"If I get married, don't come, I won't attend your funeral," a "letter of renunciation" written by a schoolboy to his friend. It seems that the relationship between these two children is a little tense, so that they have written such decisive words.
Moreover, the children not only wrote a little bit, but also thought of a lot: "If you fall into the river, I will not go into the water to save, and I will not need your help when I fall on the road." For the purpose of mutual hatred, we will break off relations here. From now on, it will be like a strange road, and the two will not be related." Both sides signed, in addition, witnesses.
From the content point of view, it seems that the contradiction between the two partners is not small, to the point where they cannot continue to get along. Moreover, they also know how to format the letter of renunciation, and some of them also have red handprints from both sides, which is really full of ritual.
After many netizens saw this "letter of renunciation", they found it interesting and amusing. I don't think of this as a serious thing, but I feel that today's children are too interesting, and there will be a way to learn many things from adults.
In fact, the play between primary school students does not have to be taken seriously, the face of a child is like the face of a young girl, it will change when it is said, it is indeed faster than turning a book. But it does not have a long nature, and it can be said that it can soon become better, which is the nature and characteristics of children.
Therefore, as long as there is no problem of principle between children, they should try to deal with it themselves. Maybe today I wrote a "letter of renunciation" and tomorrow I will play with my hands again. The little boat of children's friendship sinks fast and floats fast.
Parents do not need to be overly involved in these things between children, otherwise, it is very likely that things that are not the problem will be problematic, so that the contradiction will really escalate, which has a counterproductive effect.
Moreover, allowing children to deal with contradictions on their own can also improve their ability to solve and deal with problems, which is an opportunity for children to improve themselves.
All in all, children have their own world and their own views of friendship and contradictions. When encountering such a situation as writing a "letter of renunciation", parents do not have to care too much, let alone panic and anxiety. You can give the child some simple positive guidance, but you can't directly intervene, and you can't replace the child to solve the problem. Avoid children's ability to develop dependence and reduce their comprehensive ability.
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