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He became popular because of his high appearance, and married his wife Fengzi at the age of 27, but shaved his head when his daughter was 2 months old
Xu Zhixian may not be familiar with his name, but many people have heard his story.
Born in 1991, he is a Mixed-Race Boy of Chinese and Thai descent who was discovered by scouts because of his handsome appearance, and successfully debuted in 2011 with the Thai Talent Show.
Because he was too handsome, he made his debut and married his wife Fengzi
Xu Zhixian, who is 183cm tall and has a very superior appearance, can be said to be a god who appreciates rice. Although there are not many film and television works, they have left a very deep impression on everyone.
Whether it is Xia Chunyu, the grandfather of shizi in "Cute Wife Eater", or Lu Yang, who is humorous and funny in "If Love", there are very gripping performances. It may be that the appearance and personality are in line with the public's preferences, xu Zhixian soon gained a large number of fans.
However, behind the seemingly smooth sailing is not so simple. As an idol, Xu Zhixian decided to get married not long after his debut, or to get pregnant before marriage, which is not a trivial matter for idols.
Idols having girlfriends is an unacceptable thing, and getting married and having children is equivalent to self-destruction.
Even more bizarre is that two months after the birth of the child, Xu Zhixian actually "abandoned his wife and son" and resolutely decided to shave his family.
The child was born 2 months ago, and Xu Zhixian was ordained
Although Xu Zhixian's shaving home did not last long, fans who liked him still expressed puzzlement, and later learned to know the reason behind it.
Because it is very difficult for his parents to cultivate themselves to become talents, Xu Zhixian decided to shave his family for a period of time to pray for his parents, so that he could repay his parents' nurturing grace.
Some people expressed understanding, while others questioned. Although Xu Zhixian's actions are for a reason, choosing to become a monk at the node of the birth of the child is also a little too unappreciated to his wife and daughter.
Although there is a lot of discussion in the outside world, he has now returned to a normal life. Career has also improved, the family is happy, another baby has arrived, the eldest daughter is also 5 years old, and her looks cute and her parents are the same.
The criticism from the outside world seems less important than what is now available.
Just one thing to know, after all, the child has just been born, in the child's life is missing the role of the father, as a father or to give the child enough care.
The importance of dad to children
Studies have found that the amount of interaction between fathers and children affects the amount of children's IQ. The more you interact, the more your IQ is relatively high.
A. Affect the establishment of children's gender awareness
Fathers and mothers and children get along differently, and different ways of getting along will bring different cognitions to children.
Early childhood is an important stage in the development of gender awareness, and if children lack companionship and communication with their fathers in their daily lives, it may lead to gender barriers. For example, boys are feminine, so fathers should spend more time with their children.
B. Affect the child's personality development
Mothers bring more to their children than gentleness, kindness, and compassion, while fathers present children with bravery, self-confidence, independence, and enterprising.
In the game with the father, the child will imitate and learn from the father's appearance, dare to take risks, and be proactive. These qualities are combined with the personality characteristics influenced by the mother to form a more complete personality foundation for the child and bring help to the child's future.
C. It has a positive effect on children's cognitive development
Mothers bring children more common sense in life, while fathers bring "skills" to children.
Because the father has strong hands-on ability, often through hands-on operations, such as installing things, maintenance, etc., these can make the child's hands-on ability to enhance and become more and more independent.
How can dads provide high-quality companionship to their children?
A. Concentrate on companionship
What is high-quality companionship? It's not about how much time it takes, it's about meaningful companionship.
Many parents are "absent-minded" in the process of accompanying their children. This wrong way of companionship actually does more harm than good for children.
In daily life, dads can take some time every day or week to focus on what their children like to do. Play with your children wholeheartedly, in order to truly let your children feel the love of their fathers.
B. Appear in time
When the child needs the father to appear in time, the child's growth will always have some difficulties, this time needs the guidance of the parents to make the child more courageous, know how to face the difficulties.
epilogue
A child's healthy growth is inseparable from the father, and a healthy and happy family is very important to the child's personality and life in the world.
When a man learns that he has a child, he should be responsible for the child and participate in every step of his growth. Don't lose sight of the importance of companionship because you're busy at work!