Recently, men raised funds to help deceased friends treat seriously ill baby girls, which caused heated discussions. On January 19, the Beijing Youth Daily reporter learned that the woman concerned, Ms. Cen, was seven months pregnant and gave birth to a 1.8-kilogram baby girl on December 11, 2021, Ms. Cen suffered from tuberculosis, and her daughter was also diagnosed with congenital tuberculosis, lung infection, ischemic hypoxic encephalopathy, very low birth weight, premature anemia, intracranial hemorrhage and other diseases after birth. On December 14, Ms. Shum entrusted her friend Li Jin to help her daughter handle the procedures related to the newborn. On the last day of 2021, Ms. Cen died unexpectedly, leaving no information about the child's biological father. Her mother said she did not know that she had given birth to the child or who the child's biological father was, because she was in her 70s and unable to take care of the child, and custody of the child had been entrusted to Li Jin. In order to save the child, Li Jin sold his new car that he had just picked up last year, and also launched a request for help online, and received more than 200,000 yuan in love donations.
At the same time, there are various voices questioning Li Jin on the Internet, and even his girlfriend can't accept raising the baby girl with him, so the two broke up, and his father also called to persuade him to give up. But Li Jin said that such a thing made him meet, but also his fate with the child, the child has now grown from 1.8 pounds to 1.7 kg, will pillow his hand to drink milk powder, hold his hand, laugh at him He also has feelings for the child, no matter what others say, he still has to take care of the child. According to the Dongyang Women's Federation, the child's mother did not register for marriage and was registered in Guizhou. Li Jin said that if the child goes to the hukou in the future, he is also willing to take the child back to his grandparents' house to settle down, and continue to raise her.
The woman died less than a month after giving birth to a seriously ill baby girl at seven months of pregnancy
On January 19, Li Jin talked to a reporter from Beiqing Daily about his fate with the child. According to him, he and the child's mother, Ms. Cen, are both from Guizhou and used to work together in Dongyang, Zhejiang Province, and are considered friends. On December 11, 2021, Ms. Cen gave birth to a baby girl weighing only 1.8 kilograms at dongyang Maternal and Child Health Hospital when she was seven months pregnant, and she named her daughter "Chen Liyuan". The child is in critical condition after birth, with neonatal respiratory distress syndrome, low birth weight infants, premature infants, small-for-gestational-age infants, neonatal hyperbilirubinemia, neonatal bacteremia, maternal tuberculosis newborns, and tests positive for T cells of tuberculosis infection.
Ms. Incen was not confined and was found to have tuberculosis and needed to be referred to a specialist hospital. On December 14, after she was discharged from the hospital, Li Jin received a call from the hospital and went to the hospital to help her pack her bags. Because the child was still in the hospital, on the same day, Ms. Cen signed a power of attorney with Li Jin and asked him to help take care of the child and handle the relevant procedures for the newborn. Li Jin said that at that time, he felt that as a friend, Ms. Cen was physically inconvenient, and he should help to do things, at most help run errands for a month, and wait for her to be out of confinement.
After being discharged from the hospital, Ms. Shum did not go to other hospitals to treat tuberculosis, but took medicine at home. On December 31, when Li Jin came to the door to deliver food according to the agreed time, he found that Ms. Shum had died in the rental house. At this time, because Ms. Cen's family was far away in Guizhou, and she did not leave any relevant information about the child's biological father before she died, Li Jin became the temporary guardian who took care of the child.
Female mother: I don't know if she gave birth to a child, I don't know who the father of the child is, I can't take care of the child, I entrust custody to my daughter's friend
On the 19th, Ms. Cen's mother, Wang Duan (pseudonym), told the Beiqing Daily reporter that her daughter had been away from home to work for two or three years, and she had no contact with her family, and she did not know who her daughter had given birth to this child. "I don't even know if she has a boyfriend, much less when she gave birth to the baby, or who the child's biological father is. Now my daughter is gone, and I can't ask her. ”
According to Wang Duan's recollection, last month, she received a call from her daughter saying that she was not in good health and was uncomfortable. "I'm in my seventies and can't see her, so I told her to go to the doctor, and if I'm not feeling well, don't work, come back." She didn't tell me at the time that she had a baby. Because I was worried about her, I called her later, but I couldn't get in touch with anyone. Until the end of the month, I received a call from the police station in Dongyang, asking me if I was Cen Mou's mother, I said yes, and the other side of the phone told me that Cen Mou mou was gone and had died. Because I was older, it was her younger siblings who went to Dongyang and took care of her affairs with the help of her friend Li Jin and brought her ashes back. ”
When he learned that his daughter was taking care of a seriously ill daughter who was less than a month old, Wang Duan said that because she was old, she could not take care of the child, nor did she have the money to treat her, and finally after consulting with Li Jin, she entrusted the custody of the child to him, and he took care of and raised the child.
