"I gave you all your life, you can beat you any way you want" Can you imagine that this is a father's words to his own son?
What is even more frightening is that the father's son is like this, silently bearing the abuse of his parents under the influence of this sentence, and his hands are already at risk of amputation when he is rescued.
Xiao Hao, who was in the hospital, was just seven years old, and there was no longer a good place on his body, and he should have played happily among his friends at this age.
But at this time, Xiao Hao's hands were wrapped in gauze into fist covers, and there were scars all over his face and mouth, and what was even more terrifying was that Xiao Hao had become like this entirely because of his parents.
Little Howe
Xiao Hao recalled that his parents clamped his mouth tightly with a clip for ten days, and even the parents used sharp toothpicks to pass through the child's young tongue, and it was difficult to imagine how Xiao Hao carried it.
At this age, children should begin to form their own independent thoughts by taking their parents as an example and complete a psychological transformation.
Especially boys, at this time, will have a worship of their father, with the image of a father to flaunt themselves, the father's love should have made the child more confident, but Xiao Hao is facing a "demonic" father.
What is the reason why parents who are supposed to make their children proud become evil children who abuse their children, let's take a look at the family behind this unfortunate child.
Xiao Hao's father was born in Baidian, Maoming, Guangdong Province, and worked outside the home to meet Xiao Hao's mother from Xiaopenggang Village, Longxi Subdistrict, Huizhou.
The two wandering outside the two people cherished each other, and soon after gave birth to the eldest son Xiao Hao, the birth of the child should have been happy, but because the economic conditions are not rich, Xiao Hao de was born to increase the economic burden of the family.
Due to the uncertain life of the two parents, Xiao Hao was sent back to his hometown in Guangdong by his parents to be cared for by his grandparents, and Xiao Hao spent the first four years of his life happily around his grandparents.
Rural Guangdong
Although the two old men were poor, they were frugal for the sake of this eldest grandson province, and gave Xiao Hao the best things they could buy, pouring all their love into Xiao Hao.
In 2017, XiaoHao's fate changed, this year Xiaohao was picked up by his parents in Huizhou, and returning to his parents should have been a good thing, no one knows what Xiaohao will face next.
The nightmare begins, and he follows his parents To his "new home", a cramped rental house full of clutter.
During these four years, Xiao Hao's parents gave birth to a younger brother and a younger sister, and a family of five lived in such a cottage.
It can be seen that the life of the parents is not good, the father works as a porter in a feed factory, which is a heavy physical labor, and he can't earn a few dollars every day.
But the family of five people want to eat, the pressure of this family can be imagined, under the pressure of Xiao Hao's father borrowed wine to dispel his sorrows, after drinking wine, he beat the child to be angry.
Perhaps because he was not around his parents since he was a child, and it is the naughty age that Xiao Hao, who is only four years old, has become a "catharsis" for the pressure of his parents.
The couple turned their dissatisfaction with life into a slap on Xiao Hao's body, and he did not resist from beginning to end.
Xiao Hao's parents went too far, from the simple beating at the beginning to the later boiling water scalding, clip plus, toothpick pricking, Xiao Hao's injuries never got better, until October 2020, Xiao Hao's situation was discovered by his uncle.
The father had no money in his hand, and in order to borrow money, he cast a demonic gaze on his son, and Xiao Hao's hands were burned by his father.
Xiao Hao's injured hand
Immediately taken to the hospital by his parents, took a photo and sent it to the family group, the parents said that their son was accidentally burned by boiling water, and he wanted to collect 70,000 yuan for Xiao Hao's treatment, and the alert uncle felt that something was wrong.
Before that, Xiao Hao's father had sent him a photo, and the photo did not look like he was burned by boiling water, and when asked why Xiao Hao had an injury on his face, his father also claimed that it was caused by an infection.
Before Xiao Hao was burned by his father with a cigarette butt, his uncle also quarreled with Xiao Hao's father about this, thinking that his uncle and cousin did not dare to stop for a moment, and rushed to Huizhou without stopping.
