In ancient times, there was Su Shi mourning the words of his deceased wife Wang Shi, "Jiang Chengzi", and now there is a poem by Liang Qichao mourning his deceased wife Li Huixian - "Sacrifice to Lady Liang". “
There are beautiful people in the north, unique and independent
Li Huixian used his great "talent" to make Liang Qichao miss his life.
It is only by marrying the woman inside that one is happy
Lin Huiyin's evaluation in history is mixed, and most of the remarks say that she is
High IQ and low emotional intelligence
。 A woman became
The well-known writers and essayists in the country are really great
Not to mention that she was also the main designer of the national emblem of the mainland and a member of the design of the Monument to the People's Heroes
But she was so powerful that she left a voice on her own emotional problems, making her reputation pejorative.
In dealing with feelings, Lin Huiyin's mother-in-law is Also Liang Sicheng's birth mother
Li Huixian can be regarded as a textbook level of processing
She is not only a virtuous wife, but also a good mother, and her children are all dragons and phoenixes among people. Just as the so-called "work inside and outside the dust, Shuhui humble is a goddess", Li Huixian is low-key but extraordinary, is a legendary woman who is even greater than Lin Huiyin.
Li Huixian's father, Li Chaoyi, was a major courtier of the Four Dynasties, and he rose from a minor official in the Daoguang period to a Shuntianfu Yin in the Guangxu period, and his position above the court was very important. The so-called tiger father has no dog,
The Li family's family style is extremely high
Although Li Huixian is Miss Qianjin, the Li family pursues"
Talented can be virtuous
”。 Li Chaoyi did her best to let the children of the Li family learn rich cultural knowledge and enrich their own connotations.
In 1889, he was seventeen years old
Liang Qichao took the township examination in his hometown of Guangdong
It just so happened that Li Huixian's cousin Li Duandi was serving as the chief examiner in this township examination in Guangdong, and at that time he saw that Liang Qichao was not a simple person.
As soon as the results of the township test came out, sure enough,
Liang Qichao ranked eighth in high school
, spread throughout the streets.
As the saying goes, things are clustered by categories, and people are divided into groups, and Li Duandi decided at that time that Liang Qichao would definitely have great achievements after that, and he would never lose this rare talent, just so-called."
Pillar the country to undertake heavy responsibilities, good and cherish the heart
Li Duandi began to think about how to kill two birds with one stone.
Just when Li Duandi was frowning, he suddenly remembered that his twenty-one-year-old cousin Li Huixian was still waiting for the word, so he became a matchmaker.
Thousands of miles of marriage are tied
Li Duanchao started with Liang Qichao first, often talking with him about poetry and songs and philosophy of life, Liang Qichao also felt that he had found a brother who could talk very happily, and hated Li Duanchao for seeing each other late.
Li Duandi knocked on the side of the side and mentioned Li Huixian
On the one hand, Liang Qichao was because his brothers were not good at matchmaking, and on the other hand, he thought that since Li Huixian was the daughter of the Li family, he could not be a vulgar and vulgar person, and he married his wife heavily on marrying Virtue, so he readily agreed.
Liang Qichao was only seventeen years old, but Li Huixian was already twenty-one years old. At that age, she was already an elderly leftover woman, and the reason why she was left was not to regard herself as high, but to be dignified, and some of the children of the family who pursued fame and profit came to ask for relatives and were all rejected by her. Li Huixian, who has read through the masterpieces of his ancestors, cannot marry his life to wealth and fame.
What she wants to marry is love and talent
, and Liang Qichao just met her criteria for mate selection.
In this way, under the impetus of the heavens and places, Li Duantong effortlessly promoted a pair of Liang Qichao, whom he admired, and his most beloved cousin. The two felt after meeting each other a few times
Even fate
After talking about love for two years, he entered the palace of marriage.
What does it mean to marry Liang Qichao? Li Huixian already knew that she was going to change from a big lady with clothes to reach out and open her mouth to a peasant woman and villager who needed to do everything herself.
Not only that, Li Huixian also endured the big problem of completely different environmental differences and language barriers between the north and the south.
