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Da Gang's mother, Ms. Wu, had been beaten badly by her husband, and at that time, she was really unbearable, and in order to survive, when Da Gang was seven years old, she filed a divorce for her husband. The process is very difficult, but thinking that Da Gang's custody has always been given to himself, when he thinks of this, his body is full of strength.
Ms. Wu feels that other people's children have father pain, but her children do not, not only has a lot more love for Da Gang, who grew up in Ms. Wu's infinite pampering.
The young man discovered the secret that his mother had everything he needed, so when he coaxed his mother to buy a game console with him, her mother agreed; when he was influenced by his little friend and begged his mother to buy him a computer, his mother agreed.
Since then, playing games on the computer has become a necessary event in Dagang's life!
Ms. Wu was afraid of not being good for her eyes and always stopped Da Gang from playing for too long.
When Ms. Wu went to work, she would deliberately make a mark on the computer, and when Ms. Wu came home, she knew that Da Gang had not deceived him!
Da Gang felt that he was being stared at like this, and he was not happy to play. Just try to ask your mother for money, skip school and go back to the Internet café to play games.
02、
Later, I would also spend the night in an Internet café, and when I was hungry, I would eat what the Internet café sold.
Ms. Wu repeatedly pulled Da Gang out of the Internet café, so that she could talk about it again, and said softly that Da Gang still did not repent.
When Da Gang went to junior high school, there was a net control center in that era, and Ms. Wu sent Da Gang to the net quit center with a fierce heart.
Of course, the current rehabilitation centers have all been banned, and it is said that the place is to deprive others of their self-esteem and solve the children's problems by force, that is to say, the real problems in the children's hearts have not been solved!
Da just arrived at that place, and as soon as he looked up, the Internet addiction rehabilitation base. The caretakers in that place are very fierce, who want to escape, arrest is a severe beating, and the schedule is very strict, get up at six o'clock, go to bed at ten, everything is solved with violence!
Once in the middle, Da Gang and two friends remembered a good way to sneak out, tie the sheets together, and climb down the window.
That time, when it was Dagang's turn, there was a knot in the middle that was loose, and Dagang fell down like this!
When Da Gang was rescued, he needed to rest for half a year because of intracranial hemorrhage. The key is to spend a lot of money, Ms. Wu borrowed money everywhere to see Da Gang, and during that time, Ms. Wu secretly cried every day.
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When Da Gang recovered from his illness, he performed well for several years, and Ms. Wu also worked particularly hard to live.
In this way, when he reached high school, when he was in his second year of high school, Da Gang's wayward problem was committed again, and he did not want to go to school, so he ran out to work.
When I went to work, I met a few older brothers who played musical instruments, and at that time, Dagang developed a strong interest in guitar. One of his well-mixed brothers suggested that he go to the conservatory, thinking it was cool to go back to college!
Da Gang visited the Conservatory of Music and decided to take the art exam, and it was always Ms. Wu who was running his business, of course, she also spent a lot of money.
The school that Da Gang wanted to enter, the two-month training fee was 40,000 yuan, saying that he would go to school! Da Gang begged his mother, and her mother borrowed money to get the money out;
After the art test score came out, Da gang's professional score was enough, the cultural score was not enough, and his mother borrowed 60,000 yuan from him and gave it to others, and then reluctantly went to that school!
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After going to college, Da Gang found that the classmates were very rich, in order to fill the face, he kept asking his mother for money, he sometimes said that he needed money to rent a venue for concerts, sometimes said that the guitar was broken and needed money, anyway, for various reasons, his living expenses were as high as five or six thousand a month!
In order to meet the requirements of her children, mothers have to work several more jobs in addition to their own jobs.
In her sophomore year, relatives asked Ms. Wu to go on a blind date, and Ms. Wu met Uncle Wang. Uncle Wang was driving a car 4S shop at that time, and by chance, Da gang met Uncle Wang. Da Gang likes this Uncle Wang, because Uncle Wang opened a company, and also asked Da Gang to eat and buy him a computer, which looked so generous!
As soon as Da Gang made a clever move, he wanted Uncle Wang to be his stepfather! He begged his mother, And Madam Wu, to marry Uncle Wang for the sake of her son. After Ms. Wu got married, she found that everything was an illusion, and Uncle Wang was simply a superficial scenery, but in fact, he was heavily indebted!
Therefore, the living expenses of my son going to college have to satisfy my children by myself! Every time Ms. Wu leaves work, she is reluctant to take even a one-dollar bus. On the way to work, riding a bicycle, seeing an empty bottle, immediately pick it up, take a rope and put it on one by one and hang it on the bicycle!
Usually eating is also very poor, Da Gang has been using his mother's hard money, made a girlfriend, and will buy luxury goods with his girlfriend.
Da Gang thought he was spending his stepfather's money.
05、
Once, Da Gang's cousin called him and said why we are both college students, you have so much living expenses a month, I went to college, my parents did not give me a penny, I still have to work on my own! Da Gang thinks that the cousin's family economy is OK, why is this so!
At this time, the cousin told Da Gang a secret, that is, Da Gang's stepfather borrowed Da Gang's aunt and Xiao Gang's friends 3 million, and now he has run away! He also told Da Gang that his mother picked up the rags every day, dressed in a particularly tattered way, and that debt collectors harassed his mother every day!
Da Gang was puzzled, and when he returned home, he saw his haggard mother, and only then did he learn the truth from the mouths of his grandmother, uncle and aunt! Da Gang also learned from her aunt that in order to make up enough living expenses for Da Gang, Ms. Wu sold all the gold bracelets that her grandmother gave her when she got married!
The thin Madam Wu, like a wounded bird, talks to others as if she is afraid of offending people! In stark contrast, Da Gang is white, fat, tall and big!
There is a saying how to say: where there are good years, it is just someone who carries the weight for you! Da Gang, you apologized to your mother, I believe that you will not let your mother worry about it in the future!
I hope we can all live a dignified, decent, and unashamed life!