Wen | Immortals
Not long ago, I saw a post with a jaw-dropping content.
Wang Liwei, a 32-year-old man from Gansu, recently discovered that his wife, An Hui, who was 3 years younger, was always wrong, and he became suspicious. Because his wife used to be a person who loved to stay at home, but now the frequency of going out has suddenly increased, and she is carefully dressed every time she goes out, which has to make Wang Liwei think that she has something unseemly outside.
Therefore, after a follow-up, Wang Liwei's last reluctance to see the situation was still seen, and after following his wife to a hotel, he also broke the "movement" scene where his wife and his lover were sweating heavily, which made Wang Liwei's lungs explode at that time, and immediately beat his wife's lover Yu Haiying.
And Yu Haiying also knew that he was wrong, from beginning to end did not return his hand, but also hoped that he could put out this gas to extinguish the fire, but after everyone calmed down, only his wife was crying on the side, Wang Liwei looked at Yu Haiying, who had a blue nose and swollen face, and his heart was still not angry.
An Hui has been very willful and playful since the beginning of marriage, but Wang Liwei has all kinds of tolerance, just bent on making money to build this family, but he never expected that his efforts were ignored and betrayed by his wife, and the more he thought about it, the more angry he became.
The wife begged for forgiveness and swore that she would never do this again, but Wang Liwei did not want to count it like this, in the end, it was still this man who destroyed his family, then he had to let him make up for his losses, so he took out his mobile phone and gave Yu Haiying a video, and asked for 80,000 yuan in compensation, otherwise he would send this video to Yu Haiying's unit or family.
When Yu Haiying heard that he wanted so much money in one breath, his first reaction was to think that he had encountered the "Immortal Jump", but when he thought that he was also wrong, and he also had a family, he was afraid that he really exposed this matter, so he gritted his teeth and agreed to give him money, thinking about breaking the wealth and avoiding disasters, and finally the big thing became small and the small thing became small.
After returning home, although his wife An Hui has been treating Wang Liwei carefully for more than half a month, as soon as Wang Liwei saw his wife's countenance, he thought of the scene when he broke the hotel door and saw his wife under Haiying's body, he would feel that there was a big stone blocked in his chest, and his depressed mood was always around him, and even felt that it was too cheap for Yu Haiying to just lose money.
Therefore, after Wang Liwei learned about Yu Haiying's personal situation through An Hui, he found him again and said a request that made Yu Haiying stunned on the spot.
It turned out that Wang Liwei felt that he was still aggrieved and could not accept that his wife was being touched by others, so he also had to sleep with Yu Haiying's wife once, only in this way could this matter be counted, in Wang Liwei's words, it was "one wife for one wife", which was fair.
This request was something that Yu Haiying had never heard of, and it was wrong for him to cheat with his wife, but he was also beaten and took the money, and he did not complain about it. However, he did not expect that he actually started his wife's idea, sleeping with other people's wives is one thing, letting others sleep with their own wives is another thing, not to mention whether the wife is willing or not, what kind of reaction will there be, even he absolutely cannot agree.
However, Wang Liwei did not spare people, saying that although the last video was deleted, the hotel had surveillance, and it was clear that he and An Hui had entered the house, so that Yu Haiying could arrange it as soon as possible.
But Yu Haiying could not agree in any way, and finally left and right thought or decided to call the police, Yu Haiying also learned a little law, know that most of his previous behavior is only a violation of morality, but Wang Liwei's behavior has violated the law, since he forced himself, then he had to break the jar and break it, the green hat This thing he can let others bear, he can't!
The result is also as Yu Haiying expected, Wang Liwei violated the law, and is likely to suffer more than 3 years of imprisonment in the end, and the 80,000 yuan previously requested will also be returned. However, returning to the event itself, what about Wang Liwei's behavior?
In fact, just based on Wang Liwei's behavior, you can know his anger, he worked hard outside, but he did not expect his wife to be disloyal to himself, so what is the meaning of his previous efforts and struggles?
An Hui betrayed her husband and Yu Haiying had a private affair, at this time it can be said that her husband Wang Liwei is a victim's identity, even An Hui and Yu Haiying also think so, so An Hui also treated her husband carefully after apologizing, Yu Haiying was even more casually beaten, and there was nothing to say about losing money.
However, Wang Liwei's mysterious operation has turned himself from a victim into a criminal, and a reasonable person has instantly become a shameless, despicable, and dirty villain.
I remember Nietzsche saying in The Other Side of Good and Evil: "If you fight with a dragon for too long, you will become a dragon yourself." Gaze at the abyss for too long, and the abyss will stare back. "Wang Liwei hates his wife for cheating, hates Yu Haiying and his wife have an affair, but he wants to become the person he hates for the sake of his unwillingness in his heart, so what is the difference between this and Yu Haiying?
In the end of this relationship, none of the three people are good people, they are disgusting people with no moral bottom line, no standards for being human, the most pitiful is Yu Haiying's wife, who was even involved, almost became a bargaining chip, Wang Liwei's behavior is deserved, and after that, an Hui and Yu Haiying's affairs will inevitably be exposed, divorced, despised, and scolded.
Many people think that marriage is to "treat others in the way of others", and even think that Wang Liwei's behavior is correct, for which I can only ask for a sigh, if marriage really has to use this kind of thing to win fairness, it can only be said that in their eyes marriage is too shallow.
What is marriage? In my opinion, marriage should be respectful, communicative, understanding and honest, as Zhang Hong said: marriage is not 1 + 1 = 2, but 0.5 + 0.5 = 1, only husband and wife cut off the general character and temper, in order to form a complete home. I think so.
Fall in love with others, then you can divorce your husband and then look for true love, think that there is no passion with your husband, resulting in "five years of pain", "seven years of itch" can also communicate to say, must not be deceived, this is not only sorry for the people who love you, but also sorry for yourself.
And the wife betrayed must also choose the right and calm way to solve, if you can pass the problem around the two people, no longer mix with other people; if you can't get over, quickly cut the mess, their own interests to fight for their own, let the wife out of the house is not excessive.
Love should be the only and exclusive, can be combined is mutual attraction to walk hand in hand, together is gathered, not together is scattered, to be able to hold their own heart, this is the root of a lifetime of happiness!