Recently, Sun Haiyang, who has been looking for a son for 14 years, has finally found his child's video on major short video platforms, and people can't help but feel relieved to see this scene.
In the mainland city of Duyun in Guizhou Province, there is also a strong mother who has been searching for 25 years to find her lost son.
In the process, her husband suffered from depression and committed suicide by jumping off a building. After her husband left, seeing her children again in her lifetime became Zhang Xuexia's biggest spiritual pillar.
Finally, in 2016, Zhang Xuexia found her lost son.
At this time, Zhang Xuexia learned that her own son was actually a netizen who had known her for four years!
Why did mother and son know each other for four years before they met? What kind of hidden feelings are there in this?
The child is lost, and the couple embarks on the road to find a child
Zhang Xuexia was originally a child of an ordinary family in Duyun City, Guizhou, who looked very beautiful and was kind.
At the age of 23, Zhang Xuexia met song Huainan, a veteran, and the two quickly entered the palace of marriage. Immersed in happiness, Zhang Xuexia joyfully sent happy notes to the homes of relatives and friends with her mother.
After marriage, the husband and wife lived in a very harmonious life, and soon Zhang Xuexia became pregnant and gave birth to a beautiful boy, and the husband named the child Song Yanzhi.
With children, the couple feels that life has a head start, and always hopes to do their best to provide a better life for their children.
Although it is not a family of great wealth and nobility, the industrious and simple couple also manage their small days and harmony and beauty. Coupled with the fact that her parents are locals and can often take care of the lives of the two children, Zhang Xuexia feels very satisfied with such a life.
In the blink of an eye, the child is three years old. Xiao Zhizhi grew into a very beautiful child, with big eyes and long eyelashes like her mother Zhang Xuexia.
As soon as Zhang Xuexia had time, she would accompany her children to play games and teach them many ancient poems. The little guy is very smart and learns it quickly.
Because her husband Song Huainan drives a long-distance truck, often runs around, and works as a salesman in a department store, he is often busy taking care of his children.
As a result, Zhang Xuexia often entrusted Xiao Zhizhi to her father to take care of her.
The winter of 1991 was unusually cold, and although Guizhou Province is located in the southern part of the mainland, it often snows in the cold air.
On this day, Zhang Xuexia, who was working overtime in the mall, sent her son Xiao Zhizhi to her father's home as usual and went to work in the mall herself. The father who loved his grandson and his wife made a delicious lunch for the little grandson.
When the little guy finished eating and saw that it was snowing outside, he took a small shovel to play outside the door of the movie theater. The old man saw his grandson running out to play, hurriedly ate a bite of food and went outside to look for his grandson.
But with this blink of an eye, Xiao Zhizhi was gone.
The old man searched for half a day and did not find the figure of Xiao Zhizhi, and the panicked old man shouted Xiao Zhizhi's name everywhere, but he never got any response.
The old man returned home and quickly called Zhang Xuexia, and Zhang Xuexia, who got the news, put down her work and ran home. Along the way, her heart was beating rapidly, full of worry and fear, and at the same time, she hoped that the child would just run to the homes of other children to play, but the truth gave Zhang Xuexia a blow.
After inquiring around with the old father, Zhang Xuexia learned that someone had seen a strange man who had watched Xiao Zhizhi play with the snow, and after a while the man gave the child a lollipop, and then took the child away. The people who saw it thought it was the child's father, so they didn't care.
Hearing this news, Zhang Xuexia realized that the child had been abducted by human traffickers!
Zhang Xuexia quickly called her husband, and the couple called the police together. But in those days, there were not so many camera surveillance on the road, and finding someone in a huge city was like finding a needle in a haystack.
Zhang Haixia and her husband Song Huainan thought that when traffickers abducted their children, they always had to send them to other places, and places such as railway stations and bus stations were likely to be places where traffickers must come.
So in the next few days, the couple and relatives and friends squatted at the train station and bus station, and the police also sent personnel to help find it.