But she loves Cantonese
The life of learning while ploughing the land was simply a joy for her.
The Liang family can be described by the four walls of the family, and even most of the daily expenses
They are all subsidized by their own dowries
But Li Huixian has always believed that money is something outside the body.
Although the countryside is somewhat vulgar, fortunately, my father-in-law, who makes a living by teaching, is a learned person.
He also praised the daughter-in-law's behavior and knowledge
And Li Huixian also handled the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law with great harmony.
Liang Qichao was busy with political affairs outside, Li Huixian was busy with agricultural affairs at home, and the husband and wife who raised eyebrows had a poor life.
But the two enjoyed it
With the failure of the Penghu Reform Law, Liang Qichao fled to Japan alone on the advice of others that "only by saving his life can there be a possibility of a comeback", while Li Huixian took his family to Macau. At this time, the whole family depends on her,
And Li Huixian has always greeted everything with a smile, and suffering seems to have nothing to do with her
An unexpected letter of expression
Li Huixian was looking forward to Liang Qichao's day with bitter pleasure day by day
Could have gone home early
At this time, Li Huixian believes that the reason for her to hold on is on the one hand for herself, for her family, but more is the hope of waiting for Liang Qichao to return home. But Wanwan did not expect that Li Huixian did not wait for Liang Qichao's concern and thoughts about her, but received it
Her husband mailed her a letter with "true feelings"
In the letter, Liang Qichao expressed his love for another woman to Li Huixian with great affection, and this love was not something he could control, although he knew that he was wrong to do so, but he really couldn't control it. At the end of the article, Liang Qichao also tentatively asked Li Huixian,
When you see my letter, will you laugh at me or be angry with me?
Ordinary women who receive such a letter from their own man are not violent or emotionally out of control, and they will definitely file for divorce. Li Huixian, who has high emotional intelligence, did not, and she replied to a letter from Liang Qichao that was also "true feelings".
Roughly speaking, there is no provision for monogamy, your identity, either
Three wives and four concubines are also normal
。 If you really like her and want to marry her, I also want you to be happy, and I will tell my father-in-law and let him help him decide. But if you just like her and don't want to marry her, then don't mess with your body.
Remember your purpose of traveling to Japan alone
The letter did not mean to make trouble, and even the words did not express the slightest displeasure of himself. But the content of this letter is very word-bound, sonorous and powerful, so that Liang Qichao has no place to be self-contained——
He was a reformist who advocated monogamy
His father also praised Li Huixian, and he really came to Japan to study. In summary, Liang Qichao suddenly understood what choice he should make.
A portrayal of a good wife and a good mother
After that, Liang Qichao never thought about taking a concubine again, and after returning to China, he was even more respectful and loving to Li Huixian. And Li Huixian is also concerned about the past
Never mention it
, excited to live their own "tomorrow" small days.
Old age is still accepting the children's new ideas,
Learning from the new culture of the West
, chanting with Beijing and Cantonese English, and getting along with a group of juniors is very happy.
Li Huixian and Liang Qichao had nine children in their lifetime.
All of them are high-achieving students
。 These children were all accomplished in their studies, or became theoretical poets, librarians, economists, social activists, architects, or heroic New Fourth Army soldiers, rocket experts, and army generals.
Liang Qichao has been busy outside for many years, and the work of teaching her children at home naturally fell to Li Huixian, who led by example and used her wisdom to teach her children how to behave and how to deal with things. Li Huixian's actual actions to prove a person's excellence does not mean anything,
What is more important is that the excellence of a family is the real greatness
In 1924, at the age of fifty-five, Li Huixian died of breast cancer.
Liang Qichao wrote many memorial articles such as "Tribute to Lady Liang" for his beloved wife who had accompanied him for thirty-three years, and the descendants of the Liang family also wrote many famous articles for their great mother and mother-in-law. Qiu Jin in the poem"
Hugh said that the woman was not a British object, and the night dragon spring wall sounded
It also happens to be the best portrayal of Li Huixian's great life.
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