Regardless of the bed, adults and children can't sleep well, don't hesitate, points!

Deciding whether to sleep in separate beds with your baby is something that every family with a baby has to go through.

Everyone's "parenting philosophy" about sleeping in separate beds is different:

Sleep in beds too early, afraid that the baby will not be safe; too late to sleep in separate beds, and afraid that the baby is not independent, but also affect the relationship between husband and wife...

"We can't argue about this matter. The child's father said that he should sleep in a small room to exercise his independence, and I think that more than one year old is too young to bear. ”

"My son is about to go to elementary school, and he doesn't want to sleep in a room by himself, so he has to squeeze into our bed.

"My daughter is three years old, she has been doing ideological work for a long time, and the whole family has held an independent sleeping ceremony, and the result is always to go to bed happily, and then come back to us in the middle of the night crying and crying.

What to do?

Love Baby does not want to sleep with ta's mother

After reading this article, it is OK!

These methods are not easy for babies to sleep alone

Wait for deep sleep to play again

For babies 3 months ago, sleeping in the arms of their mothers and being able to gain more security is not a good thing.

If you really can't put it down, then hold it for 20 minutes and try it again when your baby is in deep sleep.

Pay attention to the technique when putting your baby down

Pay attention to the temperature change between the embrace and the bed, when holding the arm can pad a small towel, put it together when you put it. Start with the buttocks and then put the head down.

Stabilize for 1-2 minutes before drawing your hands and observing your baby's condition while reassuring.

Under 4 months of age, you can use the "booing method", assisted by booing, with rhythmic taps;

Babies after 4 months of age can try to soothe with singing lullabies with taps.

If he was still crying, he could be picked up, stopped crying and put him down.

Put it down before you go to sleep

The most fundamental way is to put the child in the crib when he is not asleep, so that he can learn to sleep by himself.

Some mothers are worried that letting the baby sleep alone at such a young age will not affect the baby's sense of security.

so......

How old is your baby to sleep on his own?

The biggest obstacle between many mothers and the liberation of their own hands" is not to dare to let go.

But in fact, in November 2016, the American Academy of Pediatrics updated several recommendations on a safe sleeping environment for babies, stating that:

Newborns from birth to before the age of 1,

Should sleep in the same room as parents,

But you need to sleep in your own crib or cradle,

After the age of 1, he began to consider sleeping in a separate room with his parents.

What if you want to sleep with your baby?

Is it really not advisable?

Sleeping with your baby is not without benefits.

The first is to make the baby feel more secure

Sleeping in the arms of the mother or the arms of the father can help the baby establish a healthy sleep attitude so that the baby does not hate sleep. At the same time, it can also make up for the intimacy that Mom and Dad missed during the day.

The second is to facilitate breastfeeding and timely comfort

The mother sleeps next to the baby and can put the baby back to sleep by gently patting and soothing him before he fully wakes up; if the baby sleeps alone, the baby may be fully awake when the mother runs over, which is more difficult to coax the baby to sleep.

Sleep together in separate beds, how to choose?

Many times, security and independence are a major consideration for mothers on the question of whether to sleep in separate beds.

In fact, whether it is a sense of security or independence, it is in the process of growing up, through the comprehensive influence of all aspects. Some babies, usually the mother spends more time with him, that he sleeps in separate beds, and the sense of security is still very strong.

The most important thing is to choose the state of the baby and the mother. Whichever you choose, the most important thing is safety!

Sleep with your baby, the following should be noted:

Let the baby sleep flat;

Add a railing to the bed so that the baby sleeps on the side of the bed rail, not between the parents;

If you take drugs or alcohol that will make you drowsy, never sleep with your baby;

The bed should be bigger to give everyone plenty of space.

Sleep in separate beds, pay attention to:

Do not put towels, pillows, etc. on the small bed that are easy to cover the mouth and nose;

If the baby can stand on his or her feet, remember to lower the height of the bed board so as not to flip out of the bed rail;

Most importantly, pay close attention to your baby's condition.