Although the two had already done mental construction on the way to come, they were still frightened by the appearance of Xiao Hao.
There was no one in front of him, there was no longer a complete piece of skin on the young little hand, and the rest of the body was covered with scars.
Xiao Hao's parents quickly sent Xiao Hao to the hospital, and the doctor's words made the two feel heartache, and the severity of Xiao Hao's injury was far beyond their imagination.
"The child's forearm, hands are badly burned, and the degree of wound burns has reached the level of third-degree burns."
After the examination, the bad news came one after another, Xiao Hao did not undergo timely and formal treatment after the burn, coupled with his own malnutrition, resulting in serious infection.
Further progression will reach the level of necrotizing fasciitis, which is likely to lead to amputation, and doctors recommend immediate surgery.
The huge cost of surgery overwhelmed the family, and after the doctor's treatment, Xiao Hao was taken back to his hometown in a Chinese medicine hospital for further treatment.
However, just after three days, Xiao Hao's condition deteriorated sharply, not only did he face the risk of amputation at any time without returning the high fever, but also accompanied by his uncle and grandfather, Xiao Hao returned to the Southern Hospital.
The wound is infected in a large area, and it is necessary to carry out rapid debridement surgery, and Xiao Hao's burn is very deep, and the wound that has been healed must be torn open again and debridement treatment.
The pain was unimaginable, and the little boy survived, and at night his scarred body lay on the hospital bed, and he exclaimed in his sleep: "I obey, Daddy don't burn me, Mommy don't hit me..."
Looking at his grandson, who was covered in scars from cigarette butts, Grandpa couldn't help but wipe away tears.
It was learned from his uncle that Xiao Hao's father had not borrowed money from relatives and friends on the grounds that his child was ill.
Once and again, there is no end, and sometimes friends who know that their family is in financial difficulties and have spare money will borrow a little, and the seriousness of this time makes no one think of it.
Gu Xiaohao's uncle said that the reason why it took so long to find out was because as long as Xiaohao's father borrowed money, he rarely contacted his family when he went out of the house, and almost "no one could find it."
In the past, they also found that Xiaohao was abused, and the grandparents wanted to keep their grandchildren around, but they were "forcibly taken away" by Xiaohao's parents.
In order to leave Xiao Hao behind uncle and argue with Xiao Hao's parents, but Xiao Hao's parents are after all biological parents, the child is still more secure to follow the parents, the uncle can only helplessly watch Xiao Hao being taken away.
I didn't expect that this soft heart would cause so much harm to Xiao Hao, and Xiao Hao, who was accompanied by his uncle, was interviewed by reporters in the hospital bed, and we learned what kind of inhuman treatment this child had suffered.
Xiao Hao spoke slowly, cautiously saying every sentence:
"I am the eldest son, I have two younger siblings, the younger brother is five years old, the younger sister is younger, mom and dad like younger siblings, never beat them" "Dad wants me to eat, he just wants me to eat until I can't stand, I was eaten to vomit, he beat me because I couldn't eat"
When the child says this, the child's lips are swollen, he cannot speak normally, and the words spoken are vague and can only be heard clearly if he listens carefully.
"Three children have not read" Xiao Hao's uncle said: "When the children were in their hometown, they did not read books, and they did not read after being taken out by their parents, and I don't know why their family did not read to their children." Maybe it comes down to the word "poor."
Xiao Hao's mother said that she also showed the school to her children, and the surrounding schools all inquired, Xiao Hao studied in his hometown before, because of the separation of the family, Xiao Hao's father and the family had a big quarrel and took Xiao Hao out.
The surrounding schools are too expensive, and they have two other children to support, so they can't afford the children's tuition.
She argued that her husband was usually very good to the children, and Xiao Hao did not get less love than his younger siblings, but Xiao Hao was usually more naughty.
Xiao Hao is always making mistakes, and he will continue to make mistakes after teaching him.
