In La Traviata, there is a saying: "When a person has no love in his heart, he can be satisfied with vanity, but once he has love, vanity becomes vulgar." ”
At the moment of encountering love, women who do not understand it will often fight for themselves.
When I was young and crazy, I regarded love as the whole of my life, thinking that I could resist all difficulties and obstacles when I harvested love.
It wasn't until I experienced the heartache of love that I realized that flashy feelings had no value.
Without a certain strength, a woman cannot grasp the initiative of love.
Two people are always in a state of opposite direction, and this relationship cannot go on for a long time.
If you want to get a man's heart, you have to let the man see the other side of you who is different.
Constantly improve their own value charm, men will realize your importance.
Your presence inspires men to be competitive, and men can't live without you for the rest of their lives.
Understand the true principle of the "uplifting effect" and you know how to make men love you addictively.
What is the "uplifting effect"?
You can love others with the right attitude, and you will become more excellent.
In fact, when you learn to love yourself, you know to love others right.
You can make yourself live comfortably so that you don't create pressure on the other person.
True love should not only be pleasing to each other, but also pay attention to strategy.
Start from yourself first, in order to return the other party a high-quality lover.
If you become more and more excellent, your taste will get higher and higher.
With the continuous improvement of the aesthetic realm, you will definitely meet the person who is more suitable.
When you meet love, you must not go on a rampage, blind pursuit will only hurt both sides.
Only by cultivating a strong self can we meet the ever-changing future with a calm and unhurried attitude.
With the blessing of trust, we can harvest unparalleled peace of mind
The writer Shen Congwen said: "Great joy and great compassion see oneself clearly, and great ups and downs see one's friends." Without a heart that is tolerant enough, one cannot see a world of spring light. ”
To be a person, we must know how to value peace, and we must be more open-minded and generous in dealing with feelings.
You can give men enough trust, men must be very down-to-earth.
A man prefers to spend his life with a woman who understands him, and he wants to feel the warmth of home in a woman.
Two people don't have to stick together all the time, as long as two hearts are closely attached to each other.
Loving someone is more important to know how to respect, and keeping distance can relieve stress.
There is no need to get to the bottom of the matter, women should give men enough buffer time.
Everyone has unspeakable sadness, and women don't have to ask too much.
When you do empathy, men will definitely be grateful to you.
If you can handle the relationship between two people in the right way, the man will feel incredibly excited.
He realizes that you are a well-informed woman and will fall in love with you uncontrollably.
When getting along with men, we must grasp the scale, and everything is too late.
Once the man's bottom line is broken, the contradiction between the two people is about to erupt.
It's not that the man is reluctant to talk about it, it's just that he hasn't found the right time yet.
With a little more understanding and trust, he can move forward fearlessly and fearlessly.
Don't think wildly in love, problems should be faced calmly.
Wild speculation will only cause trouble, and anxious emotions will not solve any problems.
Outstanding ability can continue to shine, and brilliance can shine in the whole field
I like a quote from the poet Rilke: "We must give our all without any hope." Whatever you do, think it's the most important thing in the world, but at the same time knowing that it doesn't matter at all. ”
You can keep up with men, and men will naturally be aware of your existence.
You can surprise you when you don't expect it, and men will look at you in an instant.
Don't talk too much, do whatever you want.
Growing up in this process will be a woman's lifelong learning.
It is not necessary to achieve a state of great wealth and nobility, but it is necessary to continuously improve the ability in the process of moving forward.
Accumulate experience, you can become the most powerful assistant for men.
Women are highly capable and have achieved little success in the field of work.
Standing tall on your own, men will surely realize your difference.
Being with a powerful woman can stimulate a man's inner desire to win or lose.
Men are not willing to be left behind, and they will chase women non-stop.
The two people are constantly fighting, and the feelings of the two people are increasing day by day.
Only when the goal is the same can we work together, and only when the three views are similar can we unite as one.
High-quality relationships require high-quality partners, and two great people together can move forward together.
The sweet life should be colorful, and it will not be boring to operate with heart
Writer Lin Qingxuan wrote in "Walking Gently, Living with Heart": "People who often have flower seasons in their hearts are very good-looking at all times. Even if the flowers are all gone, there is something to be seen. ”
Be a delicate woman, you will definitely get more favor from men.
Constantly creating freshness in love, the lives of two people are colorful.
If you're always repeating the sameness as always, everyone will get bored.
From time to time, create some small surprises, and men can feel the excitement that has never been felt before.
On a man's birthday, a woman can change into a nice set of clothes and prepare a delicious candlelit dinner for two people.
When the man returns home, he will be extremely surprised, but he immediately understands the woman's good intentions, and he is very grateful for the woman's efforts.
Men are full of praise for the surprises in front of them, and they will love women even more.
Be a woman who loves life, spend more careful thoughts on weekdays, and a little surprise can bring unexpected gains.
Women run their lives with their hearts, and men feel the positive force in women.
The two people will no longer be afraid of the darkness in front of them, and will not abandon them until the end of their lives.
The poet Gu Cheng said: "I have never been known, so I have not been forgotten by anyone." Living in other people's memories is not my purpose. ”
In order to achieve a happy relationship, women must have a certain management ability.
Loving someone is not desperate, you have to keep improving in a targeted manner.
In the process of processing feelings, you can't be too impatient, and everything has to go through a gradual process.
If your current life has not yet reached a perfect state, you must maintain a steady and progressive attitude to continue to move forward.
Only by being alone can we respond to changes with no change.
When you gain the ability to manage feelings, you can meet like-minded people.
Grasp the matter in front of you first, in order to get the ideal answer.
When you are good enough, there will be countless opposite sexes stopping for you.
When you are superior, people who appreciate you will definitely take the initiative to approach.