Weifang good people 365
Liu Lianhui, a native of Xingwangdian Village, Miaozi Town, Qingzhou City. In August 2021, Liu Lianhui was selected as a "Weifang Good Person List" for filial piety and love for the elderly.
In Xingwangdian Village, Miaozi Town, Qingzhou City, there is such a touching couple, the husband became a "vegetative person" due to a car accident, and for 19 years the wife has not abandoned, while serving her husband, while taking care of the children, she alone shouldered all the burdens of family life, she is Liu Lianhui.
In 1985, Liu Lianhui and Qiu Yigang married, and a few years later, sons and daughters were born one after another, although they were not rich, but the family's life was harmonious and beautiful. But the weather is unpredictable, a car accident in 2002, so that the originally happy family into the darkness, husband Qiu Yigang although rescued in time to retrieve a life, but since then paralyzed in bed into a "vegetative person". "At that time, he was hit by a rock-pulling agricultural vehicle on a motorcycle, went to the hospital for rescue, the doctor said that he was cerebral hemorrhage, the first operation was unsuccessful, and the second time, after the operation did not have much improvement, so many years have been lying, can not speak." Liu Lian would say.
After the incident, Liu Lianhui could not accept this reality for a while, and felt that the whole sky had collapsed. Soon, the family's savings were all used up, but in the face of her husband's urgently needed expensive surgery, she had to stand up and run to all her relatives and friends to borrow money with her newly adult son. Liu Lianhui told reporters: "At that time, my son had just come of age, and he followed me everywhere to borrow money, and although it was difficult to bear it in the face of other people's incomprehension and cold eyes, there was no way but to grit his teeth and persist."
It is often said that husband and wife are originally the same forest bird, and they fly separately in the face of great trouble. But for Liu Lianhui, she not only did not bow her head in the face of difficulties, but strongly provoked the burden of the family. Three meals a day, all with a small spoon, one bite at a time, because the husband can't speak, even if he is hungry, he can't say it, all depends on Liu Lianhui to calculate the time to feed him. For 19 years, Liu Lian would wash her husband's face, wipe his body, feed him, and serve defecation every day. Although her husband could not speak, she would often talk to him in his ear and chat.
Liu Lianhui recalled that 36 years ago, Qiu Yi had just returned home from demobilization from the army, planted land, driven mountains, and made various small businesses. She and her husband are connected, and she also values her husband as a sincere, down-to-earth and capable person. For many years after marriage, her husband has also been suffering and living a life wholeheartedly, so she can't give up when she encounters a big thing. The world is impermanent, but man cannot lose to life. In these days when her husband fell, Liu Lian would grit her teeth and insist on this endless road with the perseverance and persistence characteristic of a woman, and carefully take care of this man who had dedicated himself to the family day after day. "It is indeed bitter, it is indeed difficult, but thinking of his dedication to the family and his kindness to me, I can't be sorry for him, I have to persevere to the end, take good care of him, as long as he is there, the child has a father, the family is still that family, no matter how bitter and tired, I have no complaints." 」 Liu Lian would say.
Nowadays, Liu Lianhui's sons and daughters have become adults and married and have children, and the burden on Liu Lianhui's shoulders has been reduced a lot, but her children's lives are not rich, and they cannot rely on their children's subsidies. In order to make a living, Under the premise of taking care of her husband's diet and living, Liu Lian would take two hours a day to buy some steamed buns on credit from the steamed bun house and sell them in the streets and alleys, in exchange for one or two0 yuan per day to supplement the family.
"Liu Lianhui's deeds are known to everyone in Xingwangdian Village, and she has supported a family with responsibility and responsibility." Yao Jinxiu, secretary of the party branch of Xingwangdian Village, said that when her husband was seriously ill and did not abandon it, he took good care of it for so many years, and such a family spirit was rare and valuable, and it was an example for the whole village to learn.
Sweetness is not the yardstick of love, and hardship reflects the preciousness of marriage. Although Liu Lianhui is unfortunate, she is strong, and with her persistence, perhaps, husband Qiu Yigang will hear his wife's call one day and rejuvenate the miracle of life.
Editors: Li Fei, Liu Yiqun
Editor: Wang Chunyan