The concubine Rulan and her mother, Lady Wang, are really a mother and daughter who contract the laughing point, and the two of them and Lin Xiaoniang and Mo Lan fight wits and courage, especially If Lan opens her teeth and dances her claws, it can hurt Mo Lan miserably, but this move has circled a lot of Ru Lan's powder. But Ru Lan's mind is not very bad, it is spoiled, and she does not know that the sky is high, if she is a person with a deep mind, she will be like Mo Lan, and she will not follow the poor Wen family, but why does the sister contact her much less in the back? Revisit "Knowing or Not" to understand: why Minglan and Hualan sisters, in the end, are far away from the concubine Rulan.
1. Etiquette
The conditions for women under the feudal society are too much, too much, the dynasty set in the middle is not very obvious, but according to the women's clothing, it should be the Ming Dynasty, and it is always known that the Ming and Qing dynasties are the most deeply rooted period of the feudal system, saving heavenly reason and destroying people's desires, so when women are not married, they are staying in their own boudoir, as if they are minglan Hualan Rulan three people, in the house is intimate, because only these people can be seen, only these sisters are accompanied, plus the sake of etiquette, The maid is different from the concubine, and there is also a distinction between the concubines and the inferior among the ladies, so the slaves and the masters are even more different, which is why they are intimate in the house.
2. Circles
Hua Lan and Ming Lan are high marriages, but what about Ru Lan? Low married to Wen Yanjing, they married different people contact will naturally be different, after the three people came out of the palace, the circle and vision are naturally different, and there are many busy things every day, just like Minglan and Hualan, are big ladies, are famous nobles, there are too many things to deal with, busy managing the house, busy fighting with concubines, and they are all everyone, the number of times they meet can be said to be only a lot, when they meet acquaintances, it is not particularly cherished, In addition, there are many topics in the affairs of the management house, so naturally this side is closer. But what about Rulan? Marrying Wen Yanjing, who is not considered to be rich, and even relatively poor in comparison, can be said to have no common language with the two, plus Wen Yanjing's mother is difficult for Rulan, Rulan here also follows the three from the four virtues, where can go out to see the sister and the sixth sister, the status is low and the number of meetings is less, the two are naturally not close to Rulan.
3. Stay away
After Rulan went out with Wen Yanjing, she went to Quanzhou to take up a post, Rulan naturally wanted to follow Wen Yanjing, and it was farther away when she came and went, Minglan and Hualan naturally saw Rulan less, and Rulan followed her lover as she was also willing, less contact, and it was even more impossible to meet, so the two stayed away from Rulan.
This is a very realistic thing, friends who have played well before may no longer contact each other when they are far away, and when they meet again, they will be like strangers, they may say that you are really familiar, or they may not see each other for a long time.