into account the groom's feelings, but he did not play cards according to the routine, but was taught a lesson by the groom.
Editor's opinion:
It's time for the wedding, and it's hard for anyone to accept the bride price.
The bride may feel that she is particularly valuable, and adding 66,000 is not a big deal, in fact, such an approach will only make the man feel that you are selfish and will not think about him at all.
In addition, the groom's personality defects are also exposed very obviously, it can be seen that her feelings with her ex-girlfriend are very deep, since the feelings are sincere, why do you want to marry the bride, if it is because of family reasons, it is not difficult to know that he is a person without opinion.
The groom abandons his ex-girlfriend and marries the bride, it is expected that he has seriously hurt the ex-girlfriend once, this time to humiliate the bride on the spot with the ex-girlfriend, and once again hurt the bride, it seems that his personality is very radical, whether such a groom is worthy of sincere trust is not known.