01
There is a saying that goes, fight for an empty space.
You want to fulfill your wishes, so you force yourself to fight; you want to live a little happier, so you have to fight; you want to make a lot of money, so you fight desperately.
Does this "struggle" really work?
If you occupy the right time and place, then you just need to make steady progress, believing that wealth and success will come to you. On the other hand, if you don't occupy anything, you are too demanding, which is tantamount to forcing yourself into a corner.
There was once a long-distance runner who said, "When you need to run a 20 km, or 40 km marathon, please relax your mood and run at your own pace, then you win." If you see how fast others run, and you run with them, then don't you just have to live with yourself? ”
Life is also a long-distance run. All we can do is to maintain our own rhythm, get what I get, lose what I lose, gain and lose calmly, and be at ease, in order to laugh to the end.
After all, it is impossible to fight for what "does not belong" to oneself. Therefore, the following things, after the age of 50, do not fight, otherwise you will suffer a big loss.
02
Vanity and face, don't argue.
Bai Juyi said that Junzhi heaven and earth are wide and narrow, and the eagle osprey emperor flies separately. What is the dispute on the snail's horn, the stone fire sends this body.
You and I should know that the breadth and narrowness of this heaven and earth, the blessing and the curse, the great eagle, the flying eagle and the bird, all fly to the other side of their hearts. In this tiny snail's horn-like life, why should we fight too much? In an instant, the world is in vicissitudes.
In this world, there are things that must be contested and there are things that cannot be disputed.
What must be contested is nothing more than the dignity of being a human being, the principle of being a human being, and the conscience of standing in the world. And what should not be contested should be meaningless external things, such as our vanity and face.
Vanity is like a bubble, which is worthless, but we just like to fight. In the end, we offended a lot of people, and at the same time caused a lot of trouble.
This kind of thing as face itself is just the pursuit of people to "entertain themselves", even if they get it, they may not have more money in their pockets. To fight for face is to push yourself into the abyss.
Therefore, when people reach a certain age, they cannot compete for vanity and face, which is the beginning of misfortune.
03
Don't argue for money outside of cognition.
There is a saying in the market that everyone can only make money within cognition.
You have countless connections and can build countless information channels, so you can easily make money no matter what you do. Because everything you have is a "cornucopia" for your wealth.
Take the investment project, why did you invest in the project with him, you didn't make money, and he made money?
It's not a matter of luck, it's a matter of cognition. Because you only see the surface of the situation, and the other party sees the internal situation. This is where the gap in "making money" lies.
The cognition mentioned here is not only the cognition of the level of knowledge and the level of information acquisition, but also the cognition of the nature of the world. People who do not have a clear understanding, no matter how much they demand, no matter how hard they fight, can only be "losing the lady and folding the soldiers."
As a person, why should you be down-to-earth?
It is the duty to earn money that you know. And forcing money outside of cognition, this is not to keep their duty, it is easy to be cut leeks, perhaps overnight back to the pre-liberation.
04
Everything that doesn't belong to you, don't argue.
In the capital market, there is an invisible hand, which we call the law of the market. And in life, there is also an invisible hand, which we call the number of lives.
The laws of each market vary greater or lesser. And the fate of each person, of course, there are big or small differences. At this time, we have to follow the trajectory of fate.
You meet a person you like, but she doesn't like you, so it's useless for you to force it. This is what we often call "the king of Xiang is intentional, but the goddess has no heart".
You encounter a career that can make money, but you toss for a while, still can't make money, or even lose money, then you may as well stop loss in time, otherwise you will lose more. This is what we often call "when the break is continuous, it is chaotic.".
All of the above can be summed up in one sentence, sometimes there must be in fate, and there is no time to demand in fate.
Everything that belongs to you will eventually come to you. Everything that should not belong to you, even if you ask for it, has no effect.
05
The greed in the heart, the more contentious it is, the more unlucky it is.
Among the Chinese characters, there are two words that are particularly similar - greed and poverty.
What is "greed"? From the perspective of the structure of creating words, always want to get the money of the moment, and never be satisfied, this is greed.
What is "poverty"? In terms of the structure of the word, people have overstepped their duty to compete for extra things, and finally suffer a huge gap and have nothing, which is both poverty.
It can be said that greed and poverty, this is a pair of twin brothers.
If you always like "greedy", then his result can only be "poor". Because greedy people can never keep their money, just like gamblers can never quit gambling addiction.
When people reach a certain age, they should not be too greedy. Everything comes at a cost.
Contentment, getting everything you deserve, and earning money within the scope of your ability is the true wisdom of being a human being.
Wen/Shushan has deer