According to the power of attorney provided by Li Jin, the power of attorney was signed on January 3, 2022, and the two sides agreed through consultation that Ms. Cen's relatives (the client) would entrust the baby girl to Li Jin (the trustee), and Li Jin would act as a lifelong guardian to raise the child to adulthood, and the client would have the right to visit the child but would not interfere with his normal life. And Li Jin also promised to be willing to bear all the costs of the baby girl's treatment and raise her as an adult. If the child has any accidents, the client cannot pursue Li Jin's legal responsibility.
Subsequently, Li Jincheng became the "guardian" of the child, and in order to treat the child, he sold the new car he had just mentioned last year, and even borrowed foreign debt. Later, because of the detection of tuberculosis, just after the full moon, the child was transferred to Hangzhou Red Cross Hospital for treatment, and was diagnosed with congenital tuberculosis, lung infection, ischemic hypoxic encephalopathy, very low birth weight, premature anemia, intracranial hemorrhage, hyperkalemia and so on.
The girl's friend raised 260,000 yuan online for the treatment of the child In response to the question of "borrowing the child to accumulate wealth": the fundraising is only used for the treatment of the child
Li Jin told the Beiqing Daily reporter that at the beginning, he did not know that the child's illness was so serious, thinking that he would be better by spending tens of thousands of yuan in the incubator for a period of time. Later, in order to raise money to treat the child, he launched a request for help online, and also received donations totaling about 260,000 yuan from well-wishers. "Many well-meaning people are very concerned about children, many people directly transfer money to my WeChat and Alipay accounts, and some people tell me that let me take good care of my children, willing to transfer 500 yuan to me every month, and even children's milk powder, diapers, clothes and other supplies, there are also caring people to help book." Now, the child has my surname, she has her own name, Li Ruhan, the nickname is her mother gave her the 'Cen Li Yuan', but now everyone also calls her Xiao Hanhan, every day there are many caring people who care about her situation. ”
Li Jin once broadcast the child's situation live on the short video platform, which made more people pay attention to Xiao Hanhan's situation. But as donations were received and attention was received, so did the voices of doubt. Some people question that Li Jin may be the child's biological father, some people question that Li Jin is borrowing the child to accumulate wealth, and even some people speculate that the child's father is in prison.
Li Jin said that about the child's biological father, he also asked the child's mother, but she was reluctant to say that he himself was divorced, and there was also a daughter who followed his ex-wife, and Xiao Hanhan's mother was just a fellow countryman and ordinary friend, if necessary, he was willing to do DNA testing to prove that he was not the child's biological father. "I don't know about the father of the child, and some people on the Internet say that the father of the child is serving a prison sentence, which is also no matter." As for the money I borrowed from my child to accumulate wealth, all the money donated by well-wishers is used to treat the child, the current 260,000 raised, 160,000 to the hospital, my account still has 100,000 yuan, but I do not spend a penny of this money. Before I spent money on my children is not in this 260,000, I will not use this money as living expenses now, and even for dinner, I am also trying to find my own way to find relatives and friends to borrow money for emergencies. ”
"In the past few days, everyone has questioned on the Internet, and the child's grandmother has also known, and even she has advised me to give up if I really can't do it." She was also worried that this child would bring me an unbearable burden, after all, I still had to have my own life, and she was now hurting me. But I also told her that it didn't matter what others said, I didn't look at the phone, as long as I didn't fall, the child I still went back to take care of. ”
Client: The girlfriend can't accept that I raised the baby girl has broken up watching the child grow from 1.8 pounds to 1.7 kg and can't put it down
If it is not as questioned by netizens, why Li Jin should take care of this child makes many people not understand, including his father and girlfriend. "My girlfriend said that if it was my child, she wouldn't mind raising it with me, but it wasn't mine or hers, and she couldn't accept raising the child with me. I also understood her thoughts and respected her ideas, and now we have broken up as well. My father also called me to persuade me, saying that I was doing this to build money and build people, what to do, and my friends around me also said that I was stupid. I watched this child grow from 1.8 pounds, almost the size of my palm, a little bit to now 1.7 kg, she likes to rest her head on the palm of my hand to drink milk powder, will hold my hand, smile at me, and slowly get better, I really can't let go of her. My girlfriend separated from me, and she could continue to live, but she probably wouldn't be able to live if the child separated from me. ”
Li Jin told the Beiqing Daily reporter that such a thing, the average person may not be able to meet it for several lifetimes, but he will encounter it, which is also his fate with this child. During this time, he basically stayed in the hospital, and in the process of taking care of Xiao Hanhan, he also remembered his daughter and felt from the bottom of his heart that he owed her daughter, "owed too much and too much."
