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Why do 1-year-olds like to poke your eyes, nose, mouth, and slap you if they don't pay attention?
If your child starts behaving like this, congratulations, he's starting to get into a tactilely sensitive phase and his brain is developing further.
The child initially perceives the texture of an object, which is smooth and rough, cold, hot, soft and hard, all by touching it with his hands.
During the six-month period of appetite, the main way to explore the world around you is to nibble and bite through your mouth, rather than by using your hands to feel it. The most obvious thing is to nibble fingers, nibble on books, and everything else that can be stuffed into the mouth.
About ten months later, it entered the outbreak period of upper body movements, and there were acts such as cutting people, tearing books, having a big temper, and even hitting the wall. This coincides with the time point when the child can climb and can walk, and the more skilled the child climbs, the more coordinated his body movements are.
First, the child cut people, what to do?
1, buy the right hole book and cardboard book, let him enjoy the buckle,
2, small nails cut diligently, otherwise it will not only scratch adults, but also scratch themselves.
Second, the so-called beating behavior.
In fact, he didn't know what he meant by this action.
When we say that the child loses his temper, hits people, hits the wall, etc., this is just one way for him to express his emotions.
A child of about one year old, the language expression ability is very weak, but the body movements are becoming more and more flexible, and any emotions he has may be expressed through his various behaviors, whether happy or unhappy, but he does not control the strength well.
So, don't berate him when he has this kind of behavior, "How can you hit someone?" Don't want him to hit you, you hit him.
You can tell your child, do you want to touch your mother, but you just used a little force, your mother is a little painful, you can touch it gently.
Take his hand and let him gently touch your face, rub your nose, rub your mouth, and practice it repeatedly, and your child will know that this behavior is the correct touch behavior.
Third, like to tear books, what to do?
You can take the toilet paper and tear it with him, let him tear it as much as possible, the more it is torn, the better, which not only meets his needs to tear the book, but also helps him exercise fine hand movements.
Don't stop him immediately when he tears the book, "the book you just bought was torn like this by you, you don't know how to cherish it at all, and you will never buy it for you again", so it is easy to destroy the child's concentration.