One
Ms. Chen and her husband Xiaoding have been married for 13 years, her relationship with everyone in the in-laws is not good, everyone in the in-laws says that she is like a hedgehog, see who pierces whom, of course, her husband also thinks so!
Ms. Chen felt that no matter what Xiaoding's family said, Xiaoding would listen to them!
She said something to her husband, it was not as effective as a sentence said by Xiao Ding's sister-in-law!
In a word, Ms. Chen believes that she does not have any status in her husband's heart!
Two
Mr. Ding has a dull personality, does not encounter major events, will not be easily angry, and for his grumpy wife, he can bear it at first.
Later, I couldn't bear it, because my wife's temper, like a tornado, came on any occasion.
Even at the funeral of Xiao Ding's father, he could fight with his relatives and friends and do the absurd thing of "great rebellion", which made Xiao Ding feel extremely bored!
On the day of Xiaoding's father's funeral, it rained heavily. At that time, Xiao Ding's aunt asked Ms. Chen to take down the wreath, but Ms. Chen did not take it!
Ms. Chen said that the custom on their side was that the daughter-in-law was only responsible for the funeral, not the custom of taking a wreath.
At that time, Aunt Ding said, "You girl, how can your heart be like this?"
Ms. Chen, my temper came up at that time! Thinking about his father-in-law's pickiness about her before, he always compared her with other people's daughters-in-law! I think she doesn't make as much money as someone else's daughter-in-law, and I don't think she has as good potato shreds as someone else's daughter-in-law.
I also thought that the sister-in-law, mother-in-law and other people usually disrespect her!
At this time, Ms. Chen quickly took a tool to shovel garbage and hit Aunt Ding's back.
Although the fight was not heavy, it still angered everyone, and everyone's boredom with her increased by a few points!
Xiao Ding said that another time, at the birthday party of Xiao Ding's mother, that is, Ms. Chen's mother-in-law, she stabbed the basket again!
At that time, Ms. Chen's mother-in-law had a birthday, and everyone else gave 1,000 yuan, but Xiaoding generously gave 3,000 yuan.
After a while, everyone suggested buying firecrackers, and Xiaoding had to take out 100 yuan to buy firecrackers!
Ms. Chen whispered to Xiaoding: "I just took 3,000, why do I have to take 100 now?"
At that time, Ms. Chen was sitting very close to her sister-in-law, and her sister-in-law heard the words.
He said disapprovingly, "When did you take the 3,000, do you have the money?"
Next, Ms. Chen went to her mother-in-law and said to her mother-in-law: "We will take 3,000 for your birthday, and Xiao Man (the name of Ms. Chen's sister-in-law) will not let us say it!"
Xiao Ding's sister scolded: "Who doesn't let you say, who doesn't let you say, can you make so much money?"
As a result, Ms. Chen quarreled with her sister-in-law, her mother-in-law, and the three people, and Xiaoding always said that Ms. Chen did not understand things and was also arguing with Ms. Chen!
Ms. Chen felt aggrieved, and since then, she has lived a life of not having contact with her in-laws!
Three
Once, the sister-in-law brought two boxes of milk, gave the milk to Xiao Ding, and asked Xiao Ding to send it upstairs to Ms. Chen, which means to take the initiative to ask for peace.
Ms. Chen felt that if she did not come to the door to apologize, she was not sincere, so she threw out two boxes of milk!
Last year's New Year's Day, Xiaoding did not tell Ms. Chen, took his parents over for a night, and Ms. Chen jumped like a thunderbolt!
The tutors are not accustomed to Ms. Chen's practices and are criticizing Ms. Chen!
Ms. Chen went on to say that one year, she called her sister-in-law to discuss things, and it was her six-year-old daughter who answered the phone.
At that time, the little girl said, the phone call from the epileptic aunt, there are many people next to it laughing, what does your epileptic aunt look like? Haven't we seen it yet?
Ms. Chen heard it and thought that it must be the sister-in-law who taught her daughter, so she scolded her on the phone!
Ms. Chen then said one more thing with tears in her eyes.
She said she had a baby in 2004. At that time, Xiaoding had been working in other places.
When there were a few days before the due date, it was optimistic that it was The birthday of Ms. Chen's mother, and Ms. Chen had a big belly and went to celebrate her mother's birthday!
As a result, after her birthday, Ms. Chen was unwell and went to the hospital, and finally the child died not long after she was born.
Ms. Chen's father-in-law, at that time, called not to let her son come back, saying that they could handle the family's affairs, so that Xiaoding could go to work with peace of mind!
Xiao Ding also felt that the children were gone, and it was useless for him to go back, so he did not go back!
When the in-laws took care of Ms. Chen, they were all complaining about her, blaming her for not protecting the child, complaining that she knew that she was about to give birth, and what birthday she had with her mother!
Ms. Chen, at that time, there was an idea, the in-laws are not good!
Four
I read the comments, everyone is scolding Ms. Chen's violent temper, I think this kind of ignorant woman, who marries her who is unlucky or something.
I read it and disagree!
I see in this story an image of low emotional intelligence, no communication, full of anger, eager to be loved, eager to be respected!
Ms. Chen actually just needs her husband to stand with herself, she just needs a husband who can always maintain herself!
Her thorns are thick and wrap themselves tightly, and whoever provokes her, her "thorns" will run out and stab others!
In fact, it is a defense mechanism, in order to avoid hurting yourself, you shield everything that may hurt you from the beginning!
In the end, I think, it is her husband Xiaoding, who does not love her so much!