Hua Lan, the eldest daughter of the Sheng family, was born at the time when her parents had the best feelings. Sheng Hong once said: "To say a word, these children I hurt the most is Hua'er." This sentence is good, Sheng Hong is very fond of this first child, once because he was reluctant to have a child, he also took Hua Lan to Yamen on business.
- The Zhongshun Earl's Palace was tightly spent, and the evil mother-in-law did everything to make things difficult and calculate Hualan's dowry
The Yuan family was fined by the official family for ten years for making mistakes, which is simply that the father and son of the Yuan family only worked for ten years without receiving wages, so the economic situation of the Yuan family was relatively tense, but if it was well managed, it would not be impossible to live.
However, Lady Yuan, that is, Hua Lan's mother-in-law, was a typical Voldemort, and all the good things were collected to the mother's house, so the daily expenses of the Yuan family were a little difficult. Lady Yuan calculated Hua Lan's dowry and let Hua Lan manage the house, but did not give silver, and Hua Lan took her own dowry money to paste and paste before filling in the account.
Even so, Lady Yuan did not have the slightest awareness of people's soft hands, all kinds of rules for HuaLan to stand, and also stuffed seven or eight concubines in Yuan Wenshao's room, disgusting Hualan.
- Lady Yuan was jealous of Hualan's husband's love, and her father-in-law liked it
After Hua Lan married into the Yuan family, she was lenient and kind, filial to the elders, and the husband and wife feelings were harmonious, not only Yuan Wenshao loved her, but even the father-in-law Yuan Uncle also liked this daughter-in-law.
These Mrs. Yuan all look at it in their eyes, but some people can't see that others are better off than themselves, and Mrs. Yuan is very unworthy of the style of being a housewife, and always takes the yuan family's money to supplement the mother's family.
Although Uncle Yuan did not say, but his heart was like a mirror, so Uncle Yuan's affection for her has always been faint, and even there is a letter of resignation in the ancestral hall of the Yuan family, which was left by Uncle Yuan's mother, and the book of Hugh bluntly said that Lady Yuan is not worthy of being the master mother of the Yuan family, if she is a demon in the future, she will directly obey her mother's orders and give up!
Seeing that her husband and son liked Hua Lan so much, Lady Yuan was so jealous that she always used her mother-in-law's identity to suppress Hua Lan from time to time, in that era, the mother-in-law wanted to be difficult for her daughter-in-law, but it was simply the simplest thing, and Hua Lan had to live hard in this kind of torture day and night.
- The Fallen Countess remained arrogant and looked down on Hua Lan, who had a thin family
Lady Yuan can be said to be the most confused person in the entire Earl's Palace, although the Countess' Palace of Zhongqin has fallen, but her Marquise's arrogance has not fallen at all. While jealous of Hua Lan's powerful father and brother and rich dowry, he also looked down on the relatively thin family lineage of the Sheng family, and in the current sentence, it was another and another stand.
Lady Yuan's eyes were bright, thinking that in the future, the eldest son would attack the lord, and the eldest daughter-in-law would be her own niece. He will rely on his eldest son in the future, so he does not love his second son Yuan Wenshao very much, and he is even more difficult for Hua Lan.
- Hua Lan's marriage was finally bitter? It is just a helpless compromise of a middle-aged woman
It is said that the Hualan people reached middle age, and finally came to their bitter ends, and the mother-in-law was reprimanded and threatened by her father-in-law, and no longer dared to be difficult for her. The husband also finally saw the true face of the mother, understood that only the wife is the best person for himself, proposed to separate the family, the husband and wife life moisturized a lot, talked about a "middle-aged love". But is that really the case?
When Gu Tingye talked to Minglan about Yuan Wenshao, he said that he was too indecisive, but Minglan said:
"It's not indecisive, but it's not worth it, the brother-in-law naturally knows that his sister is having a hard time, but he thinks that it is more important for his mother to be obedient, and the men with three wives and four concubines pretend to be harmonious in the family house, and they are not unaware of their wife's sadness, but their own merrily life is far better than their wife's sadness."
Behind all the evil mothers-in-law, there is a husband who pretends to be deaf and dumb. Once a woman is married to a woman, her position in the in-laws' family is basically based on the attitude of the man she marries.
When encountering a mother-in-law with a bad character, if a man acts, even an arrogant mother-in-law cannot make any waves; if a man does not act, the woman will either give up her face and be scolded for not filial piety, or she will calm down and swallow her grievances.
Yuan Wenshao is the latter, pretending to be harmonious and inactive. Hua Lan was unwilling to tear his face for the sake of the Sheng family's face, and was fed up with ten years of grievances and lost ten miles of red makeup.
In the past ten years, Yuan Wenshao has not woken up, why did he suddenly wake up?
The truth is always sad, because Changbai shishi is highly promoted, Minglan is married, Gu Tingye and his wife have very strong feelings, Hualan Minglan sisters have very good feelings, and Gu Tingye is Yuan Wenshao's direct superior.
Such a simple network of relationships, such a sensitive point in time, as intelligent as Hualan, will not think of? It's just a tacit compromise.
"I can't divorce, you can't divorce, we have a son and a daughter, you suddenly have deep affection, I return with joy, I let go of the grievances of the past ten years, not forgetting, just helpless compromise." 」
I think this is what Hua Lan wants to say to Yuan Wenshao.
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