Text/Xiao He Social Theory (Original Article Ban Plagiarism)
Title: 3 big mothers talk about daughters-in-law on the high-speed rail, saying that if they do not have grandchildren, they should not bring a baby, and the reward for giving birth to two children and three children is 60,000
In China, there has always been a saying that there are many children and many blessings, which means that the more children, the better, and the prosperity of people is the sign of a successful family.
Young people may not care much about this statement, but the older generation is convinced of it, even to the point of being deeply rooted.
As soon as the sons get married, they will immediately urge the couple to have children, one must have children, two is not too much, and three is the best.
But this kind of thinking is obviously not in line with the current era, and the cost of raising children is too high today, and it is very stressful for an ordinary family to raise a child, let alone two children and three children.
And having children is also a ghost door for women, and many people do not want to experience this pain for a second time in their lives.
Combined with reality, we will also find that the main force of today's second and third births is the generation after 75 to 80, and their generation is more influenced by their parents, so they show greater fertility intentions.
In contrast, young couples after the 90s, their desire to have children is not strong, at this time, if the parents urge, it will often cause family conflicts.
Recently, a female netizen on the way to take the high-speed rail, she met 3 big mothers who talked about their daughter-in-law, and they complained about their daughter-in-law in various ways.
However, they said that they still can't escape the problem of having children, for the first child is a girl, the mothers suggest that if the daughter-in-law does not give birth to a second child, do not help with the child, if you give birth to a second child and a third child, not only help with the baby but also reward 60,000 yuan.
Because the voices of the mothers are relatively large, the passengers around them can hear very clearly, during which a woman can't help but get up and look forward to express her dissatisfaction, but the mothers turn a blind eye and chat vigorously about home.
And the female netizen happened to be sitting next to one of the big mothers, after listening to the dialogue of the big mothers, she couldn't help but feel sad for several daughters-in-law, and it was indeed a bad thing to meet this kind of unreasonable mother-in-law.
First of all, whether to have a boy or a girl depends entirely on the man, and people who have studied biology basically know it, but in reality, some in-laws always shift the responsibility to their daughter-in-law.
Secondly, the birth of a baby belongs to the couple's own wishes, parents can only make suggestions but have no right to interfere, as for whether to bring children or not, this choice also determines the future attitude of the daughter-in-law.
Although it is not the responsibility of the previous generation, but the current social environment in China is like this, young people in order to earn money to support their families, can only throw their children to their parents, which is also the helplessness of life.
I believe that when couples sometimes have children, they also want to be able to do it themselves, after all, their children hurt themselves.
The performance of these 3 big mothers also alludes to some mothers-in-law in reality, who laugh and giggle behind their backs but say bad things about their daughters-in-law, which is indeed very disgusting.
However, such mothers-in-law are a minority after all, so we should not worry too much, nowadays the vast majority of parents want their children to live happily, as for how many children, it is entirely up to the wishes of the two families.
In my opinion, smart parents will not interfere too much in the lives of their children, but privately give them a good pass, respect for the daughter-in-law is actually to protect the son's marriage.
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