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Resign to start a business
Accompanying a cancer-stricken mother for love
A few days ago, a CCTV news article "daughter resigned with cancer mother while traveling while seeing a doctor" received widespread attention from netizens.
People's Daily, People's Network and many other media across the country have been forwarded.
In 2017, Zhang Xi's mother was diagnosed with breast cancer, and the prominent illness caused the whole family to be confused.
Less than a year later, the cancer metastasized to the lungs.
In order to recover as soon as possible, Zhang Xi took her mother around to seek medical treatment, chemotherapy, examination, taking medicine...
Every time Zhang Xi treated Zhang Xi, he saw it in his eyes and hurt in his heart, and even said, "For the first time, I felt helpless and helpless, and I really hope to alleviate the pain for her."
Shanghai, Nanjing, Beijing... On the way to seek medical treatment outside, Zhang Xi had the idea of taking her mother on a tour.
Zhang Xi thought to himself: Anyway, I have come out to see a doctor, it is better to take her around to take a look, since I can't hide from the disaster, then let nature take its course and think about the beautiful things in life.
Since 2019, Zhang Xi quit his job to become a freelancer and began to take his mother to see a doctor and travel while earning money.
In Zhang Xi's view, he was just competing with the god of death for time.
In three years, they have traveled to many places and experienced many lifestyles that they have never experienced before.
During this period, Zhang Xi's mother also actively faced treatment, even if the process was still very painful, but this way of treating while traveling also eased her mother's depressed mood.
Some time ago, the two came to Beijing.
In the Forbidden City, the mother and daughter changed into Qing palace costumes and came to a group of creative photos, in which Zhang Xi and her mother interacted warmly, and it was full of happiness between her hands and feet.
Zhang Xi also said, "She was relatively silent after she fell ill, and her mother who put on a wig and put on a costume showed a smile that she had not seen for a long time, and I was very happy to realize her dream of costume." ”
For Zhang Xi: "My biggest wish at present is to spend every day happily with my mother on this precious day." ”
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The Son desires filial piety and does not wait
For this, some people will say: "Resign from travel, but also see a doctor, the family must be very rich, otherwise how can you afford it." ”
But in fact, Zhang Xi is not as rich as everyone imagines.
Born in the countryside, he needs tens of thousands of medical expenses every month, so since they got married, Zhang Xi and her husband have not bought a marriage house or had children.
She wanted to spend her best time with her mother and wanted her to be happy.
For the mother, the most important thing is not that Zhang Xi spends money to take her out to play, but that her daughter is always by her side.
Not long ago, a news story was full of bitterness about parenthood.
An 88-year-old man accidentally fell at home, endured severe pain and dialed 120 himself, and the ambulance took him to the hospital.
When asked about his family, the old man said: "No one is at home, my three daughters are settled abroad, I have no medical insurance abroad, medical care is too expensive, I don't want to cause them trouble." ”
The old man said that I had considered it for them, and finally sighed: What is the use of having children?
Fortunately, with the help of medical staff and good people's hearts, the old man finished the examination, and there was no big problem.
Is the old man sad? I think it must be sad.
A strong person is afraid of pain when he falls, not to mention the 88-year-old man, which is both physical and psychological.
Once the old man had any problems, he did not know how his daughters would feel.
In real life, many people "lose" in "getting" and "cherish" after "losing".
In recent years, it is rare to hear about Liu Yan.
Some people say that she is not hot and can't stay in the entertainment industry, but in fact, she just changed her lifestyle and didn't fight as hard as before.
That's right, Liu Yan used to fight.
At the most brutal time, she served as the host in more than a dozen variety shows at the same time, and was pointed out by the master for the effect of the program, paralyzed on the spot, and smiled and said to the camera, "I think it's okay."
But the heartache behind it is only known to herself, her mother and grandmother have cancer, so she has to be a desperate third wife.
In 2017, Liu Yan's father was diagnosed with advanced stomach cancer, and when he was discovered, the cancer cells spread widely.
After being diagnosed in the hospital, Liu Yan suspended all work and took care of his father in the hospital bed with his brother.
Without asking a nurse, when it was his turn to accompany him, Liu Yan accompanied his father 24 hours a day, wiping his face, wiping his back, cutting his nails, chatting with his father, basking in the sun...
In the end, he was unable to keep his father's life.
After his father's death, Liu Yan realized: "I worked so hard to make money, I thought my family needed me very much. All these years have found that I need them, they are my reason for struggle, and they are all the motivation for me to live. ”
Now Liu Yan, because he wants to accompany his family, has "disappeared".
As long as time permits, Liu Yan will choose to return to his hometown, "there is nothing important, just want to stay with his family."
At the premiere of the movie "Beneficiary", Liu Yan bought 6 movie tickets for her family, one of which was left for her father.
Before the premiere, she saw a message from her brother: "Daddy's place is left, in the middle of the front row." ”
When the parents are there, they do not feel the preciousness of life; when the parents leave, they know the brevity of life.
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Companionship is the longest confession of affection
Companionship is the most romantic two words in the world, and the reason why it is moving is that day after day, year after year.
Compared with becoming a talent, what parents most desire in their old age is for their children to accompany them.
Last year, a hot meme that was once popular on social software was "suddenly coming home to see the reaction of family members" .
In the camera, the elders saw their children coming home, first stunned and then surprised, all of them laughing and laughing, and the tears fell out.
In 2022, the epidemic that highlighted it made it unknown to go home for the New Year again.
In the video, when she heard that her two sons could not go home, her sympathetic mother covered her face and cried, and even her father, who had always been silent, suddenly became emotional and choked up several times.
You won't be able to go home, you'll be sad, but your parents are definitely the ones who are sadder than you are.
Someone once calculated an account:
If you calculate according to the 75 years of life, life is only 900 months, and if your parents are 50 years old, you only have 300 months left to spend with them.
Even if you meet your parents twice a month, you can only spend ten months together, not to mention that there are a few people who can visit their parents twice a month.
Bi Shumin said in the article "Filial Piety is Priceless":
"I believe that every child who is sincere and loyal has made a 'filial piety' wish to his parents in his heart, believes that the coming day will be long, believes that the water will come to fruition, and believes that he will be able to fulfill his filial piety on the day when he returns to his hometown with success and fame."
It is a pity that people have forgotten, forgotten the cruelty of time, forgotten the brevity of life, and forgotten that life itself has a fragile vulnerability. ”
We always think to ourselves that when we have money, we will take our parents out on a trip, and when we have time, we will go home to accompany them.
As everyone knows, many times parents can't wait for our "coming to Japan".
When we were young, our parents were willing to spend a lot of time with us growing up, but when we grew up, we always wanted them to wait.
Don't always feel that you are still young, there is still a lot of time to do a lot of things, to accompany your parents, and when you have time, your parents are already quietly getting old, or they are no longer there.
Therefore, even if you are busy, don't forget to call your parents in the distance, even if it's just gossip, listen to nagging, and make time to go home often to spend more time with your parents.
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