In the old days, teachers were teachers for a lifetime, and now students and parents are gradually devoid of books

In the past few days, there has been an indescribable sadness and an indescribable sense of loss in my heart, and my heart is faintly painful, but I can't say why? Some things cannot be explained in one sentence or two sentences a day or two. Why? Nor can a superficial phenomenon be achieved in a day or two.

This morning's headlines saw a Huawei engineer in Hunan, because of the online gambling ball debt of 700,000, squatting at home and doing nothing, to sell his parents' only house to pay off his debts. Parents have no way, seek someone from some institution to help mediate, I forgot the name of that agency, but I watched the whole video live. After breakfast, the headlines saw an article sent by a mother, her son was a college student, she came back from winter vacation, and she felt unhappy when her son came back... I also read the whole article. It can be said that as long as the headlines are monthly, there are always reflections that the eldest children are college students, so that the father is sad. Especially in the winter and summer vacations, there are more reflections.

Because I went to the neighbor to play the day before yesterday, I just bumped into the neighbor's big sister and got into a fight with his son who came back from winter vacation, because it was a turn of many years, and this child can be said to be the one I watched grow up. The two women's mouths are like this (eating, a few dishes on the table): Son: Buy some cucumbers tomorrow. Mother: Cucumber expensive (cucumber ice, cold, not delicious, this is what she thinks in her heart), the mother only said that cucumber is expensive, and did not say anything later, son: you eat yours, I eat mine. Mother: Son, how much money do you have? Son: A thousand pieces. Mother: How much is yours? Son: I earn 500 myself, you give 500. My neighbor started whimpering, and his son turned and left. As a mother, she said to me: "What I do, my son does not understand, he just came home for the first meal, I was ready to give him a life at noon, the other day I was ready to buy chickens, I want to wait for my son to come back." 」 Why does he say that you eat yours and I eat mine, just the one thousand yuan, and the 500 yuan given by the parents, it is not good to say, you can't buy a table of meals for a thousand yuan, you can eat a thousand yuan for a few days, not to mention why can't he accept it if his parents can accept it? Even if the food is not in line with the taste, just put up with the weather of the month... Why is he so high, even if he has money in his hands and becomes a local tycoon, he can't tell his parents that you eat yours and I eat mine..." I didn't say anything, listening to her whimpering and crying.

I saw this child grow up to college, from primary school to high school, from the county to the city to study, respect parents from childhood, go home is what parents do, but also take the initiative to undertake housework cooking, cleaning, etc., parents improve their lives every week, children are still a waste of money, saying that parents work is not easy. It made our neighbors praise this child. But this two years of college has changed, and his parents have conflicts from time to time, lose their temper, and do nothing... Why? There are problems in the university environment, the child's three views are not correct, do not know what is thrifty family management, what is respect for parents, what is tolerance, what is optimism, what is their own sense of responsibility... Even the time to get up and go to bed has been subverted. It is to play games at home to see mobile phones, eat to open mouths, clothes to reach out, and feel that this is not good and that is not good.

Why? College students in the neighborhood, college students in the headlines, college students in the news, college students in the streets, it's not a matter of two children. Whenever I hear such a child, my heart feels uncomfortable. I wondered from beginning to end why these children had become outrageous.

I remember when the neighbor's child was in the second grade of elementary school, the teacher asked the parents. The neighbor came into the school with me, a female teacher, she said: "Your baby does not like to do calculation problems," my neighbor said: "So what to do?" The teacher said, "Whoever you study is bringing a carton of milk to the math teacher." She didn't avoid me either, and what she said behind her head was coming, I didn't know, and I didn't have the heart to listen. At this sentence, my heart trembled. It wasn't until later that I heard that the female teacher graduated from junior high school and was mixed up with the teachers' college, until now she was mixed with the principal of a primary school at a famous school in the county. Last year, I also heard my neighbor's child say to her mother: My teacher doctoral student, I don't give lectures for a day, and I say what to do in a day to give her a title... I didn't listen to or remember it seriously. I don't think about it until today.

All I want to say is that teachers are engineers of the human soul, and the way our children becomes is inseparable from our education. If the people are to have faith and the country has hope, we must start with the most fundamental teaching force in education. The engineers at Huawei in Hunan blamed their parents for the mistakes they had made, indicating that our children had no responsibility and no sense of responsibility. Gambling ball is a product of the times, but an adult college student and an engineer at Huawei shows that his soul is very fragile, he does not know what is the responsibility to the country and what is the responsibility to himself... What is the minimum respect for parents.

When I stopped here, I remembered the female teacher who had been expelled from Shanghai Aurora College. It's not that I'm a person who only bites the dark side of society, I think I'm a high school student, if aurora college female teacher she has studied the comprehensive knowledge of junior high school. Such a great historical knowledge, she would not be unaware, to give students nonsense. I want to say how she got to the level of a college teacher?

No matter how the times change in the old era and the new society, how can the social products be renewed? The teacher is still a teacher or a person, and the primary school student is still a student or a person. Our fundamental belief in teaching and educating people will never change, and the virtues of our Chinese nation can never be lost: teachers are also teachers and role models. Learning also respects the old and loves the young, takes responsibility, works hard...

Cold moon is written today, if you have the same feeling of friends, please remember to pay attention. Thank you!