At present, the treatment of Xiao Hanhan's first course of treatment still needs about a month, and the money raised so far is enough for the treatment fee of the first course of treatment, and even the remaining ones. The hospital where the child was born also said that after coordination between the police and the women's federation, it can issue birth certificates to the child. He plans to wait for the child to get a birth certificate after he is discharged from the hospital, and then find an aunt to take care of her, so that he can continue to work and make money, but if the child still needs treatment, he may have to turn to the society. "The child's condition is not very stable these days, and today (19th) there will be a blood transfusion, and I am also very distressed." The money donated by everyone is for her medical treatment, the living expenses of both of us, and I have to earn the living expenses of both of us. I earn seven or eight thousand a month working in a factory, and if she is well and healthy, there is not much problem in feeding her. ”
The child's birth certificate has been resolved The person said that he would like to take the child back to his grandparents' house and continue to raise her
On the afternoon of the 19th, the Beijing Youth Daily reporter also learned from the Dongyang Women's Federation that Xiao Hanhan was indeed born in the Dongyang Maternal and Child Health Hospital, but his mother, Ms. Cen, did not register for marriage, and the household registration was in Guizhou, and the child's grandparents had difficulties in the family, there were other children to take care of at home, and there was nothing they could do to raise the child. Under the coordination of the police and the Women's Federation, the hospital will issue birth certificates for the children, but later the children may have to return to their mother's household registration place. In addition, Li Jin's current situation should not meet the conditions for adopting a child, but his personal desire is to take care of the child first, and let the child be treated well first. He also said that he has raised more than 200,000 yuan so far, and the child's treatment fee is no problem for the time being. We will also continue to pay attention to the child's follow-up situation and try to help. ”
For his legal lack of adoption of children, Li Jin admitted that he also understands, but at present he has the authorization of the child's grandparents, and he has also been in contact with the child's grandparents to inform them of the child's situation. "Now the child is sick and needs to be taken care of, I am willing to take care of her, and now it is true that I am taking care of her, and at the moment I am not at ease to give her to someone else." I haven't thought too much about the future, but if the child wants to go to the hukou in the future, I am willing to take her back to her grandparents' house to settle down, and it is okay if the hukou is not with me, I will continue to raise her. ”
Li Jin said that although some people questioned him, it was more of a kind person who cared about Xiao Hanhan. "Today (19th), there are still well-meaning people to transfer money to me, about 20,000 yuan, but I confiscated it on WeChat, and someone also directly transferred money to alipay." Previously, I used my account to accept donations directly from everyone, which may not be appropriate. I also consulted with the police, and if I violate the law, I am willing to bear legal responsibility. When the child is discharged from the hospital, I plan to open a special account for her and transfer the money donated by everyone as a special fund for her medical treatment. If her subsequent treatment still needs donations from everyone, it will also be donated directly to this account, and we will not accept donations for the time being. ”
In response to everyone's attention and help to Xiao Hanhan, Xiao Hanhan's grandmother Wang Duan told the Beiqing Daily reporter that he really thanked everyone, "Now the child is entrusted to Li Jin's care, if you can, I hope that well-meaning people will help to let the child live, and how to see Li Jin's plan in the future."
(Beijing Youth Daily reporter Dai Youqing)
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