Article Introduction:
My surname is Yan, I am 32 years old, and my current living situation is divorced and single. There is a girl who just went to elementary school this year. I have been working hard outside alone with my children for 5 years, and I currently run a wedding photo studio with an annual income of more than one million yuan.
Last year, I just bought a house of more than 100 square meters in my hometown, and this year I am ready to expand my business and make more money. Then marry your new girlfriend and give the kids a complete family.
Although I am a divorced man, I am not at fault for the divorce. Five years ago, I struggled with my ex-wife Xiaoyun to start a business, and I thought that I could spend the rest of my life with Xiaoyun.
But because of the poor management at the beginning of the business, life entered a dilemma. Xiao Yun also left me at this time, and she ran away with a rich man. The reason was that I couldn't give her the life she wanted, which made me even worse when I was just in a difficult situation. I almost collapsed, but for the sake of my children, I had to cheer up.
Nowadays, life is slowly getting better, and the children are becoming more and more sensible, and they want to see their mothers every day. Every time my child told me that she wanted to see her mother, I didn't know how to face her. I have also thought about the scene when I see Xiao Yun again, and I have also imagined many opening remarks of meeting again. But when I met her again, she hid from me.
My Story:
My ex-wife Xiaoyun and I met when we were in high school, but the relationship between the two of us was not very good at that time. She was the top student in the class, and I was the kind of student who had been at the bottom of the class for many years.
Everyone should know that the students in the class have their own circles, and the students who study poorly and the students who study well are not integrated. At best, it is to know what the name of the other party is, and there is certainly no intersection in private.
So although I have known Xiao Yun for a long time, I never thought that I would marry her one day. It wasn't until I met her again in college that the two of us finally intersected.
When I met XiaoYun in college, she and I were very surprised. I didn't expect that Xiao Yun, who had such a high academic performance, would come to a university that was not famous to study. And she probably didn't expect to meet such an "acquaintance" as me after going to college.
When old classmates meet, of course, they can't help but be polite to each other. Later, out of courtesy, I said a word to invite her to dinner, I thought it was polite, but I didn't expect her to refuse.
When we dined together, we talked for a long time and complained to each other about many things that bothered us. Unexpectedly, after a short exchange, we suddenly found that I and Xiaoyun had a lot of common interests.
So we had a great time that day, and when we parted, we left each other's contact information. In those years, everyone was still generally using QQ to chat, but the mobile version of QQ is not a mobile phone that can be used.
The only way to contact is to text each other, call each other or something. The relationship between me and Xiao Yun is based on that phone call and text message.
Later, we naturally came together, and in the four years of college together, Xiao Yun and I became a model couple in the eyes of others. It's so sweet every day.
I did not expect that our feelings can only share happiness and not suffering
After graduating from college, because my parents often talked about my marriage, Xiaoyun's parents often urged Xiaoyun, so not long after graduation, the two of us held a wedding.
After getting married, in order to give XiaoYun a better living environment, I took a sum of money from my parents, chose to start my own business, and set up a small wedding photography studio.
The staff of the studio, plus me is only 5 people. Because the studio is so small, there's a lot of business that I've done in collaboration with other photography companies.
Don't look at my studio is not very big, but this line of work was very promising at that time, in less than a year, I successfully earned the first pot of gold in my life. It was also the same year that Xiao Yun gave birth to a baby girl for me, and our family was very happy.
I thought that my life would get better and better in the future, but my social experience was still too little. The next year, I ate a lawsuit, and the reason was not on my side, it was a photography company I worked with, under the guise of my name, and was sued by others.
Flying across the wretch, hit me by surprise. I went to the photography company to theorize, but the other party didn't care about our small studio, and when something went wrong, no one came forward to negotiate with me to solve it.
In desperation, I also started a lawsuit with the other party, but it cost money to fight a lawsuit, which was a big expense for me at that time. But in order to fight for a breath, I decided to fight with the other party to the end.
But the result of this is that I and XiaoYun's life has entered a dilemma, and when it is the most bitter, Xiaoyun and I can only eat steamed buns and pickles every day.
At that time, Xiao Yun was really bitter with me, and I looked at my heart and was very uncomfortable. But at that time, I had no choice, if I did not win this lawsuit, my life and Xiao Yun's life would definitely be more bitter in the future.
Although in those days, I was overwhelmed by sudden changes every day, but I still did not give up. After all, the predicament is temporary, and although life is a little bitter, it is far from the time when I choose to give up.
But at this time, Xiao Yun suddenly proposed to divorce me, and the reason for the divorce was that I was afraid that I would not win the lawsuit and would end up with nothing. She also said that the reason why she was willing to be with me before was because she saw that I had money in my family.
Now that I have a lawsuit, my parents have invested a lot in order to support me. Now I can't give her the life she wants, so she offered to divorce me. And this also made me, who was in a difficult situation at the time, almost collapse because of this.
I didn't expect our relationship to be so fragile, I thought she was the one who supported me the most, but when she said these words, I realized that she was not as beautiful as I thought.
Husband and wife were originally the same forest birds, and they flew separately in the face of great trouble. The old saying was true, and finally I watched as Xiao Yun got into someone else's car and followed a strange man.
When I said goodbye to Xiao Yun, it was already a thing and a person
Xiao Yun's departure made me depressed for a long time, but I am not the kind of man who easily concedes defeat. And I was already a father at the time, and for the sake of my children, I had to stick with it.
Later, in the end, the Emperor Tian did not live up to the hardships, and the lawsuit between me and the other party, after several twists and turns, was finally won. And the compensation of the other party also arrived quickly, so that I climbed up again after letting my life fall into the bottom.
After that, I re-found a very reliable company to continue to cooperate, and after a lesson, I was extremely careful when looking for a partner again. I also hired a special lawyer for my studio to help me review the contract, so as to be wary of losing money again.
Although the cost of hiring a lawyer is very expensive, the effect is good. Since then, my business has not had a single problem, and because of my honest service, the business has become bigger and bigger.
In just 5 years, I built a studio with only 5 employees at that time into the current wedding photo studio. There are more than thirty employees at the bottom, and the annual income is also several times higher than before.
Last year, I bought a house of my own in my hometown, and I also made a new girlfriend, ready to get married in the next year. Seeing that life is getting better and better, some time ago I once again met the person who made me sad.
Yes, I met Xiao Yun again, but when I met again, her appearance was not very good, the whole person was sloppy, and I almost didn't recognize her.
It was during a discussion with a foreign customer that I stumbled upon XiaoYun as well. After I recognized it was Xiao Yun, Xiao Yun of course recognized me, and after that, she kept her head down and did not dare to see me.
Later, when I asked my friends about Xiao Yun's situation, I learned that after Xiao Yun left with other men, her life had not been very good. That man has a lot of bad habits, and often abuses Xiaoyun at every turn.
What's even more ridiculous is that now the man is still a soft rice man who lives at home and needs Xiao Yun to earn money to support. I really didn't expect that Xiao Yun's life would be so bad now, but what does this have to do with me, this is her own choice.
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