There are signs that men no longer love you, and these "two words" can prove it
Text/Mu Ying Gongzi
Love often happens in a split second, in a split second, two originally strange people are thunderous, and in an instant, two independent souls fall in love one after another. Then out of control, the two people tested each other, gradually approached, and finally wrote a deep and beautiful moving chapter.
But throughout the ages, the reason why love has attracted people to stop and linger is more because it is difficult to be immortal. The development of love has a strong uncertainty. There are many factors that can cause two people in love to part ways. However, no breakup happens suddenly, and love goes from nothing to nothing to nothing to say, and there must be a unique signal of its own.
There are many signs that love lights up red, such as a sudden start of snub, or one forgotten date after another, or, either there is no time to meet, and the meeting is only about talking to themselves, no matter what the other person's mood and state. In fact, in the final analysis, these behaviors are caused by selfishness, selfish men are not allowed, when a man begins to become selfish in love, it is often a signal that he decides to leave you.
Selfish people never have time to date and meet
In the world of love, selfish people will always only consider their own time and arrangement, and will not care whether the other half has energy or not. For them, it seems that meeting will only make sense if they want to. If the other half wants to meet, you have to make an appointment with him first to see if he has a schedule, and such love is undoubtedly unequal.
In real life, some young girls will like to fall in love with men older than themselves. Because you can bring yourself on the road of career and life. But such men are often successful in their careers or busy with their livelihoods. Maybe at the beginning of the relationship, there is still time to accompany the woman, but after a long time, the original form is revealed, and it is more difficult to meet than to ascend to the sky.
Girls with good hearts may endure again and again when they meet such men, persuade themselves to understand each other more, give love space, and give each other time. However, if this man always breaks the contract again and again, absent from the company he deserves, the girl must also reflect on whether the man really wants to go with himself.
There's a saying that goes, "The person who really loves you will always have time". Indeed, no time is just a selfish excuse, because money cannot be earned, and socializing will not stop, but if you want to make money, you will always let women wait aside, which is undoubtedly cruel and indifferent. No one should always take a back seat, and feelings need to understand each other and accompany each other.
When you meet someone who never has time to spend with you, don't continue to please, and don't numb yourself "he's just busy" You must know that what you should have doubts is not his eternal busy work, but his once sincere heart, whether he is still willing to be sincere for you now. Everyone's energy is limited, so people who are willing to spend time for you are really in love with you.
Selfish people will never think about what you want
For those who are selfish, life seems to consist of only "what I'm willing to give" and no "what you want to get". This kind of domineering payment is extremely unequal, and it seems to give the other half some dedication, but in fact, if you think about it, it is his selfish will alone. To love someone is to hear her voice, to know what she wants, to give her the true feelings she needs most.
In the world of feelings, selfish people can only see themselves forever, everything is based on their own interests and feelings, it does not matter what others think, and they will not change their minds because of the sadness and sadness of others. But what is love? It's me seeing what you want, and I'm willing to do my best to satisfy.
Love requires two people to support each other and achieve each other, if a person starts to think only about themselves and only pay attention to their own psychological feelings, then it is undoubtedly a wake-up call for love. Admittedly, according to psychological research, everyone has a selfish gene.
Getting used to being self-centered is a normal psychological response for humans. However, the reason why feelings are beautiful is not because we all let go of some selfish nature and are willing to give up some of our own interests to meet each other's preferences and psychology.
Because of this, there are many people in love, for the feat of falling in love with the sword mountain under the fire. When I love someone, I can't wait to pick up the stars and bring them to her eyes, and I can't wait to pick up the moon and bring them to her hand. Whatever she wants, she must try to satisfy her. As described in the book The Art of Love, "The beauty of love lies in devotion." ”
However, when a person begins to be selfish, begins not to care about what the other half wants, just gets it from love, or gives it with a mind, it doesn't matter what the other party wants, then this love is mostly coming to an end. Love can't always think about what I'm going to get, and selfish people have a hard time getting sweet results.
Selfish people always think that others are good for them
The biggest characteristic of selfish people is that they have no gratitude and always think that others are good for them. Their hearts are higher than the sky, they always blindly think that they are worthy of these good, as "exquisite egoists", they enjoy the happiness that the other half brings to themselves, but they are not willing to give at all.
Although love is not measured by money, money is also an important embodiment of verifying love. You often see some netizens complaining on the Internet that on the occasion of the anniversary, they saved money and bought a pair of sneakers for their boyfriends, but the boyfriend sent himself only a simple "happy holidays". Of course, this does not fully mean that this man must not love this woman, but there is already some selfish element in his behavior.
Sure enough, not long after the anniversary, the girl found that the boy bought himself a smart watch worth thousands of yuan and accepted everyone's likes in the circle of friends. But he said to himself, except for a fluttering "Happy Holidays," he had nothing.
Just think, why would this girl save money for food and clothes to buy a pair of sneakers for her boyfriend that he likes? The reason is not complicated, but it is because she prefers to do what she likes and make her partner happy than her own appetite. Maybe when the sneakers are given out, she doesn't expect the boys to give her the same gift. But she certainly had expectations, and she was looking forward to how the boy would express her heart.
Apparently, she didn't get the results she expected. For those who are selfish, they only focus on what they get, thinking that everything they get is deserved. But for everything he should pay, he pretended to be deaf and dumb, and was silent.
Today's world is a society that pays attention to human feelings, and we have been taught from an early age that what others do to you, what you should do to others. When others give to you, you will also give.
Therefore, in the world of feelings, if someone uses "selfishness" as a signal to break up, then we should also be interesting. Face those who are selfish, learn to stop losses, bravely say break up, free yourself from pain, and meet true happiness!
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