However, a few days passed and there was still no news.
Zhang Xuexia and her husband are unwilling to give up, and this search is a year's time.
One day a year later, Zhang Haixia received a notice from the Public Security Bureau that they had caught a trafficker surnamed Luo, who had sold dozens of children, and Zhizhi had also been abducted by him.
Zhang Xuexia, who received the news, seemed to have finally grasped a life-saving straw and hurried to the public security bureau with her husband, but due to the large number of children abducted and sold by Luo, even he himself could not remember where each child was sold, only that the person who connected with him was a Fujian person.
This information alone could not find the child, but Zhang Xuexia still decided to go to the Fujian area to look for it, saying that even if there was only one in ten thousand hopes, she would also go to look for it.
Her husband, Song Huainan's unit, learned of his experience and gave him a suspension of pay to keep him at work, giving him peace of mind to find his son. Some of his former friends and comrades-in-arms also helped find them.
After settling down in the family, the couple embarked on the road of finding a child with little hope!
The father jumped off a building under pressure to commit suicide
Zhang Xuexia and his wife are just an ordinary working family, and their income is not high. So the savings saved in the years after marriage are limited. Now the two people are looking for their son wholeheartedly, and naturally there is no source of income. Although Zhang Xuexia and her husband saved money, their family savings were spent in a few years.
However, in order to find their son as soon as possible, the couple continued to search while working. Sometimes there is really no money, the two people take advantage of people's inattention to hide in some buildings for the night, but strangers hiding in the building is easy to cause panic among the people around them, so the husband and wife are often driven away by the security guards and even insulted and beaten.
Zhang Xuexia originally thought that her strong husband would be her eternal dependence, but she did not notice that the perennial life of displacement and the thought of her son had caused her husband to suffer from very serious depression.
One day in 2006, Song Huainan, who could not bear the inner torment, chose to end his life by jumping off a building.
Before dying, Song Huainan left a suicide note with only seven words: "I only want my son!" ”
Looking at her husband's cold corpse, holding her husband's suicide note, Zhang Xuexia's spiritual world collapsed! She returned to her hometown exhausted and washed her face with tears all day. She had thought about following her husband countless times, and it was the obsession with seeing her son again that made her let go of the idea of seeking death.
At this time in China, the Internet has been very popular, Zhang Xuexia thought about whether she can use the power of the Internet to find her son?
As a result, Zhang Xuexia slowly learned to go online, and met many people like her on the Internet who were looking for children. One day in 2011, a strange QQ number added her and sent her a photo.
Looking at this photo, Zhang Xuexia was a little excited, so she asked the child if he had a black mole on his left hand? Is there a birthmark on the ass?
However, the answer was no.
At this time, Zhang Xuexia did not expect that the young man who was chatting with him was his son Zhizhi, who had been lost for 20 years!
And the mother and son duo also missed more than four years of time!
"Mom, I'm looking for you too"
In fact, more than 20 years ago, Zhizhi was abducted and sold to Chaoshan in Guangdong Province through human traffickers, and was finally exiled to his adoptive parents' home after several turns.
Although being trafficked is an unfortunate thing, compared to most abducted children, Zhizhi's experience is gratifying.
The adoptive parents originally had three children in the family, and when the three-year-old Zhizhi came to the house, he became the youngest child in the family. The adoptive parents are very fond of Zhizhi, and the brothers and sisters in the family also take good care of Zhizhi, and there is always something delicious and fun that will always let Zhizhi play first. Over time, Zhizhi also developed a relationship with his adoptive parents.
However, in the young Zhizhi's heart, he often recalled some poems, and there was always a kind and warm figure flashing in his mind, but he couldn't see the face of this person clearly. He always recited these verses over and over again unconsciously.
After going to school, children from the same village often bullied him and scolded him as a wild child from nowhere, and the wise wisdom guessed that he should be a child adopted by his parents.
However, for many years, his parents regarded himself as if they were their own, and he could not bear to hurt his parents' hearts, so he always hid this matter in his heart.
