Yu Minhong: The key for the poor to turn over is to face up to the "3 kinds of fear", which is more effective than burying their heads in hard work

Yu Minhong of New Oriental has to be said to be a generation of strange people. Relying on his own hands to create a new Oriental, teaching and educating people, although for some reasons his career plummeted, it was a huge blow.

However, Yu Minhong still did not give in to fate, but instead adjusted his mentality, regrouped and made a comeback.

People like him who have experienced great winds and waves will have a particularly profound understanding of life and success.

Yu Minhong once said:

"From growing up to maturity, I was never able to get rid of the pain of fear: the fear of poverty, the fear of backwardness, the fear of ease. It is because of these fears that I am where I am today. ”

If you are also experiencing the fear of "poverty, ease, and backwardness", you may wish to learn from Yu Minhong, how he turned fear into strength, got out of the predicament, and soared.

First, the fear of poverty

Yu Minhong was not born well, his family was very poor, the college entrance examination experienced several blows and failures, and with the encouragement of his family, he finally did not give up.

Forced into a desperate situation, he has only one way to choose, that is, to stumble on the college entrance examination, must be admitted to a good university, completely out of the small fishing village, in order to be worthy of his family's efforts.

For Yu Minhong when he was a student, it was really not easy to think through this.

He tried his best to reach heights that others could easily achieve.

Faced with poverty and an extremely difficult living environment, Yu Minhong is unwilling to succumb to fate, and his parents do not want him to follow his own old path.

People are forced out, poor to the extreme, people's potential will be stimulated.

First of all, we must not be crushed by the life of poverty, and our minds must be strong enough; second, we must know how to turn fear into motivation and force ourselves to keep moving forward.

Second, the fear of backwardness

Yu Minhong, who was admitted to Peking University, did not disappear in fear.

He looked at the classmates around him, most of the family conditions are good, either the family has money, or the family is powerful, and the most important is also the child of the middle-class family.

Yu Minhong seemed out of place in the middle, which made him feel fearful again.

If you change to an ordinary person, you may soon feel inferior and think that you are inferior to others.

But Yu Minhong did not, he just felt that he was backward, and he also felt that he must not continue to fall behind.

However, if you want to be looked up to, you must be better than them in some way. After losing his background, learning became Yu Minhong's only reliance and choice, and he once again had no choice.

It was the fear of backwardness that forced Yu Minhong to the "road of no return" of studying well, and he was destined to be no longer ordinary.

Third, the fear of ease

Continue to study hard until Yu Minhong graduates.

After graduation, almost all of his classmates chose to study abroad, and he did not have this condition because he had no money.

In the end, Yu Minhong could only choose to stay in school as a teacher, with a salary of 200 yuan per month. For the rural people of that era, it was already very good.

But Yu Minhong once again had fear, a fear of ease.

He was afraid that his classmates would return from abroad and become excellent talents in the eyes of others, and he was just a teacher.

Compared with the two, studying abroad is obviously more gold-rich.

It is precisely because he is afraid, he is afraid, afraid that he will lose his job because of ease.

So, once again, he was forced onto the road to making money, and only enough wealth could calm his heart.

Because of extracurricular classes, he was discovered by the school and eventually dismissed. But Yu Minhong did not become depressed, but took this opportunity to completely open a fantasy life.

At the insistence of Yu Minhong, he founded New Oriental, and eventually transformed from a poor boy in the countryside to the chairman of a listed company, becoming a billionaire who was envied by countless people.

No complaints, no background, no connections, no money, he leaned on his hands to get people all over the world to cast a look of respect and admiration at him.

The source of all this must be attributed to his fear of "poverty, ease, and backwardness."