Can I keep my woman out of work? What kind of uncle, what kind of guest will make Tu Lei say such a thing angrily?
The man in the video told such a story, he once wanted to put his car into the 4S shop maintenance in his spare time, at this time his current girlfriend immediately stood up and wanted to take over this job to help him maintain the car, the man was very excited, because his girlfriend did nothing at home. I didn't expect to be able to offer to do things this time, and he agreed very happily, but the result was unexpected.
After the woman's normal maintenance of the car in the 4S shop, but did some small hands and feet, the man who returned home received a call from a friend in the 4s shop, and heard that his car was installed with a valuable panoramic camera, or an infrared, even in the front and co-pilot can be monitored. This is also quite angry with the man, the girlfriend proposed to maintain the car, obviously set up a set for herself, want to monitor herself, let him be particularly angry.
But the girlfriend did not admit that he installed this infrared monitor in order to monitor him, and the teacher Tu Lei in the audience asked her if she knew the price of this monitor during the installation process. The woman did not know the price at first, which was given more than 8,000 when paying the bill.
Teacher Tu Lei said at this time that this woman was obviously
Spending other people's money is not painful, generally speaking, the driving recorder is generally very good in two to three thousand, not to mention the 8000 driving recorder, for her woman who does not work and has no income, spending other people's money is not painful at all.
At the same time, Teacher Tu Lei also raised questions and asked the woman why she did not work at home? The woman immediately said that I had a cleaning at home and did not work.
At this point his boyfriend sighed and said where to work! The house was like a kennel. In addition to cleaning, I don't cook, I don't wash my clothes, and I sleep all day. Nor do I go out to look for a job.
Boyfriend's words, cooking instant noodles counts as cooking? It caused a lot of laughter on the spot.
Unexpectedly, the woman also made a shameful behavior, when the man went to the unit, she first went to the man's job to open the boyfriend's computer, find out his QQ chat history, and has been flipping through it.
The woman immediately retorted that she was tired of walking around the company, went to her boyfriend's company to take a break, saw that the computer was not turned off, so she opened the QQ interface, and did not specifically go over the boyfriend's chat history.
Who will believe this?
The host immediately took over the words, generally when going to the company of male and female friends, they will first call each other, ask the party is inconvenient, and then go up to meet, like this woman sneaking up, there must be no peace of mind.
Especially when the man said that when he opened the office door, the woman saw him frightened and threw the mouse out, if he didn't do anything bad, how could he be so excited and scared?
Finally the man issued an exclamation, he was really tired after spending 4 years together.
It turned out that the man was from Beijing, and the woman was from Jiangsu, and the two were so far apart but could walk together because when the woman's cousin got married, the man went to the wedding, he knew her cousin-in-law, and after the matchmaking of the cousin and the cousin-in-law, the two walked together.
Because the two families are far apart, this long-distance relationship is very uncomfortable, so the woman decided to go to Beijing to find a boyfriend. After coming to Beijing, the woman wants to find a job with a very good salary, the minimum salary is about 8,000, but for people like him who have just entered the society, it is very difficult to find such a job, so her boyfriend has no way but to say that he should not go out to work at home, and do housework every day, after all, the man is in the entrepreneurial stage, or a little money.
But the woman who does not work at home does not do anything, and every day she has to take money to spend, and the man is very unhappy that he feels that he is paying but getting nothing. And every day it's like being stared at.
In fact, the reason why women will be like this is that they feel that their status in this family is not high, and
Men have such thoughts, and they also feel that they are being watched every day. Both of them complain about this relationship, what kind of solution is needed?
Teacher Tu Lei expressed his own views on this, for this man, he said that he was a small boss, but he had to pretend to be like a big boss and learn from others to raise women, which was not the end of the trouble.
A small boss with an annual salary of 120,000 actually wants his wife to go out to work, which not only hurts himself, but also harms others. It's obviously my own vanity at work, and I can keep my woman out of work, can you? What a great uncle,
Teacher Tu Lei hit the nail on the head.
When talking about women, Teacher Tu Lei said that her problems were more serious. Women want to get something for nothing, but also very lazy, for the boyfriend's income does not know how much, but also want to monitor his life every day, fortunately the boyfriend is not handsome, otherwise the woman may not be able to sleep every day. When you want to spend money to ask for money, you have to look at your boyfriend's face. The real happy woman must have her own independent economic conditions, so that she can put herself in the right position, not rely on men.
Actually emotionally. Every couple or couple has a big or small problem, and if it can be solved together, it can also work together to enter a happy life.