What gives a woman hope is not love, but the responsibility of the man; what gives a man a sense of security is not love, but the woman's dedication to the family.
In fact, in marriage, the needs of men and women are not the same, I remember I asked my husband before, I said what are the three things you most want you to give me? He replied: Home, happiness and money!
What he gives me is not necessarily what I want, what I want in everyone's mind, if he is willing to give it to others, is it the love that people have long said? I don't think so, such a person you can't say he doesn't love you, you can only say that he doesn't know how to love.
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Truly loving a person should be to see what the other person likes, and then you give him everything he likes, which is the person who knows how to love! Before marriage, I think most people can do it, but after getting married, for the sake of life and children, I probably ignore these details!
I have a friend called Xiao Juan she and her husband are talking by themselves, and then because Xiao Juan's family does not agree, they temporarily separated, Xiao Juan's family will find someone to introduce them to let friends go on a blind date, Xiao Juan did not agree to go at first, but their family said that they just went to see and then get along with something, Xiao Juan could not withstand the soft and hard bubbles of her family.
When xiaojuan got there, she was dumbfounded, she was actually engaged on a blind date, all the relatives of the man's family came, Xiaojuan wanted to leave, but Xiaojuan's family and the man's family did not let it, saying that you left this house of relatives is not a joke.
No way Xiao Juan bought a gold necklace and the man confused to book the kiss, after returning home Xiao Juan called the one she talked about, said this thing again, the man secretly came to take people away after a few days, eloped, Xiao Juan went directly to talk about the man's family to live, and then came back to return the kiss after pregnancy, and returned the money spent at that time to the family that betrothed.
You said that this should be very precious, right! But also can't stand the marriage of chai rice oil salt, Xiao Juan and I talked about her marriage, she said that before there were grievances are crying, now there are grievances are no tears, not do not want to cry is not able to cry out, life trivial in-laws contradictions in addition to children, she said that she sometimes do not want to live, Xiao Juan said that she does not ask for much, just hope that the other party to be more considerate of themselves, the man thinks that I make money for you, you want me how! If each of us could know what the other person was thinking and needing, wouldn't there be fewer family conflicts?