Because he was not admitted to college, Zhizhi came out early to work and learn to do business, and over time, he also did a good job in the tea business. But the idea of finding my biological parents has always been on my mind.
With the advent of the Internet age, Zhizhi also began to pay attention to the search for information on abducted children on the Internet, hoping to one day find his biological parents.
On this day in 2011, he saw a woman who had been looking for her son for more than 20 years on QQ, so he took the initiative to add her QQ.
However, after some chat, he found that he did not match the characteristics of the aunt's child, and with regret, Zhizhi never contacted the aunt again. The aunt's son has a mole on his left hand, and his own mole grows on his right hand!
A few years later, his adoptive father died, and before he died, he told his family about Zhizhi's origins and left a will, hoping that Zhizhi would find his family.
However, the hearts of the adoptive parents are contradictory, they know that they should help their children find their own parents, but they are afraid of losing this little son who has loved since childhood!
After a period of ideological struggle, the adoptive parents finally decided to fulfill the last wish left by their grandfather.
At this time, Zhang Xuexia had already spread the photos of her son Zhizhi when he was a child through channels such as the Internet and television platforms. On this day, Zhizhi, who was surfing the Internet, accidentally saw a photo, and he felt that this was not the photo of his childhood?
So he and his adoptive parents found out the photo comparison of his childhood, and finally he determined that this was his childhood! After careful inspection, I found that this Ms. Zhang Xuexia was the same aunt she had contacted four years ago!
Zhizhi immediately left a message for Zhang Xuexia on QQ, and sent the photos of himself when he was a child with the photos of his present.
Zhang Xuexia, who received the photo, burst into tears with excitement, and Zhizhi's appearance now resembles her husband Song Huainan! Her intuition told her that this was her son, whom she had been working on for 25 years.
However, to be on the safe side, she went with Zhizhi to do DNA identification.
Zhang Xuexia's family and friends, Song Huainan's comrades-in-arms, sat in the same room anxiously waiting for the results. Time passed minute by minute, the identification results finally came out, Zhang Xuexia looked at the results and trembled with excitement, and her wisdom was finally found!
Zhang Xuexia hugged her son excitedly and cried.
In 25 years, Zhang Xuexia has changed from a young person to a middle-aged person in her 50s, and her son who once held her in her arms has also started a family! How cruel!
Zhang Xuexia took Zhizhi to Song Huainan's grave, and although the family of three was separated by yin and yang, they were reunited after all!
Then Zhang Xuexia returned to her father's home with her son, and when she saw her grandson who had been lost for 25 years, the old man burst into tears. For more than twenty years, the old man has been living in guilt, always thinking that it is a tragedy caused by his own negligence, and now when he sees his grandson, the old man says that he can finally go without regrets.
In the short period of getting along with her son, Zhang Xuexia also learned that the mole on her son's hand was originally on her right hand, and it was she who lost her child's mental trance and remembered it on her left hand. And the birthmark on the son's ass, with its own growth, has long faded, almost invisible, and because of this, the mother and son duo actually missed four years of time!
Since Zhizhi has now settled in Guangzhou and still has business to take care of, he hurried back to Guangzhou after a short reunion. Before leaving, he hoped that his mother Zhang Xuexia could go to Guangzhou with him to retire.
But Zhang Xuexia refused, saying that the elderly in the family were in need of care and could not do without her. However, whenever he had time, he went back to visit his son and daughter-in-law.
Zhang Xuexia said in an interview with reporters that she has no regrets about finding her son, and now that her son's life is very good, she does not want to increase the burden on her son. At the same time, she also thanked Zhizhi's adoptive parents for raising Zhizhi and teaching kindness and etiquette, she was very content!
brief summary:
Poor parents in the world, among the thousands of abducted children, Song Yanzhi is lucky. However, the 25 years of time missed with his own parents are a regret that can no longer be repaired, and it is a tragedy to be separated from his father forever!
May there be no abduction in the world and peace for all children!