She claimed that her husband was also "good for the children", the son was not the fault of the father, and the husband was worried that Xiao Hao would go astray when he grew up in the future, so he strictly "educated" Xiao Hao.
This time Xiao Hao's burns were originally an accidental misstep, after all, they were the parents of the child how could they be so cruel to the child.
Although they may care less about XiaoHao than their younger siblings, it is all because Xiaohao has "grown up".
As a parent, of course, we should focus more on younger children, and she also mentioned that the clothes on Xiaohao's body are not cheaper than those of younger siblings.
But if he really hurts the child, how can Xiao Hao be malnourished, or even weak to the point of anemia, not to mention the injuries on his body.
Xiao Hao's father was still an honest and ordinary rural man before he got married, but he went out to work and went out of society to be infected by the bad atmosphere of society.
Often drink, after drinking will be spilled, hit the child, grandpa is how to stop can not stop.
Now that Xiao Hao's father has been detained for constituting "abuse", Xiao Hao's mother still does not understand why her husband was arrested just for "educating" the children.
"I still have two children to raise in my family, and now I can't go out to work, I really can't take care of it, Xiao Hao's hands need to be taken care of, and I hope that the law will be tried lightly according to the family situation."
Fortunately, Xiao Hao was very lucky, and after the incident was exposed by the media, many caring people came to visit with charity funds.
This strong and shy child gave everyone a deep impression, although his hands were wrapped in gauze and the pain was unbearable, but Xiao Hao still did not cry or make a fuss and obediently cooperated with the treatment of doctors and nurses.
Although the doctor had tried his best to save Xiao Hao's hands, because of excessive necrosis, Xiao Hao could not be cut off two fingers.
Despite this, he is still optimistic and lively, and his health has just improved and he is mischievous in the hospital, which makes many doctors and nurses laugh at him.
When someone came to see him, he brought a toy gun to XiaoHao, and Xiaohao loved it, xiaohao said that his father was a bad person, and he would become a police officer to "catch the bad guy" in the future.
Someone gave Xiao Hao a military uniform, and he looked very angry when he put on the military uniform, standing under the camera and paying a non-standard military salute.
When asked if Xi wants to go back to his parents' house and live with his parents, Xiao Hao said that he does not want to go back to his parents' house, and his parents are bad people and are not good for him.
Even in the hospital, Xiao Hao felt that this place was safer than home, at least there were kind nurse sisters and doctors who were dedicated to helping him recover.
With the help of caring people, Xiao Hao's surgery costs were settled, and after the operation, under the care of his grandfather and uncle, he slowly became confident, and a smile that belonged to a child gradually appeared on his face.
Many netizens are worried that Xiaohao will cause serious psychological problems because of this matter, and psychological counseling should be carried out.
Studies have shown that living environments that have been subjected to domestic violence for a long time can have a very large impact on children and may also cause psychological distortions.
Fortunately, Xiao Hao did not show the appearance of psychological trauma.
His optimism and strength, heart-wrenching, and donations from all directions were pooled into the hospital.
Xiao Hao received love from the south of the sea, and believes that seeing so many strange kind people helping himself Xiao Hao will soon be able to get out of the psychological shadow and become a sunny child.
In order to make a complete recovery, Xiao Hao needs to carry out a very long rehabilitation training, the whole process may last for several years, for this young child, it will be a big torture.
But seeing Xiao Hao in military uniform, we can believe that this optimistic and strong "little soldier" can use his strong willpower to survive this hurdle.
Although the domestic violence of his parents has done great harm to XiaoHao's body and mind, fortunately, his grandfather and uncle who love him will always accompany him, and the care of caring people can also make Xiaohao get out of the haze faster.
Xiao Hao's encounter has also happened to many children at the same time, and we should think about how to avoid this from happening.
When parents are unable to raise their children, give these families some support and help; schools can pay more attention to the physical and mental development of unfortunate children in their daily teaching activities. These are all things we can do.
Hopefully, this kind of thing will never happen again, and every child can have a happy childhood.