Sukhomlinsky, a famous Soviet educator, believes that delicate observation, the ability to summarize things, the ability to find problems and solve problems, the ability to feel beautiful things, and the children's communication skills and cooperation spirit can only be completed by learning chess. Because of this recognition of the educational function of chess, many countries have made chess a compulsory course in primary schools. China's Ministry of Education and the State General Administration of Sport also issued a document to promote the three chess games into the classroom. Scientific research also confirms the above point of view, the results of the survey in our country are: children who have studied chess for one to three years and achieved provincial and municipal rankings generally have the best comprehensive quality among their peers.
Learning chess is good for the healthy growth of teenagers. So when a child learns chess, what should parents do?
Parents' perception problems
Parents play a vital role in their children's education, no matter what projects their children learn, the correct concept should be: to help children grow and progress.
Common problems and manifestations of parents' concepts:
1, try the psychology, its essence is that parents give up the right to education of their children, but also lose the influence on their children; children will not feel that they have the right to decide and the freedom to choose what to like, he just feels that he is not cared for.
2, too enthusiastic, the child loses the decision-making power, but also lose interest; on the contrary, some parents behave as laissez-faire, so that the child feels snubbed and helpless.
3, the child loses, parents feel humiliated; and do not help the child practice, analysis, etc.
4, some achievements are believed to be brought about by the child's intelligence. Correct concept: personal diligence, hard work, tenacity, perseverance, family expenses, coaches and parents' labor in exchange for achievements. Some achievements also have an element of luck, such as the absence of strong players.
5, short face, listen to bad coaches to arrange chess, change age, etc. Children should grow up healthily and behave in an upright manner, and parents must do a good job, otherwise the negative impact is long-term.
The right thing to do
1. Care starts from the correct treatment of victory and defeat, to the difficulties of jointly.
2, let the child know that hard work is the fundamental. "Sweat more in peacetime, less blood in wartime."
3, to ensure the child's good state, let him maintain a positive, confident, interested in things, correct treatment of mistakes, not too much emphasis on objective factors.
4. Strict requirements.